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Date:     2024-01-22
Title:    "What do you mean by" #0055
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Church:   What Do You Mean By
Type:     Church Service
Duration: 2h 11m
Language: English
URL:      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uzLqXn-1uQ
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by number 55 where we are going through personality questions such as what personalities are best which ones what are my favorite types of personalities and why and Tommy is back eating what are you eating cheesecake cheeses and blueberries what's up guys what's up Jules how's it going all right ask anything you want what's up guys welcome live I got some fun questions and uh some cool questions I I I like these questions this time and also uh I've got a big thing of water today this is a I got my mom asked me what I wanted at Walmart so Essentia overachieving H2O 9.8 pH higher ionized hydration what's up Daniel Mo Welcome To Live overachieving Water I guess it had like parental parental issues growing up or something talk to the water as it's being bottled yes overachieving I hate water you're going to be a doctor a lawyer and what else an astronaut you're going to be drunk by the best doctor good drink lots of water yeah thanks Jules what's up Steph welcome to the live hello hello hello should be a cool live Lord willing I'm going to do the 16 personalities test live and then I'm going to have Tommy do it live yeah we're going to see your personali is bro okay later but we will what's up Felix well that might be complicated cuz I might have BPD what borderline personality disorder well we'll see which one of your personalities is is uh in use right now we can find out one of the many which one they are yes exactly what's up guys so um we'll do that later I'm going to pray and then we'll get into it Lord thank you for this day this live please help us to go to go the way that you want it to to anything this series is spoken of help me to be able to uh link the personality and the Holy Ghost together effectively and bless everybody in life ask it all in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ amen amen all right let's see Ray says don't diagnose yourself Tommy are you already diagnosed well see my uncle is a well-renowned doctor from an osteopathic uh osteopathic school he went to uh Kirksville College of Osteopathic Medicine in Missouri and he's been a doctor for over like 12 years and he might have thought that he thought that I might have BPD but I mean uh other doctors say other things so I don't know who knows well see if we can get you the Holy Ghost and that'll change your entire life man we shall see Lord willing all right get this position correct so it doesn't fall over all right so I'm going to take this test live Tommy can you do me a favor leave the room no no actually uh right outside of my door there's the office chair that you can sit on so let's set it for you where it go where's the office chair all right Tommy's going to have an office chair so he's going to find that so personalities guys we're going to do that we should be pretty cool Lord willing we shall see what's up Leah how's it going see who is still with me hi guys what's up hope everybody had a cool Sunday um but I can answer a few of these questions while I'm waiting on Tommy um Tommy's new to me who is it um he's a guy I'm witnessing to let's see someone asked how many times have I read through the Bible I have read through the Bible once officially and I probably read sections and books of the Bible hundreds of times you know I probably read the book of Matthew Mark Luke John and acts Romans um 1 Samuel what's up sister Spencer welcome to the live probably read those several hundred times the whole Bible all the way through one time um and other parts probably hundreds of times my dad actually reads a Bible 3 to 10 chapters a day or even more and reads his Bible all the way through about twice a year so pretty cool um got another question on the not going to lie I'll be right back what's up Hanah kinzer what's up Noah and Minas welcome to the live so yeah this is the life stalled I miss the answer about Tommy oh Tommy uh he's a guy I'm witnessing to let's see someone else asked is it wrong to use the Amplified Bible no I wouldn't say so it depends what you're using it for I'd say um but the B used it for some definitions I've also used it for um sermons as well when I feel like the another version's uh explanation of a certain scripture said said things in a clearer way to shed light on a simpler way of saying a uh a complicated thought so I have done that before um I think any version is fine we use the King James version but I think that uh you should you know play by year and go as you feel L this seems like a terrible angle whatever I don't care um what's up Sanger how's it going which someone asked what Bible version do you use we use the King James version what's up Joshua buts how's it going I remember when you were small bro not anymore I guess growing up you never be taller than me though I don't think you will sorry Josh never um see someone asked uh favorite song to sing on lives my favorite song probably just find Jesus it's the song I've sang the most I've sang in other countries all over the nation just fun Jesus is probably or no it is my favorite song to s or one of my favorites actually I love also devil we through we recovering from this cold or whatever it was make makes devil withr exceptionally difficult it forces me to put more effort into my voice makes my voice a lower tone and um makes it when when I sing devil War I hitting those higher notes is a lot harder but it adds some depth to my voice and it actually sounds cool so we'll see I guess um it's definitely a lot more difficult um I guess Tommy's still grabbing that uh office chair so that he can sit down with us here but um someone also asked would I rather have the wisdom of Solomon the heart of David or the strength of Samson so it depends on what you mean by the heart of David um what's up Hannah someone asked would I rather have the wisdom of Solomon the heart of David or the strength of Samson [Music] um see Sharon says but what if the medicine SL juice Bible isn't enough of the patient too little can kill them and too much can also kill them bubble versions um now I'm not going to say read the NIV for for all of your use of course but I'm saying if you want to use a different version for certain passages of scripture to say things in a different way or maybe more modern way to be more successful that's different but I think the uh the correct version that people use of course the brandom said was the King James version um so the wisdom of Solon the heart of David or the strength of Samson I would probably say the uh depends on what you mean by De speech okay thanks I appreciate it um what's up S Fisher how's it going so wisdom of Solomon heart of David or the strength of Samson uh what does the heart of David mean what does having the heart of David mean it says David is described as a man after God's Own Heart as we have seen it means to be devoted to God's Will and desire that he be glorified from the heart um interesting well I'm already named David Josiah so I would already say I'm not King David of course but I'd say that I have a lot of the I'm a lot of the same ways as David was so having the heart of David sure um I'd pick the wisdom of Solomon because strength is just strength um wisdom is definitely the most important one by far if I had to pick one if I don't have any of them if I had to pick one I'd pick the heart of David because if you have the right heart if you have the right attitude you'll have the right strength in other areas and you'll learn the right wisdom some wisdom is learned through learning or knowledge other wisdom is learned through actual experience it just depends I guess some some wisdom you can learn from getting fired maybe from getting a new job making a bunch of money losing your job whatever what's up brother Kevin welcome to live did you find it Tommy I loed myself out the back and now the bathroom's completely locked from both sides all right sweet we can get we can get into it we should need a knife of some kind well we can wait on that they don't need to use the restroom right now yeah we can get we can do that but how did you manage to do that well I went to use restroom then I used the restroom I washed my hands and I was like I want to hit my vape and the dog probably wants to play fetch for a little bit that dog will never stop playing fetch it wants to play fetch all the time and I went out there and I was playing fch with the dog and I turned around to go back in and it was locked and I was like oh no and I started jiggling it and then it closed all the way because it wasn't even fully closed yeah and then I tried to get back in and I was like well can't get back in so then I went through that fence just to reach another fence so I hopped over the neighbor's fence and then hopped over that fence to get to the front to get inside oh well welcome back you took quite the uh quite the journey yeah it was an adventure let's see what's up D what's up Sam Fisher how's it going yeah his beard show us your beard Tommy come up close taking a picture for Anna what's up guys hold on DEA hi Gloria hold on I'm trying to wave to everybody here hold on did all this just happen Tommy weird the story you told all that just happened yeah all that just happened just happened that's great all right see if I can set this up properly here what do we have you feel dumb no bro everybody's dumb everybody is those things all right Ben instead of just kicking you I'm going to give you three chances this is strike one if you do something two more times you get kicked that way everybody can try to enjoy it if someone's go only the goal is to get kicked they will but I still want to give people a chance to have fun what sup Joe Rogan not Joe Rogan so every time we see your name John we think uh that your name is Joe Rogan or it sounds a lot like Joe Rogan because it's John Reagan not Joe Rogan this gu so it's uh certainly interesting what's up nii the winner of the cahoot yesterday good job um kick me please you can leave at your own free whee B what this meme it's funny all right well changeed my mind all right so what what what did you change your mind about kicking people there are immediate strikes and there IMM whatever if you're just trying to get kicked and you will of course it's a game boys it's a game you kicking people on so Seth King has the record the record on what getting kicked out the fastest that isn't really a badge of honor [Music] to is isn't really something to be proud of I don't think you're screen recording the timer and everything oh okay all right hey David yeah I got a question for you okay how do I get as many followers as you get the Holy Ghost hey I have the Holy Spirit in my life not well have you ever been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ what's baptized then you'd have it know I'm Jing I know what a baptism is I've just never experienced well there we go then um most certainly I want to get baptized in a lake a river a river a river yeah a river a river Jor that's too expensive man that's that's too dangerous too does it cost money to get that no well it takes M to get two as well I don't have followers people just follow me on Instagram really it's just everyone making the content honestly I me just because if I wanted to pay to have someone what's up Eli cross speaking of people that get kaked off what I said if I wanted to pay to have someone drown me that's really weird John Tommy we're not talking about that that's really weird okay wonderful opinion on new fortnite season uh Tommy what do you think of the new fortnite season I don't play fortnite's gay I don't like it I think it's dumb but fortnite's for homos that's what I said I'm joking pubg play pubg pubg yeah I think I played a long time ago quick Kitty footing around let's see 10 they they charge you $10 to $15 to get baptized in Jordan River I did not know that really wow that's insane let's see mar mar says why do you post the whole live video instead of parts of the live to get more views because I don't do this for views Jesus would approve of people making people pay to get baptized well they probably do it as like a I know someone from Jordan I can hook you okay okay Ben I know there you go Ben did it he got kicked out that's terrible talkov beats pubg any day of the week you know actually there was a a game on mobile We we played like four years ago Josh Thomas and I called uh it was called um knives out that was funny you ever play knes out no it was very clean I heard like movie though it looked like no that's not the movie movie the uh it was like a pubg Style game it was like from 2015 it had like old style uh old style graphics and everything it it was a ton of fun have you played Battle Royale where when you get downed you turn into a chicken no is that a new religion or something let's see well I mean they could probably make a religion out of uh Champion games like that maybe all right there's a religion for everything oh did you find the office chair by the way no I looked everywhere might threw it away what's up welcome Call of Duty is yes the uh let's see have you seen the mobile game as P tar I have not I've never seen it anywhere seen what the mobile game that just a spin-off of tarov have you ever heard of the game uh lies of PE what's that it's uh like the lies of pan Peter Pan no or not Peter Pan Pinocchio lies of PE it's a it's a game where you have to choose whether you want to lie in the game or not lie and no no seriously because you're Pinocchio and if you if you lie it makes you less of a real person and you you you start to you your body parts change to a like a a a mechanical structure and it changes the story of the game too interesting what if what if Pinocchio said though my nose is about to grow what would happen I think it would just go yeah U see Mario Mario says try to why do you post a whole life video that gets zero views instead of Parts the live that require my viws um so the when I post the lives they they do get views it's a glitch on Instagram side um to show that it gets zero views because every live I did before I got my Galaxy s23 Ultra tracked the views so when I was using the OnePlus 11 on average after about a few days the lives would get anywhere from 700 to, 1300 views so my guess is that there're somewhere around there especially since um because the real that I posted today just I don't know like an hour and a half ago it is at let's see here 696 so it says zero because there's a um it has it says zero because there's um because there's a like a phone glitch whatever see but we don't have time to sit down for an hour to see a whole live video well that's your choice yourorder to watching hold on one second hold on one second guys I'll be right back what's up guys I'm back okay so personality that's why we're here not for me to get questioned about everything I ever do so all right what's up Josh cross let's see here hold on have to might have to what leave leave well soon because I kind of want to go over there cuz I do have like a couple breakfast items you in my freezer I'll see you later oh no not right now bro what are you telling me you have to go for well I I just seen what time it is and I let me make a call to my stepdad and seeig out take your time all right guys we're going to go into a is this Domino's yeah I'd like to order you're not talking to Domino's yeah cuz you like Pizza Hut like a weirdo no I like Domino's better actually do you really yeah I like them both but Domino is better is that a good movie what which movie there's nothing on the wall oh uh I don't say the name but yeah yeah it's a good movie it's an old movie but it's good okay all right go ahead uh where I get my shirt uh somewhere else let's see all right we came here to talk about personality guys so we're going to talk about personality um the questions of this called the 16 personality test that's the one I do I also do um the test of uh the know thyself test that um that uh if you want to know what movie it is just privately message me um the know thyself test that Jordan Peterson does but let me set up the uh the I have my phone holder break so I'm going to go over into the uh I'm just going to do this hold on a second we can't know the name it's controversial well here's the thing Olia no matter what I do some people will do all that they can to try and destroy me and I'm not going to give them even potential ammunition which I don't think it is but people you know they might get mad that I posted the meme about the Santa guy you know with a dead kid in his arm so here we go guys let me set up this camera here and we'll see what we can do hold on all right what's up guys see if I can I have to move these speakers out of the way I'll do that improvisation guys on the live right so there we go so it's says now so the thing is is you um go from all the way to agree the most all the way over to disagree and then you answer the question so I'm going to answer these and we'll see what I get and we'll go through some things and I'll tell you guys which categories we can go through and I'll read it for you guys so you can know about my personality and explain maybe some of the misperceptions that I get and the um things like that so you've taken this test for school well that's awesome all right we're taking the personality test uh Tommy okay okay do you have to go or how long can you stay I can stay for a personality test oh sweet all right I'm going to take mine first and then we'll do this all right what's up Levi we're doing personalities today so number one I regularly make new friends I'm going to say all the way agree I do let's see you spent a lot lot of your free time exploring various random topics that Peak your interest I do let's see seeing other people cry can easily make you feel like you want to cry too all way agree yes uh you often make a backup plan for a backup plan yes that is me um you usually stay calm even under a lot of pressure of course I don't stay calm under a lot of pressure guys let's see at social events you rarely try to introduce yourself to new people and mostly talk to the ones you already know um depends on social event honestly you know when I have my uh second degree burn burn on my it made difficult but I would say [Music] um disagree because I uh yeah let's see you prefer to completely finish one project before starting another I'm going to disagree no you're very sentimental yes I am let's see you like to use organizing tools like schedules and lists no I can just PL it out in my head um let's see all right Mari we don't joke about that that's if you want to joke about something you can but when I say it like something by God's grace we don't mock God we don't that's not what we do um so please don't do that again let's see even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your overall abilities and knowledge no not me let's see you feel comfortable just talk walking up to someone you find interesting in striping up conversation yeah I do let's see uh Seth King says personality tests are CIA recruitment programs change my mind bro you might be right who knows um you are not too interested in discussing various interpretations and Analysis of creative Works actually I am interested I like to figure out you know not just the what of what people believe but why so that I can understand them better so that I can try to present the message to them more effectively uh see you're more inclined to follow your head than your heart strongly disagree follow your heart man um use to prefer just doing what you feel like any given moment instead of planning a par planning a particular daily routine um actually I usually plan a daily routine I I really do I I also do as I feel led actually so we'll go close to neutral there let's see you rarely worry about whether you whether you make a good impression on People You Meet agree I don't care see you enjoy participating group activities agree you like books and movies that make you come up with your own interpretation of the ending agree I do say your happiness comes more from helping others accomplish things rather than your own accomplishments yes like I'm happy to get accomplishments but if like you know me getting married versus seeing Thomas or or Joshua getting married or Ruth if I were to help with that that'd be a lot make me a lot happier than myself honestly even though I'd be very happy it's just when you see someone go through your life and they have weaknesses and strengths you know I think it's better to do that let's see you interested in so many different things that you find difficult to choose put trenex no I don't let's see you are prone to worrying that things will take your turn for the worst nope you avoid leadership rules I I avoid leadership roles in group settings disagree you're definitely not an artistic person no disagree come on um you think the world would be a better place if people relied more on rationality and less on their feelings uh no I don't if you just go entirely on rationality then what value is there to anything oh I mean it has the highest value Absolution rationality but still yeah Absolution but your feelings matter too like you have to get mean your feelings matter but if everybody based the world and the construction of it and the way we're supposed to walk through it on feelings this world would have been ended in war a long time ago a long time ago hey Mari let's try to stay on topic please um let's see no well it's not saying in an extreme it's saying do you think the world would be at a per place if people relied more on rationality and less on their feelings yeah because it's a it's it's a but choose what you want to but like I would choose like very strong yes because like I mean you're basing you're basing rather than feelings you're basing like something on Absolution of like what it actually is rationality and like what the uh what the you know the reality of situation is rather than what you feel about it you know interesting yeah that's that's interesting interesting depends on what part of the world I guess let's see you prefer to do your chores before allowing yourself to relax uh no I'm going to relax before the chores are done of course I am let's see let's see you enjoy watching people argue yes I do actually uh you tend to avoid drawing attention to yourself uh it's say disagree cuz I'm doing these lives it it inadvertently draws attention to myself I'm not doing it for attention to myself but it does draw attention to me what I might have to go after you're done with this one all right but I am standing to see what yours is all right cool your mood can change very quickly uh I disagree usually it's pretty regulated now without the Holy Ghost I would say yeah of course my mood changes very quickly but it usually takes a lot for my mood to change pretty to change let's see you lose patience with people who are not as efficient as you no I don't what well like I mean cuz you're like you're kind of like you know hurry up man like because I could do this faster did I say that to you no no no no no I'm just saying like sometimes I get stressed out if I know like I could be getting something done and somebody tries to do it you know like and I'm like come on dude you know like hurry up so I I sometimes get stressed out about it but not all the time not all the time like a lot of times I can tell myself in my mind oh just let this person do it the way they want to or let them take their time doing it it shouldn't bother you anyways you know it really shouldn't you should like look past something like that and be a better person like in your mind to like not let it get you mad but I'm only human and sometimes it does make me mad when somebody can't do something as fast as me if I'm better at doing I agree let's see uh Mari Mario says do you like watching people argue but can't take it when it's directed at you you know I actually I like watching professionals argue people that um you know like Sam Harris Neil degrass Tyson Michael nolles Ben Shapiro um Tucker Carlson Jordan Peterson they're professional even though Sam Harris believes the opposite of what we believe he doesn't say things with a nasty intent a lot of times he'll be try to be respectful so when people direct at me very disgusting and disrespectful comments I would get more respect from Sam Harris the atheist so I do not lose patience with people who are as effective as me of course I don't let's see you often end up doing things the last possible moment I do actually yeah let's see you have always been fascinated by the question of what if anything happens after death uh yeah yeah everyone you and I have already talked about that a bunch yeah let's see uh you usually prefer to be around others rather than on your own yeah I do use that I prefer that actually I say you become bored or lose interest when this disc discussion gets highly theoretical uh I think it gets more interesting yeah me too so if anyone wants to do this chest by the way and join you can join live and you tell me your answers and I'll do them on the tablet from here and we'll go through what your personality is maybe it's Parts where you're getting Miss uh interpreted so this first one is just me so that you guys can see what the format is but anybody that wants to join can and we'll do their personality test let see you find it easy to empathize with the person whose experiences are very different from yours I say disagree I it's one of the UN un uh one of the what what's the word for it not annoying but the hard parts of preaching and being the person that I am is that I can feel all the people's pain I can go to a funeral of a person I've never met and cry what are you doing I I'm touching the desk you're tapping the desk why I don't know it looks interesting those look like buttons and I was yeah those are buttons whatever you want to do I don't care um stop you said those are buttons whatever you want to do well I want you stop now I guess um let's see you usually postpone finalized editions for long as possible oh yeah it take a long time doing uh decisions um you rarely second guess the choices that you have made agree yeah after a long and exhausting week a lively social event is just what you need yes all right next you enjoy going to Art Museums I do I love going to Arby's art museums oh art museums bro are you really hungry or something I like food CH was bomb that was very good actually see you often have a hard time understanding other people's feelings uh did you you've talked to me actually 10 stuff do I have a hard time understanding your feelings uh I think anybody has a hard time really understanding what another person is feeling without going into very depth conversation well I go into in-depth conversation yeah so I I I think you get an idea of how I feel about some things good stuff I don't feel like you agree no with it all time but uh I think you got an idea of how I feel I see you like to have a to-do list for each day I don't I just know what I have to do in my brain you rarely feel insecure I feel insecure all the time oh agree I rarely feel insecure you avoid making phone calls uh disagree I hate texting phone calls are the best you often spend a lot of time trying to understand views that are very different from your own yeah I do I I I run through conversations of opposing views in my mind all the time to prepare the perfect responses for when things are important Tommy he keeps putting his finger over there towards hurry up I got to go I 70% almost done uh in your Social Circle you often the one who contacts your friends to initiates activities yes if your plans are interrupted your top priority is to get back on track as soon as possible agree um you're still bothered by mistakes that you made a long time ago oh I am you are not well it depends much it been my bothered I mean I don't have regrets I say the regrets I have is not going to a couple guys' funerals but that's because you you have complete belief in Jesus Christ and you can be resolved of your you should try complete faith in Jesus Christ I do I do I do I do I'm just saying the the part that gets me is like I don't feel um redeemable you know what like I don't feel like I can have yeah what's it called Grace salvation free something like that yeah Mercy well Tommy you're not supposed to feel like it you're supposed to feel like because if you can't if you can't forgive yourself how is Jesus Christ supposed to forgive you uh well I don't like that very much because Jesus already forgave you at Calvary so we're not supposed to feel like we're worthy I said the worse you feel the better honestly well then I'm doing great but seriously though you're not supposed to feel worthy you're supposed to feel like you can't yeah because that's Jesus he's not a he's not a uh a just a an intellectual belief or an argument he's a real person when he really comes to Chang I completely believe that 100% with all my soul I remember you tell me that uh oh Jesus isn't my life you back when you're strugg you're not anymore but then I told you why am I here though yeah you feel like you texted me there you go now I'm not the best representative of it but what your best okay let's see R you rarely conate the reasons for human existing existence over meaning like disagree your emotions control you more than you control them um my emotions do control me a lot of the time um I'd say I disagree because well because behind the scenes there's a lot of stuff I I do that I just don't yeld to my emotions on let's see you take great care not to make people look bad even when it is completely their fault yes I do take great care even if someone's being a total [ __ ] if I can make them look good and try to help them I will I will because that's more effective let's see your personal work St is closer to spontaneous burst of energy than organized and consistent efforts I disagree it's organized and consistent like with phones and all that when someone thinks highly of you you wonder how long it will take them to feel disappointed you disagree no way I'm not going to do that because uh I you know will do things according to the standard of God and do my best I say you would love a job that requires you to work alone most of the time um I love remote drob but it's not really alone and it says you're go oh sweet good so thank you um I do work from home but it's not necessarily alone because it's with uh it's with um people on overlin I don't like like my last job that I had I hated um I hated the uh where I didn't have contact with my team Seth if you want to join we can go through your through your personality test uh results here in a little bit if you'd like after mine um you believe that pondering abstract philosophical questions is a waste of time uh no I don't actually because I believe everyone should be able to rationalize what they believe in certain ways um cuz you might you know we believe the message but we're not always going to be talking people that believe brother ROM is a prophet we can talk to you know Tommy who is just a Christian or believes it is whatever we can talk to someone who has a psychology degree or a Philosophy degree we should be able to talk to everyone about this gospel through every area that is Major I believe we should I think that we should be able to you know answer questions of like uh Buddhism Christianity or Hinduism or Allah or things like that I think we should be able to talk those things all these religions like really tie into one another but I mean like they have some major key differences but a lot of them say the same thing they have the same old story it's pretty cool when you look at it from uh that perspective but like then you have to choose you know what what is my main belief and everything I chose to believe in Jesus Jesus is the only one that died and rose again uh Seth say no all people need to know about me is I don't want to talk to him 93% introverted Seth that's awesome usually when I take the test I get 100% extroverted let's see you feel more drawn to places with busy bustling atmospheres than quiet intimate places um I like the busy ones because you can get more stuff done and it's more fun I do like the quiet intimate ones but I by myself I'd rather be happy in a busy place cuz I don't feel so long but if I'm with someone then quite an intimate see uh you know at first glance how someone is feeling uh yeah usually uh you often feel overwhelmed no um you complete things methodically without skipping over any steps agree you're very intrigued by things labeled as controversial oh of course not let's see let see Zoe black says when I took the test I Was 80 something per introverted and the rest was extroverted interesting Zoe we can take live together if you'd like we can see what your says um you would pass along a good opportunity if you thought someone else needed it more I agree I would um you struggle with deadlines I don't you feel confident that things work out for you I do not because of me but because of the Lord Jesus Christ and my gender is male and I'm a protagonist enja yep protagonist enja you're inspiring Optimist readily taking action to do what they feel is right I am 98% extroverted so you're extroverted individuals readily enjoy group activity I and value social interaction they tend to be outwardly enthusiastic and express their excitement I'm 84% intuitive you got logician whatever that means interesting Seth um intuitive individuals are very imaginative open-minded and curious they value originality and focus in Hidden meetings and distant possibilities interesting I am 81% feeling and 19% thinking feeling individual's value emotional expression and sensitivity they place a lot of importance on empathy social harmony and cooperation you got esfp interesting Chrissy so whoever wants to join take this test we'll see what the results are you leaving man yeah I'm leaving let see you see later man see you later all right I peace see you next time Tommy thanks for being here time thank you I appreciate it yes sir happy to help don't just keep keep the five I I'll get cheese some other time all right slice fair enough see you pray for Tommy guys he's mixed up in a lot of stuff but pray for him we'll see what we can do for him yes foret about that locked bathroom you what don't forget about the locked bathroom okay thanks just needs prayer so pray for him but go to the next thing here um feelings feeling individuals value emotional expression and sensitivity they place a lot of importance on empathy social harmony and cooperation interesting I'm 56% judging 44% prospecting what's up Mark if you want to join this and this personality test that'd be awesome whoever wants to can really um judging individuals are decisive thorough and highly organized they value Clarity predictability and closure preferring structure and planning to SP and planning to spontaneity oh there we go awesome I am 100% assertive no way I'm totally not assertive um assertive individual ual are self- assured even tempered and resistant to stress they refuse to worry too much and tend to be self-confident with striving to achieve goals so yeah very cool that's me guys anyone else wants to join I'm going to keep talking about my personality until someone else wants to join really see next already send it to my Emil all right so which of these do you guys want me to read we've got introduction strengths and weaknesses romantic relationships friendships Parenthood career paths work Place habits and conclusion I can read one of those to describe uh person this personality type I have another friend loyal Carlin I believe he is an entj or something like that that is similar to my uh personality so we shall see conclusion is the best KN conclusion okay I'll go to conclusion until someone else says something different conclusion so someone says here all right so what you have read so far is just an introduction to the complexities of the protagonist ENFJ personality type along the way you may have moded to yourself wow this is so accurate it's a little creepy or hold on hold on uh or finally someone understands me maybe even been asked how do they know more about me than the people I'm close to do Olivia wants to join civia Kini Olivia we will have you join here in a little bit strength and we is read that one all right I'll read that one next Olivia I'll have you join here in a little bit we're doing personalities um so protagonist gifts include idealism determination and the ability to Envision a better future but they don't just want to hear what makes them great protagonists are committed to actually using these gifts to serve a greater purpose that's why we've made it our mission to uh blah blah blah all right strengths and weaknesses strengths receptive protagonists have strong opinions but they're far from closed-minded they recognize the importance of allowing others to express themselves fully even when protagonists don't argue with someone they recognize the person's right to voice their truth reliable few things bother protagonists more than the prospect of letting down a person or cause that they believe in people with this personality type can be counted on to see their promises and responsibilities through even when it's difficult to do so passionate protagonists are far from being boring do gooders these types brm with interests and they take great pleasure in pursuing their Hobbies whether that's hiking cooking dancing growing house plants or something else in entirely as a result they rarely find themselves at a loss for something interesting to do altruistic these personalities are known for harboring a deep desire to be a force for positive change protagonists genuinely believe that if they bring people together they can do a world of good like these lives charismatic charismatic determining determined and inspiring and protagonists often find their way into leadership rules whether they captain of their softball team or leader on the world stage they rarely lose sight of their main goal to be of service to others now weaknesses of my personality unrealistic many protagonists put pressure on themselves to write every wrong that they encounter but no matter how hard these personalities strive it isn't just realistic for them to solve all of the world's problems if they aren't careful they can spread themselves too thin and be left unable to help anyone overly idealistic protagonists tend to have clear ideas about what's right and what's wrong they often think that everyone shares these fundamental principles or at least that everyone should share these principles so it can come as a genuine shocked to protagonists when people violate their core values such as truth or Justice condescending I am not condescend I'm kidding that's something I guess have to deal with um condescending people with this personality type enjoy teaching others particularly about the causes and beliefs that matter so much to them but at times protagonists attempts to Enlighten others others may come across as patronizing not the most effective strategy for persuading other people unfortunately intense I'm not intense when it comes to intense when it comes to self-improvement protagonists are rarely short on energy or determination but they may not recognize that not everyone shares these qualities at times protagonists may push others to make changes that they aren't ready for or simply aren't interested in making in the first place overly empathetic compassion is among this personality's greatest strengths but protagonists have a tendency to take on other people's problems as their own a habit that can leave them emotionally and physically exhausted so yeah all right you guys want me to read another one let's see what else we have left we have introduction romantic relationships friendships Parenthood and career paths and workplace habits so another one you guys want me to read I can if you want or we can go over to Olivia Ken's personality whatever you guys want it's up to you just I need to learn to breathe on these Liv just take a second and breathe g g my focus I guess I think that' be the wise thing anyway all right what's up Daw how's it going anything else guys well interesting uh maybe I'll read the rest of those another time or maybe even later on in the Life who knows open the tab and go over to romantic relationships all right sure I will read it where did it go hold on I'll read it here in a second Jules hold on um there we go okay romantic relationships let's read that interesting all right here we go boys romantic relationships protagonists this is my personality protagonists enfjs can be intense when it comes to matters of the heart and they won't wouldn't have it any other way by the way I'll correct this thing if it's wrong um people with this personal type rarely settled for anything that falls short of of their ideals and the Romantic relationships are no exception protagonists want to fall in love with the content of a person's character and the tenor of their soul not just the way they look from across the room although these personalities may come across as outgoing uh good Lord David how many tabs do you have open uh I never been more than three in this pushing it will Seth uh this is the Galaxy Tabs 9 Ultra with 12 gigs of ddr6 RAM so I'll be fine okay so um although these personalities may come across as outgoing or even beit flirtatious few protagonists are satisfied by fleeting attractions their standards are high and they know it in fact there this awareness might give protagonists a deeper appreciation of just how rare and pre precious it is to feel a real spark with another person and in turn just how rare and special it is when that spark grows into the Ste flames of true Abiding Love moving beyond the day dating game when protagonist fall for someone they tend to fall hard and they're not koi about it protagonists are often among the personality types that most readily Express how they feel so they often find themselves making the first move rather than playing games or waiting for reassurance that the other person that hold I'm trying to read things in the comments as well that the other person feels the same way in the dating World protagonists willingness to put themselves out there can be refreshing and more than a little unusual this along with the intensity of their passion is incredibly appealing to many people that said because this is very true unfortunately that said because protagonists do often make the first move they may encounter their share of rejection as they search for a kindred spirit people with the protagonist personality type are eager to prove their commitment taking the time and effort to establish themselves as trust as Dependable trustworthy Partners dreaming together even on the first day these personalities May steer the uh Jules says it sounds a lot like you oh thanks Jules even on the first date these personalities May Ste the conversation toward weigher topics protagonists don't just want to find out what TV show someone watches they want to get a sense of their partner's dreams and aspirations the chances they hope to make to themselves the changes they hope to make themselves into the world and as the relationship deepens protagonists take pride in supporting their partner to make good on these dreams for protagonist one of life's greatest Joys is helping someone they care about reach their goals some protagonists carry this a step further taking on their partner's goals as their own this can be problem problematic to say the least if protagonist personalities become overinvestment in helping their partner they may up and they may up they may end up neglecting their own self-care hobbies and friendships they may also be at risk of push pushing their partner to change their life in ways that they aren't they simply aren't ready for when protagonists carry this too far they often find that the pressure they put on their partner to quote unquote better themselves backfires in one of two ways their partner may become insecure fearing that they aren't good enough as they are or may they may become angry feeling resentful of the implication that they need to change either way protagonists must learn to encourage their partner to grow without pushing toward the Long Haul few personality types are key to than protagonist to establish a loving commitment with their chosen partner they like dating they take dating and relationships seriously even in the earliest days of a relationship protagonists tend to focus on long-term potential and as the relationship matures they want to do what it takes to bring that potential to fruition while particular certainly know how to enjoy the moment they also know that love is no fun in games this can be a beautiful thing protagonists care about fleing their partner and their sensitivity helps them tune into their partner's shifting moods and desires as long as they don't lose track of their own needs people with this personal type can enjoy incredibly rewarding relationships that are founded on trust Mutual support and honesty and of course love so there you go very nice if there's any other ones all right I'm going to have Olivia on because I'm tired of talking all right read another one later I guess once she uh once it loads for her to join she's still on here it work okay what's up Olivia how's it going hi it's going well just thought I would see if my personality test result was the same as it was four years ago okay all right let G take it for you here all right let's see you you ready yeah I think so all right cool introduce yourself who you are all those different things for people that don't know okay well I don't I mean my name is Olivia Kini I live in Pennsylvania I really don't know how else to introduce myself there you go um let's see do you regularly make new friends all the way to agree all the way to disagree somewhere in the middle what do you think um I mean if I went out and about more yes so like where you are currently do you regularly make new friends I would say yes I mean as long as I'm around people I I usually make a friend you you could put it on the second bubble though just because I mean it's not 100% okay all right you often you spend a lot of free of your free time exploring various random topics that pique your interest yes I do that sweet uh seeing other people cry can easily make you feel like you want to cry too uh I do sympathy Cry Sometimes put that on the second bubble though because it it like I can hold it together but I have had some moments where I do feel it all right cool see here you have to make a backup plan for a backup plan 100% okay um you usually stay calm even under a lot of pressure see this is where it gets tricky because internally I'm not calm but then everybody tends to think I'm calm I guess it's what you actually are you usually stay calm even under a lot of pressure yes and no because like internally I don't think I feel calm but but I I react quickly neutral maybe one of the green bubbles next to the neutral yeah okay let's see social events you rarely try to introduce yourself to new people and mostly just talk to the ones you already know uh second to last disagree okay hold on second to last disagree there we go hold on my phone is low battery I see set okay you prefer to completely finish one project before starting another disagree that never happens this life yeah you are very sentimental 100% yep that has to be all the way green anybody wondering who Olivia is it does not know she came on a while back and uh she came on we talked about relationships and stuff like that and it was the longest podcast yet three hours and 52 minutes I'm still holding the record for that huh yeah you still got the record uh let's see you like to use organizing tools like schedules and list uh no I'm no not really it's pretty see what's up Ethan fkins welcome to live um even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your overall abilities and knowledge no okay you feel comfortable just walking up to someone you find interesting and striping striking up a conversation agree all the way interesting okay let's see you are not too interested in discussing various interpretations and analysises of creative Works creative works is in are they talking like art and poetry and literature creative disagree no you're more inclined to follow your head than your heart yes all right you usually prefer just doing what you feel like at any given moment instead of planning a particular daily routine that's true too all right you rarely worry about whether you make a good impression on People You Meet disagree I think about that probably too much okay uh you enjoy participating in group activities yes absolutely what's up James how's it going what's up kayin B hello uh you like books and movies that make you come up with your own interpretation of the ending no then they they should have done that for me if I'm gonna sit down and see your read somebody else's thoughts they should have completed them that is so annoying makes it interesting though okay fair um your happiness comes more from helping others accomplish things than your o accomplishments I'm in the middle on that one okay cool um you were interested in so many things that you find it difficult to choose what to try next true right can't make time for everything I'm interested in cool you are prone to worrying about thing you're prone to worrying that things will take a turn for the worse no all right you avoid leaving ship roles and group settings and disagree interesting you're definitely not an artistic type of person I'm somewhat artistic so I don't like know where to to drop that I'm I I wouldn't agree with that but somewhere in the middle maybe middle okay you think the world be would be a better place if people relied more on rationality and less on their feelings uh yeah you can do like the middle green bubble on that one I guess because feelings are important well like the the next one over okay you prefer to do your chores before allowing yourself to relax yes they have to be done I can't relax if I know there's chores interesting okay uh you do you enjoy watching people argue no interesting okay uh you tend to avoid drawing attention to yourself not really not bad attention I don't mind your mood can change very quickly no all right you lose patience with people who are not as efficient as you not at first there's a Breaking Point with that though like I will be patient to teach somebody repeatedly but after so long I just can't take it anymore so it's like this I want to say it's half and half like I will give them ample chances but after so long it's like I can't deal with stupidity you know fair enough uh you often end up doing things at the last possible moment unfortunately lately that's kind of been the case but I hate doing that so I wouldn't do all the way disagree it's got to be one of the other bubbles Pro Pro yeah since since I've gotten engaged and married that's just been the case but I used to not be that way let's see um you have always been fascinated by the question of what if anything happens after death no because I already know the answer so like I'm not really fascinated by that fair enough okay you usually prefer to be around others rather than on your own yes all right you become bored to lose when what so lonely world on your own yeah you become bored or lose interest when the discussion gets highly the theoretical uh yeah usually maybe the the metal green bubble again you find it easy to empathize with a person whose experiences are very different from yours yes I'm going to do the middle green button again on that one uh you usually postpone finalizing decisions for as long as possible yes I cannot help that it drives myself nuts and I can't change I'm really about that okay um you rarely second guess the choices that you have made I almost always second guess my choices okay there you go yep uh after a long and exhausting week this Lively social event is just what you need okay that's how I relax all right we're 60% done uh you enjoy going to Art Museums um I'm neutral on that it depends on the museum all right you often have a hard time understanding other people's feelings disagree all right you have a TOD do list for each day disagree have you ever done this test before I did it four years ago oh okay cool you rarely feel sorry you rarely feel insecure uh that is fairly true all uh you avoid making phone calls not necessarily no uh maybe the second to last bubble because there's some phone calls I don't care to make but yeah okay you often spent a lot of time trying to understand views that are very different from your own no not really okay all right uh in a Social Circle in your Social Circle you often the one who contacts your friends and initiates activities um that's in the middle right now I'm so busy I would do it more but uh I can't at the moment so somewhere in the middle because I do initiate it but okay interesting if your plans are interrupted your top priority is to get back on check as soon as possible true yeah all right you still bothered by mistakes that you made a long time ago yes okay you rarely contemplate the reasons for human existence or the meaning of life well that's true because I know the answer to that too nothing contemplate okay uh do your emotions control you more than you control them not normally but there are some instances so here yeah well hold on I gotta think about this one I want to say I control them more so there you go okay um you take great care not to make people look bad even when it is completely their fault agree on the small circle this one the the one next to it on the right okay uh your personal work style is closer to spontaneous births of energy rather than organized and consistent efforts that does seem familiar probably yeah okay when someone thinks highly of you you wonder how long it will take them to feel disappointed in you uh we'll do this let's see BL when someone thinks highly of you the second to last disagree okay you would love a job that requires you to work alone most of the time did you say alone alone yeah okay the words are blurry so I can't read everything um no disagree okay you believe that pondering abstract philosophical questions is a waste of time sometimes yeah okay second to the most agree I guess um you feel more drawn to places with busy bustling atmospheres than quiet intimate places uh second to last disagree all right you know at first glance how someone is feeling yes usually interesting okay what's up Alex how's it going we're doing personalities uh you often feel off overwhelmed yeah okay you complete things methodically without skipping over any steps yes okay you are very intrigued by things labeled as controversial oh yes those are the best you are uh you would pass along you would pass along a good opportunity if you thought someone else needed it more no I hate to say it but no probably what's up Alex how's it going all right uh you struggle with deadlines that is my life lately I have to say yes I hate the honest truth about do you feel confident that things will work out for you yes all right cool let's see what you are you are a female other no female all right let's see what it says you are a Entertainer esfp is that the same as before uh before I was before I was an ESFJ oh interesting so you wished from you switched from judging to prospecting yeah that is interesting okay so entertainers are spontaneous energetic and enthusiastic people life is never boring around them so you're 84% extroverted is that accurate yeah probably okay interesting all right uh 63% observant i' say that's probably true yeah me too it seems pretty accurate so far all right let's see what else uh 60% feeling 40% thinking what do you think about that I think I think a lot more than I I mean obviously I I'm very in tune to my feelings but I do a ton of thinking so I feel like 40% is kind of measy on that scale interesting okay interesting uh 61 prospecting and 39 judging so this is what changed from last time do you think that's let see prospecting individuals are very good at improvising and adapting to Opportunities they tend to be flexible non-conformists who are value novelty above stability that is that is not true about me I must have not us one of very well no I I have to have stability over novelty like I love my novelty but at my core I have to have like a very stable um just life style overall so you prefer you value stability over novelty yes interesting okay uh 58% assertive is that correct I I can be pretty assertive I guess all right so you're close to pretty on Mid on there um all right do you want this s to you yeah you can send it to me which email um I'll let you send it to my junk email oh I don't want to give it out on the live just send it to yourself for now it's all right all right cool all right okay which one of these you want us to read about you um let see if it's true or not strengths and weaknesses okay strength and weaknesses all right so what's what's up aah Carn how's it going all right what's up Alex how's it going all right so strengths bold uh stop me if I'm saying anything that's not you bold entertainers aren't known for holding back wanting to experience everything there is to experience people with the Entertainer personality type don't mind stepping out of their comfort zones when no one else is willing original Traditions true I'd say this next one's definitely you uh traditions and expectations are secondary to entertainers if a consideration at all Entertainer personalities love to experiment with new Styles and constantly find new ways to stick out in the crowd I'd say you're more traditional actually yeah I am very traditional actually very traditional I saw Traditions I thought I was going to say that you were uh more tradition but saying that you were want to experiment like I'm thinking you're more traditional though I do like experiencing new things but I think tradition um still comes out on top you ever seen a Fiddler on the Roof I have tradition tradition yes if anyone not seen that movie you need to it's a great movie I have it was very long but I have seen it yes good let's see Aesthetics and Showmanship not stopping at mirror outfits entertainers inject artistic creativity to their words and actions too every day is a performance and entertainers love to put on a show say you put on a show how I don't feel like I do that hold on not stopping see I wonder if that artistic question kind of threw that one in there because it's like I have artistic desires I wouldn't say like I'm naturally gifted when it comes to Art but I like art in a way I like but I'm not very good at it but I want to hone those skills so maybe that's why that ended up in there okay uh say practical um to entertainers the world is meant to be felt and experienced truth is Stranger Than Fiction and entertainers prefer to see and do than to wax philosophical about Whata ifs that's that's pretty true okay um it says entertainers are the least likely personality type do enjoy having more than one job you ever had more than one job no I've only ever had there you go they're the least likely to like it there you go uh perfect um let's see observant with all this focus on the Here and Now on doing and acting it makes sense that entertainers are Naturals when it comes to noticing real tangible things and changes that's so vague I'm trying to wrap my mind around what they're referring to exactly um you're natural at uh noticing change things that are being changed I guess like do they mean observant very observant I I'm I'm too detail oriented okay interesting um excellent people skills more so than things though the entertainers love to pay attention to people they're talkative witty and almost never run out of things to discuss for people with this personality type happiness and satisfaction stem from the time they spent with the people they enjoy being with is that you 150% that is definitely me really you seem surprised at some of these answers you keep saying like really oh well I'm the host I'm supposed to ask dumb questions because uh you know they're not Dum I just it just sounded like not dumb I mean as a dumb I mean uh questions for people that don't already know you as a person you know okay you all of this coming none of this surprised you right pretty much yeah yeah uh let's see here but one thing as a host I try to do is to ask you know not stupid questions but very simple stupid questions yeah exactly all right Entertainer weaknesses sensitive entertainers especially turbulent ones are strongly emotional and very vulnerable to criticism they can feel like they've been backed into a corner sometimes reacting badly this is probably the Entertainer's greatest weakness because it makes it so hard to address any of the weaknesses brought to light is that you see I'm I don't I don't feel like I'm I'm a very overly sensitive person but nobody likes to be criticized like I can take constructive criticism but if I feel like somebody's just attacking me like nobody takes that well so I guess there's some truth to it but I don't feel interesting that may it may have been true about you before the Holy Ghost too because I remember brother rap crook at when you to treat went through how a lot of these things can be true but they're not true after the Holy Ghost um let's see conflict diverse entertainers sometimes ignore and avoid conflict entirely they tend to say and do what's needed to get out of such situations then move on to something more fun is that you I hate conflict I hate it my mom's in the comments going yes in all caps why do you hate conflict uh it makes me uncomfortable I don't want anybody to dislike me and I'd rather just keep the peace and smooth the situation over and be on good terms with whoever I'm talking to to me it's not worth ruining a relationship I'd rather try to salvage the relationship and just agree on whatever we can agree on interesting okay like trying to find Common Ground just to keep things amiable okay cool very cool um easily bored without constant excitement uh entertainers find ways to create it themselves risky Behavior self-indulgence and the pledges of the movement of the moment over longterm plans are all things entertainers get into a little too often I'm going to say this is definitely not true so interestingly enough I would say I'm almost never bored but yet I have done a lot of risky things and I do a lot of things just to experience life more so the description seems to to fit more than the label okay that makes sense all right poor long-term planners in fact Entertainer personalities I was to say that's so so not true that not me personalities make rarely make detail but to the Future like your whole personality is detail PL to the Future to them things come as they come and they barely bother with taking the time to layout steps and consequences with the belief that they could change at any moment even with things that can be planned compl negative no way let's see unfocused anything that requires long this is so wrong too anything that requires long-term dedication and focus is a particular challenge for entertainers in academics dense unchanging subjects like classic literature are much more difficult more than more dynamic relatable subjects like psychology the trick for entertainers is to find day-to-day joy and broader goals and to tough it out with those tedious things that must be done you think you're unfocused I can be ass something's boring but I I also can focus and do something that other people would consider mundane I can do that task for a very long period of time so that's notely true I I wonder if uh man I don't know what questions would have made that last letter for my personality P instead of J but I think that I probably was an ESFJ like I originally got a few years ago probably yeah all right this one what's the next one what's the next one you want to read um I'm curious I'm curious what they say about career paths on this one okay let's see pass all right are we gon is are we only doing two or are we doing three uh if someone else joins then we'll do theirs if someone else wants to join if not then I'll prob end it after this one just depending I guess okay um all right go ahead what no you're fine go ahead deis you see that I do this always second guessing my decisions I was like hold on I'm gonna go back and change the topic yes entertainers have a unique quality that makes them exceptional in some careers and Miser on others and they mirror the mood around them when people have with the Entertainer personality type are at a party or a concert they reflect that mood giving them that party people image that's not you uh not Party People sorry well they say party people that's that comes off strange but if they mean like feeding off of the energy in the room that is me okay makes sense okay when their friends are sad they mirror that with sympathy and empathy and when there's a crisis entertainers a app as well make matching the intensity of situation like you just said okay um as a result let's see seeking the challenges as a result just about any career that focuses on working with others is a good fit and is even essential for entertainers there we go and it's essential for entertainers to be happy and productive Entertainer personalities are natural event planners sales representatives trip planners and tour guides as each one of these creates a sense of excitement stimul and Novelty between them and their customers I don't think that's true you don't think it's true I don't think the novelty part is true because you you went around earlier saying that you like uh something stable rather than something that's novelty well I do enjoy novelty but um if there's a lack of stability first then the novelty would be hard to enjoy so I make sure that life is stable before I go into the novelty but like when it comes to the event planning trip planner to or guide type thing that is me through and through interesting okay yeah that does make sense because you're a planner but not like a uh a uh what's the word where's that novelty one okay process of putting together a group trip for uh this may so them in the past but like I'm still working on another one cool where are you guys going um I'm planning on making it a trip where it's like we go see Niagara Falls and then work our way stopping through Ohio at Cedar Point and then go over to Michigan and there's like a a mini Holland over there it's like Holland in the US so there's a few all right let's see entertainers enjoy genuinely enjoy spending time with others and getting to know them and have a knack for making people happy even in the most frustrating situations a good challenge is always appreciated by Entertainer personalities and they make wonderful full and inspiring counselors social workers personal coaches and Consultants who improve employee or customer satisfaction with their ability to respond with resourcefulness and passion when their help is badly needed entertainers make brilliant medical professionals especially as EMTs paramedics and nurses that's funny kindergarten you know they have you like fill out what your dream job would be whenever you grow up I put nurse I drew a picture of a nurse and my mom unknowingly talked me out it when I was a [Laughter] teen oh cool all right I'm going to go through these and then we'll if you want to you can stay to answer some of the N like questions if you'd like okay um let's see here uh amts paramedics and nurses they quickly pick up up pick up information about others helping them get straight to the heart of the issue when dealing with the sick or injured entertainers strive on intense emotion and there's hardly a better place for it intense emotion do you strive on intense emotion like my own intense emotion sure I I've never really felt that way or thought about it I don't know about that one yeah I don't think I didn't think that either um let's see let's see not everybody has the energy for that Thor though or wants the let's see or wants the responsibility of life and death some entertainers prefer to make people happy and excited by creating Beauty instead people with this personal type have plenty of Creative Energy creative sorry I was waving people and I forgot where I was at um plenty of Creative Energy and many build filling careers in music fashion photography and interior design don't you do some kind of design work uh this graphic design but I'm interested in interior design and photography I actually took some photography classes oh there you go then that they got that one right uh with the best aesthetic sense of any personality type entertainers are renowned for their sense of style um such of CHA however jobs that eliminate human contact and focus on impartial data- driven decisions are torturous to entertainers some Entertainer personalities do well enough Bing off by blowing off staying with friends after work but for the most part careers like technical writing or data analysis are poor fits add entertainers loathing for schedules structures and repetition I don't think that you have a loathing for those things like schedules structures and repetition minutes repetition if it's good I really don't yeah I got that one wrong um what's up Anna welcome live and deina um n to5 administrative work is quickly sent to the nope bin think that's true regardless of where the diverse passions lie interchanges need Freedom novelty and above all human contact people with the Entertainer personality type need to know that they aren't just appreciated though that is very important but liked when entertainers come into work they want to see a touch of chaos and to navigate it with a crack team of capable friends who are all too happy to take action by their sides interesting so what' you think of it was it accurate unaccurate what' you think um I'm gonna say it was like 85% accurate I I do think that I'm probably more judging than uh whatever what did the p stand for again prospecting yeah I think I think I'm more judging the prospecting so so probably too let me set up this here hold on one you guys down for a minute all right interesting people have been uh sending in not GNA lie questions they're filling your inbox yes they have been sending in not gonna lie questions that should be interesting I was get a mix of like they've been during this live yeah yeah they do so I can go to that quick and then come back um up real fast here second here I think I was wearing this exact same shirt last time you were sorry I could hear you you were wearing what I think I was wearing this exact shirt the last time you were on actually you know what I kind of think you're right I think I was I can double check I changed it up it's too cold yeah see okay um we go to the other questions I'll be right back one second make sure this all set up and moving desks are fun okay um you have a standing desk a what a standing desk I do I've never used it to stand I did a couple times but I hated it so I decided not to keep on doing it so I got a standing desk and I actually forgot that it's a standing desk so I always use it sitting down I haven't used it for standing either I leveled it I know why stand at a desk it's like so [ __ ] well if you sit there for hours you need to like shift the position I guess so Yeah well yeah I'll like stand to take a break but I'll never stand to continue working you know oh um let's see uh see someone asked personality or looks preference I mean obviously personality but looks do matter in the long run yeah looks do definitely matter uh I say looks are I think like I said think looks are a fourth of it the next fourth is character and then the next fourth is relationships with family and a pastor and then the next fourth is what they want out of life I character probably deserves more than just 25% because if somebody has a really good character even if they have like a poor family background the character will still kind of make up for that yeah yeah maybe it does deserve one I don't know personality matters of course you know it doesn't matter also you know it's better personality matters I'd say more than looks in a way cuz looks are solid they're they're 20 I say they're 25 to 30% of it maybe more but they definitely matter but honestly personality is something you're going get along with when you're 80 so that really matters yeah and somebody somebody can be like a 10 looks wise but if their personality is horrible it UND do that yeah let's see someone said uh am I a bad person for laughing hysterically at videos of animals falling off Bridges no honestly sometimes are just funny like you feel bad for the animal afterwards but they are just I a bad person for laughing at that I think anybody could laugh at that honestly yeah it's kind of like when people laugh because they see a video of somebody getting hurt or falling on ice like it just looks funny in the moment yeah exactly all right um how many girlfriends is too many I want to say there's not a number but there is always a number um I think it would matter on the character of the person also what they've went through but it'd be shocking you if you ask a guy like how many girlfriends have you had I and he says like oh I've had 15 or something like that did you say 15 yeah 15 or 10 like five is what ever it depends on where they live too like if they're long distance then that's kind of strange but if they're in a place with there's a lot of people then that's more understandable um but I don't know it depends also I think if they're real real popular it's a little different too it just I don't know it just depends if they've had like 50 girlfriends I would question if they were a serial killer and where all their ex-girlfriends were because it's a lot of people that it did not work out with if your success rate is that low you need to take a deep look at your inner self yeah also what do they mean by per by a girlfriend you know is it just someone you're talking to do you love them do they love you what is the what is the relationship I guess it it depends ultimately I there like 16 different personality types so if you're with 25 people 50 people and you haven't found a match for your personality there's a serious problem somewhere yeah yeah I would say you're right I mean it's honestly it depends on the person because some people go through a lot also depends on the background like if you're if you're public schooled for a while you may have like 10 15 girlfriends that aren't official it's just they call it that public school or whatever um it also depends on U are you real popular are you in a place where there's like 200 kids your age uh did you have really immature 14 to 20 you know it depends maybe they should be more with the label yeah like more more you know what do they mean by girlfriend like someone you really really like for instance me I have one official girlf in my entire life official but you know you can Define other situations as actual relationships it just depends on your what you mean by that I guess I mean to me a girlfriend like it wouldn't be right to call somebody a girlfriend unless they've agreed to that because everybody knows it's it's a relationship label so I feel like there should have been an agreement before somebody just taxed that term like oh they were my girlfriend once and that person doesn't know anything about it because they never considered him a boyfriend yeah yeah it does you're right it does depend I think girlfriend and boyfriend is more official like yes you know according to the message like you have the you think you'd marry them or you think it'd be possible you have the financial setup and all the different things you don't have any debt or whatever then I think you can say yeah this person was my girlfriend or they were not or whatever but just talking to someone it depends honestly um say someone says how many exes do you have it depends on what they mean by X I guess one officially um someone says what are your favorite types of personalities and why there's one oh that's a good question that's a really good question answerly what was that I'd have to study all the 16 personalities to give a really detailed answer but which one's your favorite and why um H I like people who are um what's the word for like somebody who doesn't instate conflict I can't think of the condensed version of that but somebody who who's not argumentative they're um a weekl I'm kidding easygoing funloving friendly extroverted adventurous let's see what are the 16 personalities let me look it up here I'm guessing that there is one of those that I will um they would probably be a uh my guess is they'd be a um a logistician like a a logic person or a um let's see hold on I'm looking at their list right now I'll probably um probably a console is my guess extraordinarily caring social and popular people always eager to help or a mediator mediator is poetic kind altruistic people always eager to help a good cause they're probably going to be more uh not wanting conflict is my guess yeah I mean to me the main thing is if they're extroverted and funloving and then that they're more of a follower because by default throughout my life I feel like even if I haven't tried to take like the leader position I'll just end up with people around me that look at me that way so it must be something about my personality that comes off so I tend to get along with well with people who are followers because I usually know what I like to do so if I have people who are like cool we'll do that too then it just works out easier yeah Seth King says all the logical ones are jerks if I remember right depends on what you logical I guess um interesting I'd love to try to get one of these uh to try to like do the personality test but do it the opposite of what you are and see what it comes up with or try to get one of these other ones you know that' be interesting be interesting yeah to see the polar opposite yeah that'd be very cool interesting interesting elron from Lord of the Rings is the nja like I am so that's kind of cool um let's see here see okay this is a strange question someone says honest opinion on Gore videos is it wrong is it decentring what's your take gore videos I didn't hear dogs whining at me is it is it wrong is it desensitizing what's your take do you know what they are you're talking about gory videos yeah like ones that are like unpurposely read gory of like an actual bad thing that happened to somebody I mean I if you watch anything enough it will become desensitizing you'll get so used to seeing it it'll not affect you it's just going to numb you to that thing so yes desensitizing wrong I think we're supposed to look at things that are good and wholesome so if you're just watching like evil Prevail and somebody get mercilessly tortured all the time I would think that that would put you in a bad mindset yeah I mean I I agree I don't someone once told me the what makes it about me the uh the why makes it about them makes about you the why is important I don't want to know why is this person doing this you know like cuz like I don't think I believe someone to do that you know I the only really the only uh because it's the you know it's like watching the perversion you never want to watch you know like uh I don't know like Satan leading someone to do something really really bad that's really weird I think the only instance where it would be arguably appropriate now I say arguably is if uh you were about to be drafted into World War III and you wanted to desensitize yourself to gore so that you wouldn't be so freaked out in war other than that I can't think of or like in EMT or something like that other than that I really can't think of a legitimate reason why yeah and even people who are uh 911 dispatchers they say that the way that they cope with the job is dark humor really they dark humor to cope with all the trauma that they put up with on a daily basis from their job I didn't know that really yeah there's a 911 dispatcher who lives in Arizona she's a message believer and i' I've seen her say this that her and her co-workers are like this so I suppose it'd be a different way of addressing like every suicidal person I've spoken to I tried to identify a sense of humor and not make fun of them but to make a joke about how they're feeling to try to lighten their mood to try to help because I think a a humor is a big trauma thing it's like if someone's telling me something very traumatizing I tend to laugh or smile because it's like a coping mechanism I guess um so it does definitely make sense I mean because what else are you g to do like if are you gonna be really really serious about it then because then it'll hit you and it'll really affect you yeah I I almost wonder too if like using humor for traumatic instances like that if it kind of ties into Denial in a way like you're trying to make it seem not as serious and if you can fool yourself into believing that it won't affect you as badly what's up GMO welcome to the live we have a worldclass tennis player on the live guys really very cool yes he he played he grew up playing tennis with a guy who was rated like 30th in the world wow very yeah and he teaches tennis for a living he served at tennis at like um at like uh Christian says um laughing at a suicidal person's pain is not helping helpful whatsoever um Christian how many people that's not what I said but how many people have you talked about out of suicide really curious um uh let's see J says what's up much love David what's up H jmo how's it going um yeah jmo so like uh yeah he's a world class tennis player like he served like my dad's been playing tennis for over 50 years and he said jmo serves with the fastest he had ever seen so wow keep it up big bcks does it for a living maned he's sick he played ping pong against me and I was within two points of beating him every single game but it was within like five days or within a week of when I hurt my arm so I could couldn't even hardly I couldn't push a card so I could kind of play so jmo next time you come I'm playing you and I'm going to beat you let's see uh juel says that makes sense my brother's a cup and he does that sometimes yeah you got to deal with the stress you got to like for instance I had a friend who had a testimony that he almost killed himself and then when I saw him afterwards I didn't know that about him I walked up to him and him and I exchanged dark humor so I uh I told him um I said well so and so I'm glad you're not dead he laughed um or like uh another person they when I was helping them out of it let's see JRA says well make it we'll make it happen yeah JRA sounds awesome um with another person when I helped them out of suicide they uh they were telling me how they um how they wanted to do certain certain things but they uh were planning their demise let's see Seth King says I have trauma for running over a caterpillar with my bicycle when I was five so that makes sense why did my humor is dark what color was the caterpillar said that's terrible what kind of caterpillar um so like the guy was helping with you know hardship um he told me he forgot about my birthday and I was like well if you weren't so busy trying to hurt yourself you would have remembered and he laughed because he thought it was funny so I think if you can make light of it is everything I think all life is sales you're either buying something or you're selling something and when you're in that mindset where you think everything is just terrible and you need you just end your own life you're buying the idea that you're not worth something but when someone makes a joke about it and not in a way to make fun of you but to make light of it saying well you know so and so if you weren't so busy trying to hurt yourself you would have remembered my birthday then it makes them smile and laugh and it actually activates a different part of their brain like if I am talking to them trying to help them in a suicide and I can ask them what time is it or uh can you grab a glass of water for me it activates a different part of their brain like the nurture part and helps them actually want to uh stay Al yeah a purpose if they have somebody who cares about them and that they can care for keep living for it's the purpose of getting them a glass of water do I need the glass of water no but it'll help uh Seth King says white outside with purple guts I named him Grimace is that where they got the Grimace Shake Seth think so I'm seeing P here I keep seeing that purple and white reference pop up I don't know where the whole grimus thing came from though honestly I must be sheltered from something uh let's see Seth says I paid it my bike white in his honor I know that there's a Gish shake at uh McDonald's but I don't know you should have put a caterpillar stamp on his bike for his kill okay it'll be interesting I already answered this question last live but it'll be interesting hearing the answer from your perspective um what to do did you have any more thoughts about what we're currently talking about before we move on to the next question um no I don't think so all right cool um what to do if I don't feel confident about about my looks you start out like from a girl's perspective and then we'll see what you think about the guy's perspective so if a girl doesn't feel confident about her looks what should she do um so some people might expect an answer like uh get into better physical shape eat better exercise more that type of thing however there's people who perceive themselves differently I scratched another tick mark on my bag to add to the coill count oh no Seth sorry CH should become a narcissist it works wonders that's terrible s okay go ahead Olivia that yeah hang on one second I'm gonna mute myself real quick and say something to my husband for a second all right cool what's up guys hello from the unmuted side so what to do if you feel confident about your looks I actually interested in what her what her uh what Olivia's perception is of what a of a guy if he doesn't feel confident about his looks okay sorry so a lot of people might expect the [Music] answer a lot of people might might expect the answer like um she could try putting more time into her appearance eating better exercising more however there's girls who look totally fine like there's there's nothing physically that anybody else would think that they need to improve on it's just a perception of themselves they dislike something about themselves and it could be comments that were made when they were younger or just a low self-esteem that comes from something that stemmed way back but there's nothing actually wrong with them they are attractive they just don't recognize it so I almost think to become more a way to become more confident in how they look is to surround themselves with somebody who can really show them that they're loved and accepted for who and how they are and sometimes that makes you dismiss what you would perceive as your own flaws if you see that you are accepted by somebody else then it builds your confidence and you're you're giving this proof that there is no reason to dislike things about yourself there's no reason to have a low self-esteem yeah I agree also you know the Bible says you are fearfully and wonderfully made you know I think my what I was think you know like the as far as the physical aspect of it I think if someone is in bad shape because of bad choices that they should try to make better choices that's it but if it's health condition nothing you can change also you're fearfully and wonderfully made the way that God made you and um but what about guys so from a girl's perspective what does should a guy do if he doesn't feel confident about his looks there's you know there's the obvious working out of course but feeling and being aren't the same thing like if you have a six-pack doesn't matter how you feel you know you have a six-pack but what should a guy do if he doesn't feel confident about his looks well that's going to differ I guess on an individual basis because I think confidence stems from acceptance you're confident and self assured in who and how you are you're fine with how you are it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks you're confident in yourself when when your self-esteem is low in your self-consciousness because you're worried about what everybody's thinking about you if somebody doesn't care what everybody's thinking it doesn't matter they're just fine in themselves then I would say that like maybe the individual guy would have to determine what it is he lacks confidence about specifically and just focus on that area and if it's for him if he feels like oh I'm overweight then yeah okay get to a place where you feel like you're happy with your weight work out more do whatever you feel like will make you confident but that's going to vary from Individual to individual yeah I agree and also the aspect of Satan will try to make you feel not confident of what you are and who you are and what what condition you're in regardless I think you know guys should it's different for girls because I'm not a girl but I think guys should try to realize the difference between like me I have an actual thing where I need to lose about i' say 20 pounds not be just really close to perfect just fine um but for like uh someone who doesn't you know the difference between actual undeniable stuff and things that true and and then there's the thing where Satan will attack you because like when I by God's grace I think when I was 18 I went from 243 to 213 in about 2 months and I still had thoughts to thinking like you're not you're not good-looking enough all these different things and uh part of it is something you can work towards but I think guy should guys and girls should also realize no matter what you do to improve yourself it is Satan's lies he will always tell you you are not enough and you are and I think God will lead you to be where you're supposed to be yeah um I was reading a comment here from I'm Seth King he said dress well and grow out your hair pretty easy there's some there's some truth to that as well like you know you can always get somebody's opinion who you trust who has like a good sense of style to help you with that but also another thing that works pretty well at least right now with the trend is to grow facial hair that you that usually makes people's opinion go up on on how a guy looks to go yeah but a lot of guys do tend to look better with their beard not all of them but overall I'd say like the consensus is that people find guys with beards noway is more attractive it used to be that looked at um like they were unkempt but now it's like a modern style that's more widely accepted so i' say yeah I'd say Maybe it stems from uh there being so many feminized and just terrible men in the world and it beard really shows that you are a man you know maybe maybe yeah I I think I think it gives like a more mature look because people will say like you look older if you have a beard and whenever a guy shaves his beard he looks like five years younger so I think it just makes him look like a more responsible mature adult and that's usually what women are looking for yeah I I agree um see J says great actually I have I have not bought new razors in three months they are so expensive and I'm very happy about that so I like beards actually I got one because someone edited one on my face back on August and then sent it to me and I show people on the live everyone's like get one get one and I said if someone pays for the beard kit I'll do it and no one would do it and then someone texted me like hey bro I'll pay for it and so that's what made me uh get the beard mhm yeah and you're keeping it for a while anyway yeah it's very yeah it's very uh if someone gave me $ thousand dollar I would I would shave that much you love your beard that much let's see now that I think if someone give me $800 would I shave golly um $800 Pro go it's going to grow back so don't shave it l Jewels um probably just say a thousand bucks honestly okay so here's the question let's say that you decide at some point to shave it just because you're curious what you looked like before and you're just going to shave it once and grow it back when you shave your beard are you going to do it on a live is it going to be the live where David is shaving his beard I won't shave it live I'll just come out and surprise everybody I guess okay Seth says no hate but the beard was definitely a glow up yes thank you I appreciate it I didn't know people thought I looked like you know a teenager with my beard so or without my beard rather let's see uh I don't know what this person's name is but they said work out and practice hygiene and just accept who you are as a person and that will raise your own self-confidence yes I agree I think you know when there's this video if someone wants it just ask me I can send it to you you say not everyone can grow a beard actually I think most people can with the right tools but your brother Bon Reagan has an idea has a video about um how to know if something's the will of God but one thing that I like to talk about because I'm just a young preacher so I try to keep this really simple is if you're trying to look for the will of God in your life and you're trying to think well am I enough am I do I have the right confidence whatever you should think not necessarily am I in the right place or like what can I do to find the perfect love of God but what should I not do to not find the perfect will of God what am I doing wrong or what are the right things to do regardless of what I know what God's will is or what do I already know God's here's the thing ironic I say simple then I can't think of the thought in my head do things that you know where go God's will read your Bible pray get out of debt get into a uh a good situation with money have a consistent income have a great relationship with your parents with your pastor um do something out of your own comfort zone go to new experiences and have fun if you do those things you will feel more confident yeah you were talking about uh confidence as far as appearance though right you're saying more confident appearance appearance and in your in your mind as well I say because so the person who wrote that is Andrew Fair he's up in Canada um but I I feel like he just kind of like um was agreeing with what we were saying earlier or I don't know if you heard it or not but that's what I was trying to say earlier as well is you like your confidence comes from not caring what other people think and just accepting who you are and when when you're self assured and you accept yourself then you're confident because you're fine with how you are to you there's nothing wrong okay interesting yeah I agree I see juel says if you you look more mature with the beard keep it all right I will um also it's expensive to not have one so you know oh man uh let's see isn't that funny it's expensive to have less or less visible yes exactly exactly all right guys questions thoughts comments concerns let me see someone said thing I'm not going to lie they did not all right can you think of any questions you want to ask uh Olivia not really I was just still thinking about the the follow-up comment that Andrew put in about not everybody can grow beard hair because that that is true like I've heard that many times but then I like maybe they don't have the genetics for it but I feel like most people do or I've even seen firsthand somebody who didn't think that it was possible for them to grow a beard and then they actually did grow one and it ended up filling in so I almost think if you do try and let it grow that there are more chances that yeah I'd say someone who can't grow beard should take the medicine take the vitamins get the grow your beard kit and try all those things that they want to try that's what I did because I'd never grown up before um see who is Andrew F Andrew Fair Andrew Fair let's see are you preaching now David yes Andrew um in about I think it's 14 days or so I will have been preaching for six and a half years by God's grace um let's see Seth says I almost I'm almost 18 and I couldn't grow a beard to save my life I look 12 but I'm not mad he can eat off the kids menu that's a perk some people ex say I'm I'm 12 sorry that's funny you're right you well Seth I wouldn't say that you look 12 you do look like you're 13 or 14 though like seriously man you look pretty young that's great is great going to be getting uh well I guess you don't get ID places much except for like the airport things since you don't go anywhere and drinks never mind forget my thought I was gonna say you're gonna get ided a lot but where would you get ided yeah fair enough what's up brother Brian Crow how's it going um let's see let's see oh what do you think about Christmas or if you like Christmas more specifically what do you think about people that religiously hate Christmas I do have some thoughts about that do you want to go first uh you go ahead I've already said it several several times I like to bounce off people but go ahead okay well that was like a two-parter so give me the first part again and then I'll what do you think about uh first what do you think about Christmas oh um well obviously it's an over commercialized holiday and we all know that that's not when Christ was born however brother brandham did say we should still recognize it as Christ birth and to celebrate it um so the people who are like hardcore against celebrating Christmas because they believe the message I don't really understand that because there's plenty of quotes where brother brandom supports Christmas as long as you're using it as a day of worship to worship Christ and it's not about all the gifts and the tensil and everything that was commercialized to be like we recognize the paganism that surrounds it but we separate that from it being a day of worship to remember the day Christ was born I think it matters how you celebrate it if you get too caught up in it for the wrong reasons then yes that would be a problem but there's a balance to everything I agree yeah it's uh it depends like but people who are like you know you are the devil if you celebrated like brother brand met a Christmas tree bro come on you know I think it's a uh you go as your fet of course but like you know I it's it it's a time to be happy in the most depressing time of the whole year that's what it is and it's also a gimmick to get people to get credit cards in my opinion because that's when everybody's broke usually is December and credit cards go on sale so that's what we just like buy interesting yeah so like when are you gonna use your credit card Christmas when are people broke Christmas usually see the other thing too is is like well do you think it's wrong to celebrate Easter because there's a lot of paganism surrounding Easter but then as Christians we recognize it as Resurrection Day so celebrating as far as plastic eggs candy and Easter bunnies like if you have a chocolate bunny there's nothing wrong with that but you know what I mean like as far as how the world looks at Easter that's not how we yeah we're not like it's like not like a religious thing you know I think it's a to me Christmas is gift giving celebrating the gift of the work of Christ funny nice Christmas movies good Christmas movies whatever and it's uh gifts man I love gifts so much yeah giving the and receiving is awesome and it's a happy time it's the the the people are happier everybody atheists everybody is happier around Christmas that is interesting considering it's in a depressing uh season of the year when everything's cold and there's less Sun out and everything it is interesting how that works I think that's why I think that's why it's in December as well if it was in July then we'd be really depressed in winter time in we need something to lift our Spirits no there are some people I mean I I'm not gonna say it's the majority but um I'm not going to say who because I don't want to narrow it down in case you end up seen this or anything but there's a family that I know that didn't believe in celebrating Christmas they're Believers um they just felt like it shouldn't be done and it's not something I could ever really see the reasoning on because like they didn't do gifts or anything they they acted like any other day there was nothing special about it I don't think they had a special meal I'm not sure but uh it's like I've I don't remember exactly where I heard this from but I'm pretty sure it's true I remember hearing that when that car accident when God took brother brandom off the scene that there were Christmas presents in his car when that happened so it's something even the prophet and his family did you know the Christmas tree and of course the gifts and stuff for the kids and he says that on tape so they don't feel left out like to me he never really said there's something wrong with celebrating Christmas but he put a differentiation between celebrating and it being a day of worship like we're not supposed to celebrate Christmas but it's a day of worship and he made that very plain interesting I agree it's uh I think you know like Christmas trees and all that like I won't personally have one I don't care if my wife wants one you know I'd rather spend their money on the kids um but people who make their their life's purpose to just like say that it's the most evil thing ever in my opinion it's just religion not actual Holiness it's religion like the people in my opinion who say you know it's wrong to uh say oh my God or um or to uh I don't know like Lord of the Rings or something like that or whatever it's all religion in my opinion because like it's a uh it's not we don't we're not saved because we uh do those things a certain certain certain way or we whatever we're saved by the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ and we want to be happy in our everyday life I like to separate the you know the the all the different lore and everything from everything like what is Christmas it's a happy time what is Easter it's a happy time and free candy um now like here's an interesting one Halloween I've never went out trick- or- trading I don't think it's wrong for someone to go out trick-or treating now if they're dressing up as a witch or something like that that's wrong I don't think that's correct but uh you know like the people dressing up as like Joe Biden security guards and watching him fall over and stuff that funny let's see uh Seth King says I don't not believe in celebrating Christmas I just don't enjoy it well Seth maybe we can get your parents to buy a PS5 and then you really enjoy it let's see uh Nathaniel cross says David do you have snap I do I just don't ever use it uh Andrew says every Christmas my dad reads out of the Bible and we listen to a message that morning after that we sometimes have gifts that little kids get excited about oh sweet and we sing as a family which is nice that sounds awesome singing Christmas songs together as a family is really nice I've done that with um some relatives before and that's not something we normally did so that was kind of special I always thought that it would be really neat to see carolers or to go caroling but I've never actually experiened that interesting that'd be really cool me neither but I think that'd be awesome um let's see Christmas is an sorry go ahead what sorry go ahead Christmas is an exciting time though my dad never let us have a Christmas tree though honestly with the Christmas tree I don't care it's the why why does someone want a Christmas tree or why did they not but the brandom had one it doesn't actually matter it doesn't actually matter the why is what matters not the what we never had a Christmas tree growing up either actually um and I I can't say I really missed it like I didn't really wish we had one and I know brother B got it a couple times for the kids and things I feel like on I don't remember how he worded it on tape but you know do it a couple times for the kids they don't really understand but um yeah it is really interesting if you read Jeremiah chapter 10 it sounds like a Christmas tree is being described and I think it does link back to Pagan Roots so that's probably a big reason why it looked down I don't really care about the tree I don't see the point of having one honestly I think it's a big waste of time I'm not looking in a big giant tree just to put fragile ornaments on I think it's the biggest waste of money and time in all of Christmas it's so annoying uh Seth King says hot take Halloween isn't a bad holiday it wasn't considered demonic until the leader of the satanic Church claimed it was their holiday in the 1960s I didn't know that about Halloween interesting I feel like I've heard a different history about hallowe and that when I looked it up so I would fact check that one no well yeah with the way the world is you know the way the world is now I think is strange I you know like with my kids I think it'd be something to like dress up as a cool like a cowboy or an Indian and give my kids candy but sending them out in the crazy crazy world is a strange thing in my opinion it depends it depends where you live I guess you get a bunch of message Believers is a little different but Andrew says it doesn't bother me I don't need one uh I think about Christmas trees it doesn't bother me I don't need one either so unless my kids and wife want one then fine LOL yeah I guess so with Christmas you any more thoughts I do but um I didn't want to say any misinformation so I was trying to Rack my brain to see if I can remember the details better oh cool let's see Seth King says Halloween's original intent was to dress up to ward off evil spirits I mean I don't sell celebrate it but I don't judge people if they enjoy dressing up see what I what I remember hearing about it and I'd have to go and see if I can find the history somewhere online but what I recall hearing was that when the Christians were being persecuted um they would go in Disguise and try to trick the Christians and then take them and torture and persecute them that's what I remember about the origin of Halloween I would have to double check that though interesting I've never really celebrated Halloween what I used to do when I when I was a kid I would sell candy and what I would do is uh I would buy candy right after Halloween because it was all in clearance and I make a huge profit yeah but that's really my only affiliation with Halloween and if I want if your up as to Cowboy or Batman or Superman or something I don't need Halloween to do it I'm just going to dress up as that because it's cool you know yeah I think a lot of people just think it's fun like a big costume party pretty much and hey you get candy and that's as much as they look at it as but with all of the skeletons and the fallen angels and just the whole Spirit around the holiday I have no desire to partake at all personally like there there's too many people who celebrate death that day for to comfortable like even getting near it so for me it's just a day I stay hold up yeah I like this year I didn't celebrate at all I've never actually celebrated Halloween I like candy and I like I like dressing up but I have never actually celebrated it um but interesting when I was a kid I remember once or twice I think my mom had put together a little like brown paper bag with a few individual candies in it for my sisters and I just so we wouldn't like feel left out cuz at that time we were going to public school so we knew it was like Halloween kids get candy usually at school they would do something similar but um another time sometimes my dad would bring home Halloween candy from work because he had a cooworker and he had kids and they would get loads of candy way too much and so he'd try to give some extra away to my dad and we'd end up with with some of the candy yeah let's see um honest question for Olivia what's your take on trimming split ends okay I don't mind giving my honest opinion I just don't want anybody to get offended at me but honestly I personally don't think it's right and that's just me I know there's some people who think it's fine to trim split ends but what's the split end um it's so like think of one strand of hair okay and then as it gets damaged it'll split it it forms like a fork so part of the split means like the The Strand is cutting in half or sometimes three pieces and it gets really thin and it makes your hair look I don't know how to describe it you might see like really fine white dots or like tips on the end of the hair like you can just tell it's not all going the same direction not All Uniform interesting okay whereas whereas a woman who goes and gets her haircut like all the hair is really straight and in line there's nothing going different directions at the ends why say people can pray to fix split ends they can also use can you use hairspray and stuff like that to fix the split end uh hairspray doesn't really do a great job at holding whatever you is I have no idea hairspray is the only word I know hairspray and detangler yeah I mean for me I don't think about it like I I personally think it's just a lie of the devil for uh women to be told oh if you don't cut your hair it won't grow nonsense look at how many are in the message with their hair like you know almost down in the back of their knees or longer and they've never cut their hair your hair doesn't grow from the ends it grows from the scalp guys you know like it all comes from your head it's not growing out the ends but I know thate there's some people who think it's fine because they're still keeping it long and they think it's okay to trim it and that's I guess just their personal conviction or belief on it but for me it's like that's like letting down the bars at what point will it stop because then if it's okay to take scissors to your hair and cut it that little bit how much farther are you going to go to me playing with fire a little bit like I I don't think it's right I think you just shouldn't cut it what I can hear neither do I I don't think that' be appropriate to cut your hair like in any way oh it's just trimming it's when someone has to use minimizing language like it's just it's probably not a good idea but I would say for that person to ask their parents about it and you to look at the why not just the what but why they want to do that cuz like is the way that God made them not enough um now I would ask you this though because I know a lot of people that use this think it's totally fine I don't know what do you think of clear nail polish I don't think there's anything wrong with it I've used it I don't think there's anything wrong with it because it's natural it doesn't Okay so I I know I know you use the the I don't use it all the time but I have and I don't feel convicted about it I remember the first time I had put it on my nails when I was going out for like an Easter meeting or something I was around 12 and I was actually embarrassed in covering my fingers because that particular thing that was on I couldn't get it off and it was so abnormally shiny that it made me uncomfortable but if it's just like something that's not in your face super glossed over and it looks natural and healthy I don't think there's anything wrong with that so go you know why what sorry um you usually say well um like are you unhappy with the way God made you but you have to realize we weren't made with split ends we weren't made with a body that's subject to death because of the fall of sin everybody is slowly in this process of dying so if you're doing something to restore what's natural and healthy and it doesn't look worldly I don't think it's wrong because yeah I know I know so little about women's fashion I really don't care about the what I care about the why you know and my point with that was that if someone doesn't feel like they're good enough then that's not correct now as far as clear nail polish I I mean if it makes it look more natural and it just cleans it or whatever or restores it I think that's different than like painting your nails pink or super super white or yellow or Sparkles or dandelions I don't like that I think that's wrong cuz it's not how God intended it but if I wash my face or if I put gel in my hair I think that's equivalent to nail Pol clear nail polish cuz if it's restoring it and cleaning it and making it you know protecting it then I'd say that's the same as like you know me putting uh something over a band on my arm or like hair gel yeah and and also it's like is is whitening teeth wrong oh are you not happy the way God Made You Well I mean we're just you know we're consuming Foods we shouldn't be consuming like I mean not that it's wrong drink coffee or tea but you know things that that it's like the second law thermodynamics everything is in a state of entropy it it's getting just worse if you leave it the way it is so you do things to take care of yourself you brush your teeth it's to take care of what God gave you just because you're doing grooming you're unhappy with how you're made yeah I'd say you can use the same arguments you know like with like braces are wrong or whitenings are wrong I don't think I think if you're trying to make yourself look more like the way God made you then that's interesting now I would say now if someone's saying oh it's just natural makeup that's a problem I you know that I think that yeah yeah yeah where there's some things where just making an excuse and it's letting down the bars of course when it comes to the Natural I'm sorry go ahead no you go ahead I was go ahead um when it comes to the National nail polish question I was also going to point out that you can actually there is a way to get your nails naturally shiny without using nail polish um you guys probably aren't familiar with it but maybe some of the girls are I don't remember exactly what it's called might just be called a buffer bar yeah but um it's it's a little rectangle block that's foam and it's got three or four different coatings on the sides and there's instructions on how to buff it on your nails you're supposed to do small circles on one side for like 10 to 15 seconds then you go to the other side and do back and forth motion for 10 to 15 seconds then you do the shine side and you do more circles and it it turns out shiny and you can do it to a man's nails and it's just like wow It's Perfectly Natural all it does is take off that rough outer coating that gets dull over time because you're using your hands so it is possible to do it without polish but the Polish gives a similar similar look and you don't risk thinning the nail and causing your nail to break more easily so so the Polish is almost like in my opinion I think it's just safer because I reached a point where I wasn't like trying to over polish my nail with that thing but my nails were breaking really easily and then when I quit doing that it didn't seem as bad so interesting I have heard that girls do nails things because it's for themselves but I will say as a guy and as every guy I've ever spoken to we don't care what your nails look like at all I I think that's you talking because some guys do care I know it seems like such an I mean not not I don't mean being bad but I don't mean like being dirty or whatever I mean like it doesn't have to be shiny like it just has to be clean and manicure or whatever but not like super shiny or pink or whatever just super shiny if it looks clean and wellmaintained great but we don't care if it shines or if it doesn't shine if it looks clean and well maintained we don't really care okay so your answer my be the same on this but I'll ask you anyway do you prefer this is just preference not right or wrong do you just prefer if their nails are longer or short and to what degree I have an answer that is that will probably crack you up um I don't care but when it comes to my siblings I prefer their nails to be longer because they're better at scratching my back that way okay St something in it for you yeah exactly yeah so I I mean there's really nothing wrong with it it's just a grooming preference but um I have a relative and it it was just his personal preference he hated when he could see the whites on a girl's nails he wanted to see no white like just you know his preference was short totally fine nothing wrong with it and then I feel like most girls feel like they feel more feminine when their fingernails are grown out somewhat and that guys usually tend to think it looks more feminine and if they have a preference they usually prefer it to be a little longer I know when I was dating my now husband he really liked when my nails were grown longer but that was something he actually noticed and thought looked nice but not all guys care about that some do now now he doesn't think about it but you know at the time it's just like oh that looks feminine and you know they have a preference maybe I'll develop a preference over time do you have any more questions Olivia or do any more questions or answers or more thoughts I don't think so all right cool thanks for being on again I'm end the live for thank you we'll see you guys next time okay sounds good