################################################################################ START OF FILE: 2024-01-07 - What do you mean by 0048 with Hannah Thompson, Joy Robinson, Laura, Steph, and Isaiah Larkin - ISAIAH.txt ################################################################################ SERMON DETAILS ======================================== Date: 2024-01-07 Title: "What do you mean by" #0048 with Hannah Thompson, Joy Robinson, Laura, Steph, and Isaiah Larkin Speaker: ISAIAH Church: What Do You Mean By Type: Church Service Duration: 2h 34m Language: English URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lStMMmvd1es ======================================== TRANSCRIPT ======================================== by number 48 where we're going to have Hannah Thompson Laura Lin and joy Robinson joining should be great Lord willing we have some fun questions should be awesome should be just the best monkey bro what's up Jude Natalie Thomas cross what's up guys we ran a week Elijah winners and one other up joined hi guys what's up just waiting for the guests to join then we will add them to this live how is everybody's Saturday hope you guys had a cool Saturday I had an awesome Saturday discovered that my uh Domino's app gives me a free pizza that has that doesn't even affect my rewards points so I can just break glass in case of emergency so I can get my emergency pizza if I really need iton Hannah Thompson and Laura Lin see Laura Lin's requesting I assume what's up got Laura and's it Laura made me join because she's scared don't be scared there's only 26 people watching yeah I see how are you guys good how are you very good very good all right so Hannah Grace is requesting let me uh let me do that let see Javon says ad Elijah winners he's better like what do you mean by better maybe another time but I think I can have five what's up H you look like a twitch streamer look like a what backr everything looks like a twitch streamer or [Laughter] something little bit it's oh very cool is that a baby in the background yeah all right cool text uh what's your face Robinson she'll join when she can okay all right cool so how are you guys I'm good did you have a good Saturday yeah yeah I did it was it was fun I even discovered I have a free pizza on on the Domino's app that doesn't even affect my points so that was awesome just in case I want to get extra bloated or fat or whatever it does I'm good very nice all right I'm G to pray quick and then we will begin okay so all right Lord thank you for this night thank you for the guests that want our joining tonight ask you with us as we go through all of this hope it to be a good time in a Christian time and uh give us your spirit we ask you in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and also um be with us as we all sleep tonight help us to get good rest for t tomorrow service and everyone when they go to their services help it all to go well ask be in Jesus name amen all right happy Veterans Day guys how's it going yeah we saw a parade yeah oh what was the parade like Americans American people were um yelling screaming USA tight rope walking USA doing backflips it was really back yeah can you guys do any of those interesting things or um we do backli FPS I shout USA sometimes you what I'll shout USA but that's that's where you got the yeah very very interesting yeah well what do you guys think you got 68 64 people watching how does that feel for you guys what hi you wonderful just okay see here all right so that I'm trying to find the questions that for you guys so everybody let me put put a Pinn comment um any questions are welcome so we'll go off the audience and we'll go off of what we had okay and hold on so who are the people on this live who are who is who is the people on who are who is Hannah Thompson I'll start there let's not start with me okay who is uh Stephanie Lin she is a 19-year-old girl from Florida okay what else a babysit I don't know what do you want to know you're on a live video in front of 60 people maybe some people don't know who you are well okay I didn't have thoughts in my head okay well that's that's that's good you should keep doing that I know you're blonde but hey it's still you can still think interesting oh my interesting whoa back off dog Hannah's blonde too yeah I have blond Roots When I was a baby I was blonde but I'm not I'm not a baby more though so okay what about you Laura who are you I am Laura Len about all I can say I'm not gonna lie she's not even blonde her she is her she is her she is her um work three jobs three no you don't I clean babysit and work clean yeah you clean babysit and what they're buffering now she's Dollar Tree babysitter Tyler Tyler knows see Tyler Laura Dollar Tree Wi-Fi was showing out for a second there actually accidentally shut my phone off good J it's not Dollar Tree Wi-Fi oh mine probably will okay and who is who is uh Hannah Thompson and you've had time to think Hannah yeah and yet I I wasn't thinking exctly it was completely empty up there and do not make another blonde joke David don't even you guys are makeing it for me I'm just I'm just quiet even think about it I'm not even blonde so you can't anything it's in your DNA anyways um I'm shut Isaiah get over yourself um I'm 18 I work at Starbucks and yeah that's that's about it that's the end that's me all right sweet okay awesome who is David cran who is David CR Who David Kain okay David Kain 23 I run a uh what the word for it a podcast bring people on and uh people get mad at me and I I make mistakes and apologize and we go on it's all fun what's up sister car welcome to the live um uh I can go into more detail but that's me um so what I can't hear you oh sorry muted sorry what did you say I was whispering to Stephanie oh I was wondering why your mouth was moving but no noise was Mak happening okay all right so what all right so you guys are what's up sister K so you guys are feeling a lot of uh pressure right now pressure that you're not used to one of the questions that came in was what do you do to stay positive and happy so I'll do an off question of that is what do you what do you girls do to stay confident well what you do to stay confident ourselves in the fall and get valid oh no um I feel like um probably like do your hair or go shopping maybe buy a few things maybe waste some money shopping therapy is real yeah shopping probably would be my number one answer oh Eli asked okay we'll answer this question then Eli asked a question okay Hannah then you can answer like what you do to stay you know okay what I do to stay positive and happy and confident uh I stay in the gym what I out make make three cockies every day um what what is Eli's oh Eli such a good question love that question what are your girls dreams goals what are y'all's top selling drinks cook I used to be a professional cleaner I can cook clean take care of kids I'm just kidding babies are twins El what's your dreams um I don't know I haven't really actually thought about my dreams that much couldn't I'm trying to think see while you're thinking I dreamed last night that I was Darth Vader and I was in Lo of the Rings in the same dream it was awesome that's who's the best dream ever uh I don't even think I dreamed last night because I was so tired see Fox I don't know his name says as long as you're confident cooking it's good Isa can't even clean his own room so we don't want to hear what's up buddy what his name have a star guest say hey hi hi say what's up say what's up Daddy that's okay here so that's fine once his name his name is Aaron KY Kenny we need a rating we need a rating a rating of what a rating of what yes we have one child up for auction um another but I'm not he's very expensive and he also has a cake pop addiction yeah you see candy Starbucks K poop addiction right Starbucks C poop that like actual coffee oh no yeah so you guys let him drink coffee that's like nothing we let our one-year-old niece drink coffee I make my niece coffee a lot it's normal it's something like new babies do it's Anonymous for say hello hello hello what's up what's your name buddy what is your name name say Aaron say Aaron send you a box of Pi pop if you say Batman shut up Eli grow up I can't rate anybody what are they talking about they want to rate David on a scale of one to 10 but I can't I don't do that I people that's not very Christian yeah I drinks I think it's this diet coke is a 10 out of 10 I really do is that caffeine fore Diet Coke yes it is actually I just got also some awam soda and root beer rbody said let's rate Aaron the boy he's 10 he's a million he's infinite he doesn't exist on any chart the little boy yeah yeah yeah he looks awesome I bet he's amazing what's up buddy that little baby looks just like Ezekiel what's up Micah welome that don't hurt his feelings like that oh he said at least he has hair oh who said that his his name is Matthew right him in cake pops he's 10 cake pops out of 10 I think David wants no I don't care I I don't care every person is the person that they are I think anyone with the Holy Ghost is a 10 and a 10 I think it all comes down to your personality and your character and yes a zero or a 10 you this yeah what's going in chat Lord okay so what other questions were there okay see one thing oh M said to write him out of 10 m yeah he's a 10 bro he's the best ever doesn't even exist on this chart he zero oh they want support bear they want what they want to meet Laura's support bear who said that you have a support bear this is from 2008 it was a Valentine's Day gift who gave you the Valentine's Day gift from a lady from a lady in a class I used to go to nice okay I knew okay the only the only other question was uh actually I can ask you k you said you guys you work at a Starbucks right mhm did you said that you got vandalized this morning what happened we got vandalized what does that mean exactly what what happened like somebody spray painted the doors and like exed out the Starbucks sign spray painted like the drive-thru like basically every window or door was spray painted m m it's [Music] a what he said yes but yeah um basically it all said uh kid killer um what because of the the the um is this about war Israel Pakistan yeah there was like free Pakistan on the side of it it was it was crazy my not Pakistan I don't even know what Pakistan [Music] no said Pakistan because you said Pakistan says David looked better with or without the beard I am curious about that with or without the beard what do you guys think with I don't remember you without it so I feel but that's just me you what I feel like you could like trim what is the Captain Crunch drink clearly she don't know no clearly I don't know how to I just get paid to work that's all she left like a malfunction bring her back I did not kick her out or anything I don't know what happened oan he's stealing the show man he is actually show we can actually all leave it's just him now she's requesting I think it was just a a glitch or something you just wanted to switch all right I think sending questions um I'll be right back say hey Laura all right there two questions that came in that I'm not gonna ask um but there's no other new ones that came in those are probably I'm curious uh one of them was what what is the worst camp in y'all's opinion and I don't like deducting someone's really hard work into what's the worst camp they're all doing their best let's see David can you bring out the Bongos I don't have the Bongos I have my guitar but the Bongos are at [Music] church okay let's see here all right people also ask what age do you guys want to get married that's the other question that came in God I agree Michael Brown no comment dot dot dot um um I don't know I like whatever like whatever I agree with Mom and Dad whatever age the Lord provides someone that is right for you is when you should get married when you're mature enough and esta finances and when you have like crazy money then you can get married yeah yeah and what do you mean by what is what is crazy money exactly mean um like crazy money basically if you have enough money to buy a Lamborghini then we can talk yeah yeah if you can buy me a Lambo then like you mean like with cash or with h credit cash cash cash well yeah but okay so Lamborghini let's let's look this up Lamborghini wow not [Music] like Aaron come here you eating nerds hey come here one I said one okay so guys basically less than one half of 1% of everyone men and women living have enough money to buy a Lamborghini in the bank and you can make that even less when you have when you bring in mess with people so like you're statistically more likely to be struck by lightning than to find a guy who can cash by a Lamborghini I'll interesting all right interesting see like the first brand new like 21,000 interesting these are all jokes by the way well it is our goal in life it's our goal in life all right we're I want to travel and um have some [Laughter] me I want to travel and be able to do whatever I actually just want a um Range Rover put like the kids and then we're good yeah unless my wife want marry me has a cyber truck it won't happen I'm sorry I can't wanted a Range Rover Sports truck okay here uh Livia clinty asked what personality trait is your number one preference in a man there you go what personality trait is character what personality trait by guy you have what Godly character mad funny funny yeah okay if conversation cannot flow and be like normal zero out of 10 a bully if you and honestly if we can't bully each other the absolute mess out of each other I'm talking like hurt each other's feelings but it's all in the Name of Love it's all in the Name of Love okay interesting y yeah sorry I'm trying to read through these comments so banter guys saying saying like you really want some a guy to be able to do banter you know like call you a loser and then you'll love it is that what you're saying not like loser but like there's a certain way it has to be the you would so a kind of a loser so he can be like you don't get it I couldn't explain it to you yeah it's kind sorry I just missed every last bit of that what now guy to be like oh you're such a loser no want to be like playfully bullied no I want to be straight up bullied yeah P oh yeah no if we're not if we're not close don't even think about it you all right so like uh someone asked what do you find most attractive in a guy that was from uh Olivia clinty what did they find most attractive in a guy now what if you guys said Godly character but that's that's a really good answer but that's the God card answer and you can Define it a thousand ways what do you mean by Godly character what that the most attractive thing what the most attractive thing in a man is when he knows to keep his mouth shut what he he can't breathe through his nose then he's a mou brether of ahe theat I don't know actually oh wait honestly when he worshiped that's like that's probably one of them when he what enters in in church worship like when you you talk to him about Godly stuff and he actually has answers for him and he has like if you can have like deep spiritual conversations and be 100% serious about it yeah and comfortable talking about it you don't feel like you're bothering them if it's awkward it's awkward at first but then it gets better okay all right interesting see someone ask someone asked how old are y'all what state do you live in and what church do you attend sty L 19 and go to Laura L and Hann 18 Hannah Thompson and I go to uh ju forny right now that brother for hold on second hold on I'm texting uh Joy Robinson on the chat yes she can yeah Joy you can you can come on and your spam let me accept your re would you marry would you marry a girl that works would you allow why not extra money is awes extra money is is the best thing ever I would tell her though hey honey you don't need to work like at all but um if she really wants to why not extra money is awesome what about even if she already had no no no no no no no okay okay y'all are married y'all already have kids like but she still working and the kids are young and the kids are young yeah um well I would probably just ask her you know what her thought process was as to how she was how she she wants the kids to be taken care ofur what's up Jo welcome live Stephanie off clean so how how does it feel Joy to be on the live I'm I'm actually I'm pretty nervous right now oh sweet okay at bethl Camp maybe I'll help in this way at bethl camp you were I think you were the first one to tell me you love the podcast when I was feeling like everyone was just making fun of me and it really encouraged me so thank you yeah of course yeah yeah it's really nice so who is Joy Robinson well um I'm 18 uh I work and I'm doing my for nursing right now I actually only have a couple of prcts before I can apply to the nursing program interesting so what made you uh what made you want to be a nurse um I've just I've always loved helping people um I I pretty much wanted to be a nurse since I was a kid um and then when I was 15 I actually got um an inhome care job and I've just I've basically I've had a I've taken care of people for a while so I I I feel like it's my calling aw well that's cool brother bam said uh if his sons do want to be um preachers he want to be doctors and his and his daughter's nurses so very cool and he and he talked about how much he valued a nurse that was taken care of him so I think that's awesome yeah inter all right is that kid making no still what's he saying he said what's that that it's a [Laughter] boy yeah right so what do you guys do uh see I can see someone just sent these in uh now this has nothing to do with me because I my skincare routine is soap and water but someone said in not going to lie and I'm just quoting can we get each one of y'all's skincare routines y'all skin is glowing to exclamation point stop it oh my go that's like my favorite compliment no literally same M's very long yeah it is very long yeah Aid exist there you go um you put your toner then you put another a serum you have the face wash the toner the other toner and then the other toner and then we have the glycolic acid we have the hyaluronic than your face it's good me me out moisturizer if you don't have this I don't respectfully it's really it's overhyped I don't use sunscreen Jo sort if I used sunscreen it would just be wrong it's just like not yeah go ahead I know nothing about any of this but please go off Queens go keep going I know nothing about any of this so please keep going um there's two different things so you have like there there's um morning I mean it's just it's a lot y' y'all we need some good questions we do yeah please never say that again I'm just trying to encourage you guys or girls [Laughter] rather per David oh my gosh don't know what that means KN brandom join the chat apparently okay open the door you open the door I calculated it one time you what actually don't open the door your routine isn't here you want this okay so like if I want to do a skincare routine what should I do wash your face a really good face wash I recommend the cave foaming cleanser that's like a really good you know breaks down your oils yeah it's manly um then I'd recommend a moisturizer or I don't know because you don't seem like a serum guy you don't seem like you'd put toners and serums on your face not gonna lie maybe just oh my gosh David give us a fit check oh what the heck does that mean I don't know what is like show us your outfit oh there you go Slay Slay Queen where did okay Umar tree WiFi started probably heard Wii it started only have three co-hosts okay um how am I going to do this all right it's telling me I can only have three co-hosts so what I'm going to do is I'm going to kick both of you off and then welome joy in and then you guys request okay okay got I'm G try that actually hold on I think I can do it a different way remove and now except I think there's a glitch on the app hold on all right accept there we go got it hey sorry I have awful Wi-Fi oh you're fine Wii yep and there's like a windstorm right now I was actually driving earlier and there was like a tree in the road and I I almost um almost ran off the side of the road it was so bad Joy don't tell how bad of a driver you are on social media okay girls are good drivers girl you're giving us a bad name girls are good drivers okay I've written with her yep y Joy's really good all right I'll ask you girls something that I know you guys will have a lot to say about so I recently heard from someone that there aren't many um men in the message that are single there's just like no great men so what does a great man look like in character what does that look look like what he does what he doesn't do what do those things look like well first off he needs to have the Holy Ghost also needs to be able to provide yeah what if I provide how much money uh okay more than to get by let's think about this like literally the economy is insane right now crazy and if you're only living off say you want your you don't want your wife to work say you're living off one income like yeah how much did you [Music] say 9 100 okay all right um I actually have asked my dad and a few other people how much they make and how much they actually spend and it also depends on um where you're living like for instance Knoxville has a it's the cost of living in Knoxville which is now from my house is 177% lower than the national average in big cities and I live in a small City so like where I live someone can comfortably live in about $2,000 a month which is about 30 grand a year before taxes now I think the average income is around 50 um so I think it has less to do with how much you make and it's more to do with how you manage it personally because i' i' I know you know like Dave Ram is talking about people who make $200,000 a year and don't have a penny and people that make 30 and do have savings so I think it's more along the lines of how you manage it it is some of it sure in this crazy world we live in but I have talked to several people who make onethird of what you said and they just fine it also depends on where you live and if you live in New York you got to make a lot more of course because like 300K what yeah yeah like the cheapest house you can get and that's usually in like the ghetto crazy well right now the uh's see the housing market isn't is at an all-time high right now so that of course is going to make sense um interesting okay interesting now Washington like a TW bedroom three bath is like or a three-bedroom two bath it's like probably 800k yeah it's really expensive so definitely a guy who like can provide yeah do think that inel you know should both work and start saving in my op he needs to know go ahead he needs to how to like money manage if you and you can't like like you need to be able to budget if you can't budget what are you doing with your life you're not managing it well then it's uh doesn't matter how much you make um I think uh Joseph huny says the important question is does it matter how he makes his money does it matter how he makes his money um I mean like well there is an ex so not drugs yeah unless you're a pharmacist yeah unless unless you're pharmacist I support it um no doesn't matter really how you make money just as long as you but unless like feel like when you guys say oh we need to make 90,000 or 100,000 I think that you're saying that out of because that sounds really good rather than I don't think in my opinion I think it's more along the lines of sounding good rather than actually doing the math I was literally just being because like in all honesty I think I think management of course is like 50,000 of course I think 35,000 is an acceptable income in some places where you where you live it just makes more sense belong to how do you you manage it and where do you live I feel like when [Music] you that kid can you get that boy to stop all I can hear red flag red flag red flag guys just give him a candy bar something children come here what's up buddy I think that it all depends it there's no like specific answer to the question and it also depends on how desperate you are to get married yeah and it also depends on if you want to struggle pay to paycheck for a while that's a big thing uh yeah I agree yeah I think every I in my opinion I think every guy should like according to like the um the way of that Dave Ramsey you should have an emergency fund solid income 41k all those different things before you get married like my parents though have been married 34 years this December when they got married they lived in and they lived in someone's basement for a while and then they rented then they bought a house and now they own a six bedroom house but they started getting married living in someone's basement not saying that that's the optimal way of doing it what I'm saying is I think like I think men will say things usually more logically it's not girls will say things usually more emotionally like in my opinion it's more along the lines of you want to be provided for and you want everything to be set and you don't want to have to worry about money that's what you really mean not oh he has to make $800,000 a year I think it's more about can you make things happen are we going to have a house to have conversations about honey we don't have enough money that's what I think you mean by say what she said what you say that kid good night [Music] baby he said hey Micah there's another baby oh my gosh I just dropped mine off wow you wait say hi my gosh I'll be right back my bring bag bring her bag look Aon who's that M no it's not Micah everybody look can you say hello hi hello hello can you ask what that little girl's name is hey Avery you're famous Avery hey Avery oh what are you gonna say you gonna say what you say heyy hi hey D M that's not very nice oh no love you nights you nights nights Bye by bye you look like a you no don't take my bear all right good hi Ryan M where are you Mah who is that he's sharing his food with y'all you're welcome yeah there are three girls on here and only one guy go bye I love you love you see you in the morning so what are we gonna talk about now girlies yeah what are we gonna talk about Queens Queens well where did where go hey Queens hey que go off queens that had me on the off so where are we shopping at next week I'm actually somewhere to you know go shopping I'll fly to your house Hannah guys I got this new recipe for um oh never mind no we W here Hannah never mind what is he doing what do you think is the best quality in a girl besides yeah like her character besides the obvious answers like holy ghost all that the most you asking [Music] me the person she is is behind closed doors when no one is watching what I said I would hope she's not asking us yeah um your guys what was your what was your exact question again best quality in a girl yes the best like one quality for like that you think is the best besides the obvious answers selflessness and a true regard for the feelings of others so it's easy to be really like for instance in the beginning of a relationship it's really easy to be um to be nice to someone really polite and all those different things and it's the social Norm but when a relationship ends I think and like the girl gets rid of the guy or whatever that shows in my opinion who a girl really is whether they whether they are really polite or they're really mean think I something bad and whatever but um I think the person that they are when they're not putting on a Mas ask is a big thing so humility and like doing something or saying something to someone for the sole purpose of you know thinking of their feelings not how can I say something in the easiest way to move on with my life but rather you know how can I be really really nice to someone knowing that no one will ever see what they're doing so really it's selflessness and honesty what so empathy yeah empathy when they could get away with the minimum pretty much um it's the most important thing also uh honesty humility they got to be really really humble and honesty honestly for me honestly for me a girl that will tell me I'm wrong and be willing to now not in public in front of a bunch of people I wouldn't do that to her I wouldn't I hope she wouldn't do it to me but you know to say hey I think you're wrong about this because a lot of times I am and I need that um so someone's correct and be honest and be humble because someone that like if you're talking to a girl and you and she's wrong about something and uh she you correct her and then she just hungs up and blocks you then that's um um that's that's not good but if she says hey I'm sorry I was wrong and then you can sit it back to her I think that's a valuable thing um have you ever um yeah have you ever girlfri what have you ever oh yeah that's the word have I ever have I ever you did you ask have I ever dated anyone yeah I have yeah you said yeah I have one girl officially anyway caught your what was your question you cut out what your attention um what's the first thing that catch your attention in a girl first impression what is the first impr impression that catches catches your honestly she's really pretty that's usually the first thing and then that's of course and then you um and then you go to um how are they dressed so girl's real pretty but she not dressed very modestly then that's not attractive but it's justess modestly that's very attractive because you marry someone not for as part of it is how they look of course but also girls are e experts at how they look they are the greatest of all time what did I do when I picked out a shirt today a shirt that fit jeans in in a shoes that's literally the only thought I gave to what I'm wearing today before the live it put some warm water in my hair and use my fingers that's it but um the uh thing ATT attention are pretty and they show modesty and they're nice to their friends and I also will maybe also do some research about who their parents are who their Pastor is that also matters like can I get along with their like if girls really nice and really pretty but her father is crazy then you can't go anywhere but if um or if the pastor's crazy or whatever you do all these different things you more research and more time so for me like I my job is to do research about people and contact them for like the last Almost year and a half so whenever I see some whenever I would have like do research about someone before I talk to them as modesty who are their parents who is their Church what kind of posts do they make do they have a sense of humor and um do I think they'd be honest and also how do they respond when you text them hello hi how's it going God bless you whatever so what what if her parents are crazy run so you you blame her for her parents no um I you just aren long enough to well no that's not it when you marry a girl you marry your parents as well you marry the whole family well you marry the whole family it depends on the girl depends on the family it depends how long you're talking to them like if for instance I'll put it this way if you if a girl says you can't talk to me unless you talk to my father and the father is just really crazy he doesn't give a straight answer and basically kind of says no but kind of says uh just doesn't give you a straight answer then you got to move on but if he's but if they let you talk his friends for a while and you built up an emotional connection then of course you know if I build up an emotional connection with someone I really like them and it turns that her parents are crazy then I'm not going to leave her of course it'll be a different situation then yeah go ahead think um you should date someone before you get married like what do you think is a good time good how long yeah yeah like how long is a good a good amount of time before getting engaged um wouldn't necessarily say there's a certain time I'd say there's a certain uh technique if that makes sense the real question is are you doing as God is leading you not are you doing it by this Stone Cold by the book thing because like what do you think what what do you think is like a a normal like okay yeah that was that was sensible amount of time to date before getting Eng honestly I can't give a ADV answer on how long or how short because I've heard of people that get married within I know a guy a message preacher who got married to a girl who asked him asked her to marry him the day he met her and they were married for over 50 years so really I think like my dad the date and of course he married her three years later but my dad when he saw my mom God spoke to him and told him you will marry that girl so the real the real question is are you led of the Holy Ghost like I'm not going to say I think a year is a good time frame because for some people it is but for other people they need to wait five years for other people they should just wait six months for other people they have a terrible family situation they need to get married sooner for other people like if if if a 40-year-old guys talking to a 36y old lady you know they're going probably Move Along faster than younger people because they're older and they are more mature so it's uh it's as as God leads really is is the main thing how do you how do you know the Lord is um leading you though like how do you know if it's God speaking to you or how do you know if it's like how do you know it's not something else that's a really good question it's a really hard question I'm actually I'll pull up and I'll try to send to you guys after this if you'd like where brother Donnie Reagan at his church actually directly answer these questions with some quotes and things like that so how do you know if you're in the will of God in my opinion what I would say is if it goes against um what your flesh wants right now because most of the time it's going to take a lot of time and if you know it's a God is something that uh it's hard to explain it's the will of God I can't really explain the will of God but I can say that usually it's not going to happen right away and usually it involves a lot of patience and uh it uh really it really depends how do you know it's the will of God um I would say how you sp god um I don't know that's a really difficult question but I'd say if you have the Holy Ghost and you know you do and you know they do and the guy is leading it and he's not rushing it but he's truly showing that he has real wisdom then then that's something that's that's true I would say I feel like that is true but to an extent because like say you are dating a guy that has the Holy Ghost and say he isn't rushing things but also maybe it's not meant to be maybe it's not the will of God and it's still working out fine and you're getting along fine I mean it's something that's more than just is he taking it slow does he have the Holy Ghost is is it going good I'd say it's not that what I mean what what I'm saying is I think that God would um God is very good at what he does he's very effective the steps of a the righteous are ordered of the Lord and I think the same God that would lead you to go to an Al and get the Holy Ghost and put Church to go to he will lead you I believe and I think it was I forgot which preacher said this but God will lead you in a way that you know it's him like in my life sometimes people would ask me like why didn't you try to talk to this girl or do this thing and then I would tell them like because I just didn't feel very LED in literally like my job preaching or singing or these lives in other parts of my life I feel such a leading of God by God's grace to go forward and to do what I'm doing and if I don't feel strong like everything I do for some reason I'm built with such a I was born a month early I do I my David name is David I've done a lot of things early like riding a bike when I was two years old without training wheels I'm told so my brain does things really fast and usually I have a very big drive to do something but if I don't then I can usually think that that's not the will of God for me to do so it depends on person but you know it's it's more I think God will show you what he wants you to do um in a way that you know it's him I feel like even if things are going well I feel like you can't can't base it all off a feeling though like you need to pray about it and pray for ACT sign well it's not really feeling and some of it's not some of it is a sign some of it's not you know like uh like brother Barry coffee said at bethl Camp he said that he got mad at his friends when they told him oh how did you know it was the guy the man or the one to marry when uh you met her and he said oh I just knew he's like oh that's terrible then when someone asked him about his wife he said oh well I just knew and it's it's really hard to explain but it's it's God and I think that God leads us and it's not even necessarily a feeling I might preach a sermon one day titled when all the feeling and emotion are gone it's your soul and I think that God will lead you the way he wants you to go just keep praying and keep serving God to the best of your ability and I think God will show you in a way that you know that it is I mean even something is I know if people who have relationships and things were going great and they both do of the Holy Ghost but God just LED one just LED them to break up or to go forward but I think God will lead in the way he wants to go and he is the one that tells these people whether they're doing correctly or they're not and I'd say it's really hard to say what is the will of God but I can very very uh positively say what isn't the will of God if you're rushing things or if it feels like you're rushing things it I don't believe it would be the will of God if you don't have the financial ability to go forward Maybe it's not the will of God if uh our parents are saying no and they're good people maybe it's not the will of God right now if uh you know she's saying no and you got to try to convince her um it's probably not maybe not the will of God hope that makes sense yeah and if you're pastor and your family and your parents and your friends are all telling you hey slow down and it's probably not the will of God to be to speed up in most senses you know we're we're all young people we want to want everything right now but usually the answer is to slow down pray and wait and then God will uh set things up I hope that hope that makes sense did um are there any more questions in the uh not going to lie thing yeah people just sending a bunch of them I'll be right back yeah love the freeze [Music] friend oh my goodness send some send some legit questions please yeah we need questions y'all actual we need good questions yeah Jo I love that those are so good no no because they're the best um Fair life milk no because those are so good Fair life oh my gosh do you get the dairy free one they they this isn't dairy free they have a lact they have a lactose free one no wa well yeah okay all right Thomas cross asked a question and uh actually I'll answer this quick someone is asking um how long can David tolerate a screaming child um now if I was actually the parent of a screaming child assuming it's my son then he screaming because something because you know when you're young like that you aren't your emotions aren't like I think it was Steven cin that explained this to me about seven years ago your emotions aren't regulated you really don't know what you feel or why you feel it food sleep everything else so I would identify what he's wanting and give it to him food sleep enjoyment or maybe he just wants to uh play a board game or maybe I can say hey hey buddy if you put together this Lego set a bought for you I will take you to go get ice cream and that'll occupy his mind for the next hour and ice cream might just mean a uh an ice cream cone in the freezer so really identify what does he want to do why does he want it and get him uh interested and engaged in something that he likes doing maybe he likes blocks scaming right now David do you want us to rate you because a bunch of people want us to but that's like I feel that's not good like I think I'll put it this way um I think it's not good to uh to say something out of 10 because there is no objective answer for each person and every person has a has their own unique things but what you guys could say if you'd like is what you think I do very well and what you think I can do do better that way you're not saying oh you're a 10 or you're a seven or whatever but you're saying um this is what you don't do very well you can do better and it helps me because I'm not concerned with what I think I should do better I'm concerned what what people what girls think I should do better and what God think I should do better and also I know what I'm doing well so continue to do it if you would like if you don't we just go on to the next question because I have like nine questions that just came in let's go on to the next question I do all right cool but do you think that would be a like you don't have to but I think like that that's better than rating someone out of 10 so why I'm gonna go to the questions I'll be right [Laughter] [Music] [Laughter] back I agree with Che yeah thank you shut up shut up I won't be reading boys yeah no I'm doing that see sheffy says don't bash girls on their insta post for one yeah I completely agree um I would also say don't take what someone said and misinterpret it and then refuse to change your opinion after they re-explain themselves um let's see hold on okay we got some cool questions um tips on hair growth wouldn't know rice water rosemary oil I don't know I hear rosemary oil and rice water works great works wonders not us um they also say that your natural hair oils are good for hair growth so like I guess don't wash your hair as much say don't put heat on them but like that's just gone yeah and use like a satin pillowcase don't do that either satin pillowcases are Biotin and stuff like that helps but again don't take oil in the ends of your hairs yeah keep oil on your in the ends and a night but oh my gosh wear a bonnet bonnet you'll look like an idiot but it'll work yeah all right what are some other questions David I think you muted I think you muted your all here's the question here's a question that I have I think it would' be interesting so if a guy is potentially interested in a girl to talk to her how should he approach her in a way where they can remain friends afterwards and not be don't approach a girl immediately thinking that you're going to talk to this girl like talk talk if you approach this girl and be perfectly fine with just being friends you have no business talking to a girl respectfully what you could say sorry last part if you talk to a girl when you're not fine with being just friends don't talk to you you have no business talking to a girl can't be okay here's an here's an opinion that I have on on this I think that you guys will probably like it I think like when people are 12 years old they can play the game of who likes who but I think when someone is asking like who's interested in who based on them just talking to each other like once or twice I think people should rather talk to each other as friends like talk on the phone and get to know each other before them like if a guy's asking like if I talk to a girl for instance and someone ask like oh are you interested in them I think the real question should be for a guy hey which girl have you talked to consistently semi consistently for like a year how many which of those girls would you be interested in because it's not or like or for while because you should talk to someone just as a friend and be able to even talk on the phone or whatever and not have a social expectation of oh that means you like them we really know it's just as friends because you can't we're we're adults we don't make decisions on whether or not we're going to date someone based off of you know one text really you're just as friends and these relationships really take time to develop because it's going to last for the rest of your entire life if that makes sense I feel like you should if you're going to approach girl you should never approach her expecting to be in a relationship with her expecting for her to like you like that never work out if you expect that from her it's kind of icky of course yeah so like how should a guy approach if he's interested like we're like a guy we're thinking okay this girl's pretty she seems to show modesty but we still don't know anything about them how should they approach if they want to talk to them and learn more about them we're saying well saying hey I'm not saying this because I want to marry you because maybe I want to talk to you and uh see if there's anything there but just as friends of course how can a guy really communicate that along without it getting weird afterwards well don't go up to her like when she's just by herself like try to make sure there's like other people around um chill don't be like awkward about it don't be weird about it just like introduce yourself move on Don't force her to have a conversation if she doesn't seem interested don't keep bugging her that hurt like a butt she gonna stuck girl so if she doesn't seem interested just turn around walk away and don't don't get in your feelings about like a girl not liking you sometimes it's just like you don't way and it's not a big deal just like move move on interesting in my opinion I think that if a girl is doing anything other than responding consistently she does not want to talk to you she's not interested because people make time for what they want to make time for if they want to talk to you they will if they don't and they want to be nice they'll just rarely respond they'll take forever they're always busy um that just means they not interested that's true to an extent yeah okay because sometimes you do want to talk but you physically just can't yeah like some of us actually have things to do with our lives like work or school or like we're actually busy so sometimes we can't reply right then and there yeah okay all right let's see here someone put on the knock light David will never understand girls thinking well I hope I never do because I if I do I think my head would literally explode I don't think it's possible but uh had the mind of a girl you would be a lot like wiser because girls are just you know smarter we also mature a whole lot it's like I learned that in my psychology us whoa that though [Laughter] Stephanie okay so someone asked on the knuckle line um okay here's a good question for you girls I'm sure you girls have thought about this a lot I I I have not um but uh what's y'all's Ultimate Dream date I've I have no idea honestly for mine is the one that makes the girl the happiest um that's the dream one of course but like the girls like have a a dream date lined out like this would be perfect if he did this okay here's another question I have what do you think about normalizing asking girls out in the message so instead of playing this game where you text and see instead of playing the game where you text and you see uh oh well uh should we talk or is there a talking stage whatever what about a guy just saying hey look uh how about I I I'd like to ask you out and then no no she'll say yes or she'll say no what about that and by ask ask you out just say would you want to date I feel like in the message saying well it's not a date per se it's a uh it's like it's like like the world does it of course Wrong by by doing other things before marriage but the idea of asking someone hey would you like to go to a restaurant with me and spend some time and see if we click in person without having to say we're dating I think that's a good idea because that girl then has a chance to think okay do I want to explore this with this person or do I want to not rather than oh we'll just uh talk his friends and uh play the social game instead of just like yes I'd like to go out with you no I would not that's called talking yeah don't say date because if you just ask your girl on a date it sounds like you're dating around and that's not super chill interesting I don't know have a conversation with them like see if you Vibe before you ask them out okay what do you mean by conversation like what if you AR aren't good what about talking on the phone what if a guy has to talk to a girl on the phone how do your girls feel about that I have we have to be actually like chill already the vibe has to already be set it's already got to be normalized we've already got to be like not awkward before we get on the phone because respectfully not about to sit there and listen to you breathe if I met you one time and you want to talk to me on the phone uhuh you have to you have to establish a relationship with someone maybe not like an actual relationship but some like there has to be some kind of grounds to stand on yeah because talk first like we also yeah we also have to already know what we have at least some things that we already have in common because we have to know what we're actually going to talk about because otherwise it's like so what you want to talk about okay well like from my perspective you know I I work in sales my entire job is talking to people on the phone that's all that I ever do for work and I've done it over 100 thousand times so like it's all that I do so like exchange and I hate texting so like exchanging information over text is terrible anybody that knows me knows communicate the voice messages why because I hate texting because you can never re hear someone's tonality I would do a video message because I hate texting so much um asked a very solid question how do you know what you have in common unless you hang out you're right um you text and have normal conversations over text or if you can end up at the same like youth get togethers preferably where there's not just you and this other person be able to have like other people around see who they're friends with they see who you're friends with see how you interact with other people and then talk there and it's way more chill and it's not so like yeah we have only talk to each other yeah I agree let's see Mariah Hannah said unpopular opinion be honest if you like someone I don't think that's a bad idea DAV it I agree here's the thing though is like you say that you're honest that you like someone and you tell them then they tell you that they don't you don't like them and then people say well don't go around telling people that or telling people that you like them don't go from girl to girl okay cool so you don't and then they say why aren't you trying to talk to anybody then you're like what am I supposed to do you know so what's the balance Paul R and noodles are the best way to have a first day first day of a rmen noodles yeah yeah see you have someone says do you have to ask the dad before you talk to the girl um from personal experience it goes both ways it depends on the girl and her parents and it usually depends whether or not they go to a big church or not because if it's a big church the the dad's probably not going to care and if it's a small Church the dad's probably definitely not going to care usually because within a social hierarchy of no people they want to know who's talking to who but if a girl has 20 guys her age that they hang out with at the church then she's already he's already used to that happening but it ALS it could be different I'm not saying that it's that way every way but it depends on a girl's dad and the girl but the I think the key is to say hey I'm more than willing to talk to girl's dad if you need if the girl wants you to and say hey what's his number what's his name how soon can I call them so Tanner said how do you feel about premarital eye contact never do not ever do premar eye contact absolutely not dangerous seems a little risky wa yeah I have a question David that um guys and girls talk every day and do you think guys and girls can be best friends without catching feelings like do you think that can be like totally like just platonic okay for both it depends oh my goodness that was really perfect okay okay uh the question that you asked me was um can guys and girls talk every single day and beat your friends um I think that if someone you mean like on the phone joy or or what do you mean by talking like hang out talk text whatever like can you be friends just just just you and them I'd say probably not because like life is a game of time and how much time are you spending with other people and why are you hanging out with them now if they're your best friend that's how a relat because usually I see people like oh I married my best friend so that's a good thing um Jesse sacker says I know by experience you can be pretty close friends with a girl and not catch feelings but I wouldn't say best friends level that would that you would be with with your bro so yeah I would agree with that you can be friends you can talk to one another but I don't think that you can consistently talk to someone like on the phone and stuff and not catch feelings or one person catching feelings for the other or vice versa or whatever yeah I think the only accept I think this is a little strange and this is controversial but I think the only exception is where you can C consistently be best friends but have no feelings is if you've already established one with another that hey I'm not attracted to you and she's not attracted to you and you're not attracted to her that if you say that and that's clear then you can be best friends because communication is key yes there you go I got a bunch more questions than not gonna lie I'll be right back and we'll go to those unless you guys have more nope so how do you guys feel about I have no comments I'm just I'm gonna not say anything no com no com Brianna I like the way Brianna worded that um you can stay friends if one is ugly exactly agree Amen to that if no attraction is there David got that Instagram R you should probably not be friends like that no wait can we pin comment I don't know can we David said we can kick people out of the live can we really yeah he said he can if we want to what's up guys what do you want me to do that's it who oh no we're not reporting anyone we were just talking oh okay to say okay let's see we're good what did Brie say I forgot I didn't see her comment oh Bri said that it works out if one of them is ugly yeah but you have to be honest about that because one person's going to get the feeling stra if they think they're talking to him because they like themra um you're ugly I don't like you like that thanks uh all right so [Applause] uh okay self Burns those are rare okay uh someone put in the not goingon to lie name some girls you have I think this is director towards me um name some girls you have respect for like Aila Von that don't go to your church um so a while back I talked about you know girls in their modesty and Milly Von is very modest um I have respect for any girl that has the holy ghost or really thinks how can I look modest instead of how can I show off my curves any girl that truly thinks that when they're getting dressed or when they're dressing up or whatever I have a very much respect I have respect for all the message girls honestly because you girls deal with stuff us guys have no idea how to deal with and we have no idea how and it's really hard it's uh we can't even fathom it and like girls from when they're basically 12 on they get hit on by a ton of worldly guys and they have no idea how to deal with it and um I pray for you girls and I hope that uh you know you guys have brothers to protect you I have four sisters I've seen it go on for all of them and um kudos to all of you for dealing with that honestly good for you guys David someone just texted me and asked if you would rate us out of 10 I don't rate girls out of 10 I don't know any of you well enough to be able to to say that and I don't know what someone means by out of 10 do they mean like on looks but do they mean like on uh character and really on the things that matter I don't know any of you that well I I've I've actually known I know who the lens are and they've known me since I was like eight oh yeah but I haven't spent much time talking to them so really I think in order to actually give it which I would wouldn't even say out of 10 which I think my way of saying which here's what you could do better here's what you're doing very well I think that um I don't know any of you well enough to give an honest answer about that but as far as I can see you're all doing pretty well but I don't even know what I mean by that or what someone wants me to mean by that when really like rate someone out of 10 that's that's that's what social construct that's designed to to get things um how do I talk so fast I think to myself a lot and I talk to myself a lot and my dad is awesome and so is my mom and I got their jeans what question okay okay what are your on like fake nails and like dying your hair like changing your natural looks what are your opinions on that um I don't know well obviously I um my opinion on that is this and it's the same I have with makeup and stuff like that too I don't care about those things at face value what I want to know is the reason why there was someone I knew of that told me that he was talking to a girl and he knew that she wore makeup and he asked her why she said I don't really feel pretty a lot and he knew that you know I think both of her parents are passed away or something like that or her dad wasn't in the picture and he said you know if you if your that was in the picture telling you that you're beautiful the way that God Made You Do you think that you'd wear makeup and she said I don't think so so I'm not focused on the nails or the changing of the of the hair or anything like that I want to know why that's what I'm really focused on I want to know do they have the Holy Ghost because it's easy to get mad at someone for instance like there was one person that told me that she had a uh she had just got her one of their joints replaced so she literally can't ever jump again and someone could get mad at her for not raising her hands high enough or jumping in service to the uh to the um to the action song but she can't actually jump because one of her joints is replaced by an artificial joint so I think I'm more concerned with the why than the what my my manager told me that people don't care about the what or the what makes it about me but the why makes it about you so clear nail polish colored nails of hair makeup to cover something up I'm really concerned with why are you doing it do you have the Holy Ghost you have the Holy Ghost that's between you and God because then you can be no more lost than God himself could even be lost so in that case I just want to know why so I hope that answers it for you I'm not thinking oh they're wearing clear nail polish I'm thinking okay cool the day of the Holy Ghost okay great who's their Pastor someone so great so a quick and easy answer for that is it's based off of your own convictions and it's based yeah it's based off your own convictions and whether or not you have the Holy Ghost and what God is revealing to you and you know your pastor saying things as well now I will say that if you're living under your father and he tells you to stop doing that you should definitely only stop because he's your head um but uh it it depends on why now I think that that you could consider here's a Here's a thought that brother Trevor Eman said at byc he said what what color will your hair be in the iium will it be what you di it to what God designed it to be now do I think this wrong I don't think you go to help for it I think it really depends on what's on the inside and why do you do it but I don't think it's a uh it's a uh a Salvation question and no I don't do do my nails I just wash them and that's all I do with my nails so what's the next not going to lie question okay um let's see are you cool if your boyfriend or girlfriend is friends and talk and to and text the other gender it depends like yeah it definitely depends it that's a it'sing okay here's here's my answer no let's see saying if you have a personal beef with your girlfriend's Church's song leader that's really specific Paul very specific brother Paul call them out um let's see uh I would say like if it's privately with another guy I don't think that's something a girlfriend should do um if if you're go to a church with a bunch of people then of course they're all friends and don't be so insecure but if I'll say this way if the guy has to hide it from his girlfriend or if the girlfriend wants to hide it from her boyfriend you shouldn't be doing it you hide like with the opposite gender it's not chill yeah can you hold hands as long as you wear gloves somebody El no you can hold oppos ends of a stick yeah there you go preach long's a okay um would you guys date someone younger than you no no no because guys guys already mature lower than girls so why would I want to date someone younger than me interesting yeah thanks what about if uh you say you're 22 and the guy's 20 but he's very successful and he makes hundreds of thousands of dollars and he's really mature for his age okay then maybe maybe so the real answer is like maturity you know usually the answer is no but maturity is really the uh the real the real thing maturity and money too both of those things 20 20 is actually not that bad yeah because like I know that uh I know I know a couple that have been married for a long time where the wife is nine years older than the hus or n years older than the husband but been married for like 40 years I just personally couldn't do that good for them but if if you're making over 200k maybe AG is just a number um let's see yeah I mean like in like in all actuality to make $200,000 you need to be mature it it takes a lot of skill to make that that much money's money um now I would say though more important than that is the management of it of course but interesting okay um now me with a girl older than me I don't care me personally I don't care I've never put into any uh any thought into that it's what whatever God wants my dad old my mom what a girl has bigger feet than you is that a deal breaker is 13 why would she have that big of feet that's really unlikely you never know you never know okay um okay uh um someone asked this now I'm going to ask this what I'm going to do this this is a weird question but someone says please ask ask this I'm not going to ask it to you I'm going to say it for the person that's watching and that person can private message me or they can ask their Pastor um because it's a very uh it's a very question you shouldn't ask but like especially publicly but I'll ask that question and then I'll go on to the uh on the on the next one if that's okay go ahead okay all right cool so the question was oh Daniel you got this out of context but who cares question was please ask this when she when should you disclose to the guy if you are not a virgin and is it a turnoff um that's something brother Bram specifically went into you got to tell him before you get married and you need to get you and him and your pastor in the room and tell them about it and it depends on what you're doing I do not believe in the modernistic doctrine of oh well if they're not a virgin they can't marry a preacher because brother brandom told a prostitute you make a fine wife for some tired preacher ask your pastor or private message me and I'll tell you to ask your pastor or I'll show you the quotes so next question what's your opinion on the word RZ I think solid 10 out of 10 it's it's valid what does that mean it's valid valid I mean it's a yeah what is it mean well it comes from charismatic right Charisma the word Charisma yeah Charisma so it's basically like if you're smooth yeah it's like if you have good uh what's the word if if you're just like Smooth if you can talk I feel like that's that's not I'm not gonna finish that what no knows what I'm trying to say joy joy knows interesting David David Carz I like that that's awesome um do you guys think Riz is more important than predestination of who you're going to marry obviously not nobody's taking it that it's just like a it's it's it's just RZ it's not it's not like it's not that deep it's not that deep I found it funny though like when people fail like L RZ or like have you I'm not gonna say that joke that's funny though would you say you have W RZ David um I would say yes and no so I would say that um I have a different approach than what's usual because I come from a different social hierarchy than everyone else and no because I don't know how to navigate the social hierarchy that people are in when I go to the places and I end up just being quiet a lot of the time so yes and no so so you think you have risen uh I don't know what that means I I don't know you think you're smooth do you think um you are you serious asking me this yeah do you think you're smooth um that's hard to Define I mean see how how do I answer this interesting um as far as talking to someone that's new and having the confidence to do that and like navigating a conversation I'd say I can do that very well by God's grace because I've done it I've literally met over 100,000 different people did you count Lally um see I have I have uh I ran an AT&T store by myself for 5 months I W I went door Todo selling lawn care when I was like 13 and 14 I worked in a crystal when I was 16 I worked in tinting when I was 17 and I worked in sales from 18 till now for instance in the past uh two weeks I've made 1,200 cold calls um I ran an 182 store by myself I produced millions of dollars for them by God's grace I talked to a lot of people we had about 10,000 I think it was 50,000 door swings a month so 50,000 different people came into the store every single month and I ran the store for and I worked in there for like a year and a half so there's that so like I'm not gonna I don't so like the Riz part I don't like the aspect of the word where someone saying oh it's a serious thing I think it's more about uh do you fit with that person is there chemistry there because not every guy's going to have a ton of Charisma he'll have like no confidence but the girl has a ton of confidence so she likes to uh to have all the confidence and talk a bunch and just like you know get the um get all the attention while the guy is just paying for stuff and being a cool guy and an engineer or whatever but he's more on the quiet side it just depends if that makes sense but I'd say I'm I'm so outside of the normal social hierarchies that in the classic way I'd say I probably don't have Riz but in the way of confidence I'd say I'm probably above average which is blind confidence which isn't good because I have no neuroticism which is why sometimes I say stupid things and I don't care and I have to correct myself but yeah there you go what do you think now are there any more not gonna lie questions that we should answer yes yeah maybe what you what did you guys think about what I just said uh hly I got about two words of it that made sense I was reading the comments I was also oh I'm sorry okay Paul says summarize it all summarize all with this David is simply bu different so in a simple way as sometimes I come sometimes I figure out what I want to say by just saying a bunch of stuff so basically do I have Riz I don't know what you mean by that but I have a different approach than Mo like pretty much everyone else Joy do you have this way what Joy do you have do I up right now actually Jo do you she's blushing Hannah answer that W oh Jo left oh it's her you have raised hand I have W what I'm saying she'll probably join back up I'm gonna grab the other questions that just came in I'll be right back can youhd that's my sister Joy's toes were curling she was blushing Lally was swanging her feet for sure she was dancing in her room swanging her feet all right hold up okay one second here join oh and if I'm rambling ever just put your put your thumbs up like this and I'll know to stop talking [Laughter] NOC back is she on y y these comments are crazy trying to add here hold on see here I'm trying to add her hold on wait does it do the reaction thingies you know how on FaceTime it does reactions yeah on FaceTime it does little reactions I have got to try that you don't use FaceTime not doing it all right Joy I'm G try to put you in here again on okay someone says okay uh it says joy said you decline go ahead and try to request again it says when one of the questions was when someone says out of 10 unless they clarify it just means rate them by their looks 10 being the highest one being the lowest simple now I disagree with that because it puts people on a rating scale based on their looks instead of their character the things that matter the most I feel like it's fine to people by their looks like that's fine because at the end of the let's be so for real everybody looks at looks yeah let's stop acting that's something we look at right so I feel like if youate someone by looks it's it's fine but like why would hold on let me make make this thing work it's still not working for joy to to be in try to make it work hold on let's see okay more questions came in I'll be right back make do you guys uh do you guys like doing Christmas yes I love Christmas it's all right it's all right what bro Christmas is like the best what Stephanie's a hater she's I just can't I just can't afford Christmas she's the grench everybody put l Stephanie in the in the out kick her out so Jesse hope says I think rating people is rude well I I think it's kind of rude in my person in personally when it's publicly so because and in some ways because of this because it creates a system where people feel inferior for the thing that doesn't matter as much as the main thing especially in group settings like you're saying yeah it just doesn't uh it doesn't create a system of value it creates a system of objectifying people that's it is I think the real rating should be how what I was talking to Joy oh is she on I said we already know about your Dollar Tree Wi-Fi it's okay can't see is she on right now yeah okay I can't see her out 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dagnabit oh careful Hannah I said dagnabit come on now be so for real it's not doing it talking though that's what we were saying okay is there um what do you what would be some fashion uh fashion tips for guys things they're doing wrong things they can do better style whaty Southern boys have the worst style I'm not gonna lie they really do I don't I don't care what the theme of your style is just have a theme I don't care if you want to wear sweatpants just wear cargo pants just exactly wear good stuff I don't know who was that targeted Laura what what David would you get a buzz cut a buzz cut uh for $110,000 you should get a buzzcut no hey dudes h a slit in your eyebrow you should get a slit in your eyebrow yeah yeah I don't know I'm not sure if I should do that or not should get ever like shave just say you and fell and you got a scar I don't know I I'm not sure maybe I could do like the uh the Josh Ben or something like that I don't even remember not lie what now let's see CLE more questions came I'll be back my back is killing me AR people aren't sending questions in they're just sending in statements um what what statements yeah let's hear the statement okay I'm me grab my B [Music] back Laura what were you saying a minute ago I don't even remember what did you say when I said like the sweatpants thing what did you say we'll talk later okay we'll talk yeah I was put a pen in it talk later about it if you want wear jeans and boots where don't wear jeans and boots don't wear he dudes with sweatpants either it looks stupid exactly period wear not skinny jeans where oh my gosh if you're still wearing skinny jeans go back to the two go back to the 2000s and no no acid no one wants that is literally disgusting also no like super I truly do hate hate je I'm not gonna lie those really just jeans and are W that's your opinion said that oh c oh no no caros Caro Graphics yeah andly I don't even know I like a good pair of of jeans I like I like jeans but not boot cut jeans boot cut jeans get thrown at the door they have to be a certain style of jeans and they have to be like loose F yeah because why are you wearing tight you want to show off your legs like no or yeah ex I wasn't gonna say that but since you did yeah I don't what's your opinion on being public schooled be homeschooled it's way better I think public school is the dumbest thing you could possibly do by far I have not how would you know because being schooled by people without the holy ghost in a realm where people will do things in the bathroom that aren't good and they will uh cuss and swear and start fights and being around people that don't believe the way you do for your schooling instead of being schooled by your mother with the Holy Ghost is just like such a bad idea completely and utterly a bad idea like in infinitely terrible the kids can't help it because they're underage also they wer raised right I have I have a I have an opinion hear me out if we're living in the real world why not go ahead and like see oh this is the real world okay cool now I know what to steer clear of now I know what not to do instead of homecho and then start working and then you're like oh this is not what I saw this is not what I saw in the movies this isn't normal what this is how you interact people that are not in the message because at the end of the day you got to talk to people that aren't in the message you gotta you gotta like be a human being um because you don't stab yourself in the foot to see how it feels it's not a good idea I'm not against social interaction but there's not a it's a uh I know of a family who sent their kids to public school instead of having home school and all of them were just it just did not was not good for them at all it is like it's not necessarily about how part of it's how bad public school can be but also the um how much better homeschooling is would you rather be school by some random sinner off of that you don't know or by your own mother my mom wouldn't have been able to teach me respectfully course yeah yeah I I know those there's exceptions in these different things but it's just also so much better for home homeschooling I was homeschooled it's awesome if your if your whole like thing is the atmosphere then that's like saying you can't go work in a public place where there's worldly people working there because you have the the same interactions and you have the same like this it's the same type of people they're just a little bit older because and so world where worldly people are everywhere you're not gonna exactly I mean just the world we live inity there's a difference between doing when you're eight to when you're like 17 or whatever and doing it when you're an adult I don't know I think I think it's best you're much more you're really going to tell me you're less impression you're the same amount of impressionable when you're eight to 17 that you are when you're an adult really say what now are you really going to tell me that you're the same amount of impressionable when you're like 8 years old to 17 that you are when you are an adult my point is you're you're less impressionable when you're an adult versus when you're a kid so so all you're worried about is impressionable if if you can be like morphed because at the end of the day you have to your parents have to rely on the way that they raised you and if you and also if okay so it's also based off of say you're in public school and you're a kid and then the parents notice hey starting to act a little crazy they're starting to go out and do some things that they shouldn't be doing maybe hold them back a little bit make them go to like a private school or something and then take them back once they can figure out what's going on or just talk to them be a parent talk to them and then yeah well I think those are really good points and honestly when you said uh what about you know know comparing working in a public place to being uh private public school that's a really good point that really got me thinking the reason why I will never Public School my kids is because I don't want anyone in control of their education and them being raised except for me and my wife so if wife wanted to send her kids to public school like that wouldn't be okay with you breaker oh but like don't you want your kids to know how to socialize it what teaches them social skills it teaches them real life lessons it teaches them when to learn to say no it teaches them self-control it teaches them how to live in the real world and it you're not sheltered because you know how the real world is you know how things go you're assuming that you will just have terrible parents um because my parents taught me all about social interaction and how the world really works my mom had a uh a a I think anyway we going to do it's fine the um the uh my mom had a a had a a scholarship for acting and modeling at at the uh New York State College and she turned down of course to get married for all the people that are requesting to join you can't because we can only have four people it won't let me add anyone else but um he's in the other room come over you know like me I for social interaction you know I I got a job when I was 16 I my dad is awesome he talks things about things and we also did uh you know we worked out or I worked out with people in public and stuff like that um and uh it's you know I would say I'm okay I guess at social interaction but I um much rather homeschool my kids I was homeschooled and I think it is far better than Public School especially with like am I really going to like with the world the way it is now I can only imagine what my kids going to have to go through 10 years from now or whatever when I have kids because like really drag queens drag shows the gay lesbian everything else just being adverti is just the greatest thing ever and that's what's being pushed on to my seven-year-old no I'm I think that's far better than just be schooled by your mother let's see uh I'll have you talk Hannah and then I'll read this question then I'll have you talk Des says you can get your kids in the real world and socialize them without sending them to school for eight hours every day with horrible influences go ahead Hannah what was your thought so you were talking about the whole like LGBT thing the lesbians and the whatever um if you okay so hear me out if you don't raise your kids non shelter so like say you say you raise your kids sheltered they don't know anything about anything then they go off to college and then they get like a whole burst of whoa this is how life really is this is how the real world really is and then they're gonna go off they're gonna go off that rocker like they're gonna go out and they're gonna go nine times out of 10 they're going to go off and they're going to start doing things that they shouldn't be doing because they were so sheltered and they were told shut up they were told what they could and couldn't do which that's like you know life whatever but um you don't know how to interact with different situations so you're easier to convince to do things peer pressure is g to be more likely because you don't know how to handle tough situations and you don't know how to handle awkward situations where you just want to make friends yeah I see well if your parents are really really really bad at parenting I completely agree with you my parents taught us a lot about what the real world actually looks like and what it is and about social interaction and they brought us to a bunch of camps with other kids and church meetings for social interaction and we were we did great with social interaction because they parented us the right way now if your parents are just no shows and they don't want to teach you about how the world works and they don't want to teach you about social interaction then yeah send to public school but I think it's the I think in the message personally like for me people can do whatever they want whatever whatever way they want but I'm going to be my wife and I are going to parent the kids we're going to raise our kids not the Freaks and the Sinners at public school I mean seriously like the peer pressure when you're like when you're going from elementary school through high school that's like so nuts that's I in my opinion I think that wanting to do that so that you can experience the world is absolutely insane well I think that not allowing your kids to go to public school because Freaks and sinners are going to be teaching your kids Sinners I just don't personally think you should call a human being a freak like that really that not right really is wrong I'm gonna say I'm talking I'm talking about the people that what do you mean what do you mean by me calling someone a freak which someone do you think I was referring to calling people a freak I don't know who personally I'm talking about the sinners in the world that want to educate your kids about sex education when they're eight years old and they want to push being gay and everything else and lesbian and everything else on your seveny Olds that's the freaks I'm talking about out I was actually public schooled never once did I take a sex ed class until I was in six grade and it wasn't even about anything it taught girls about their bodies yeah and that was it they don't that but we had to get forms we had to get forms filled out from our parents and showing that our parents were allowing us to take this class and it showed everything that they were going to be teaching and all of that this is public school and that's what we got sixth grade that was when we got our sex ad classes it was 8th grade by the time we had like regular sex ad classes okay well I'm not saying it's wrong to do that and I think it's fine and you're making really good points making me think about it um I would say that with my children I'm going to educate them along with my wife and I'm not gonna budge ever on that that's my personal opinion that's the way my parents did it that's how I'm going to do it with my kids now am I going to say that people are doomed if they do Public School no I think that uh that people go as they feel led and I wouldn't say that because someone's public schooled that they're a bad person or anything I think you can do great in any way that you do it for me personally though I'm only going to be I'm going to be the one uh let's see like liie Ron call is saying she's saying what I'm thinking here she says uh if you're Sheltering your kids from the world quote unquote they're going to experience it the hard way don't think they still going to do what they want to do and hang out with kids who they want to like sure you know like it's uh I'm going I'm saying yeah okay I mean it's whatever way anyone wants to do is fine I mean the way I'm going to do it though it's homeschooling because that's how I was raised and I believe that uh it is the most valuable way to parent your kids by far you're own personal opinion but you definitely call people freaks no matter what they teach like I that's genuinely rude what do you mean by what when you say freak what do you mean by freak we don't know David you were the one who said it what yeah I know but I'm asking you what do you think I meant when I said that what that we're what did you mean yeah I meant someone I meant someone who teaches things who someone who teaches and believes things that are opposite to the way the Bible and the message teach them is that the definition hear me out what I was that's what I was meaning when I said hear me all the way out hear me all the way out okay not everyone is called to be in the message not everyone is called to be Christian not everybody's going to be meant to you know just because they're not Christians or message Believers that doesn't make them freaks just because they have other opinions and other ideas even if you don't feel like their ideas or opinions are wrong I mean or are right I see well I mean like I'm really happy that in your school they did not have the you know the drag queens and all that so when I was talking about the freaks I was talking about those particular people that think that drag queens and all that for six-year-olds is the greatest thing ever those were the freaks I was talking about not the really nice Educators like I was once uh in a class that people were doing for geds people because I uh thought it was cool my sister Sarah was getting her GED and I uh I thought it was cool and interesting so I attended one of the classes and this lady went up there and she taught a class I thought she was really good at teaching and I really enjoyed it and um so I'm not calling all of them freaks or anything that's not all what I was meaning what I was saying is the people that want to drag be drag queens put half naked transgenders in front of six-year-olds are freaks those are the people I was referring to not the people who are not in the message but they genuinely are doing good and I think that they are genuinely trying those people are fine of course I was referring to those you know the people that aren't doing that are doing things that you'd never want to show your child I hope that puts it into more perspective understand that in some places they are overexposing children to things that they have no business exposing them to at such a young age but also it's literally only happened at from what I've seen is one school and it was on social media and I'm pretty sure it was a school in like California yeah like who's actually doing that I don't think that happens much nobody because kids parents would pull their kids out of school parents would homeschool parents would start putting their kids into private Christian Schools if that were happening because you can't do that I'll ask you this question this very direct question okay which thing which environment um let's see how could I word this question um which environment would help your kid grow as a Christian more being educated by their own parents or at Public School here's what I was told growing up uh growing up I was taught to be a light because that's what we're supposed to do as Christians right to be a light and to be we have you know 91 viewers by the way guys I'm really happy that we found a subject where we're both passionate about we actually talk so yeah so keep going um but we're called to be like a light to others yeah a light is Not Gonna Shine out in a room with all the lights on like like say you have a lighter okay we're giving examples here say you have a lighter if my lights were on and it was super bright in here you'd barely be able to see that but because it's dark in here you can see the light so put it in realistic ways how are you supposed to shine as a light how are you supposed to be a light to people if you're only surrounding yourself with church people or message Believers or people who are right in their ways with God or in a good place with God when you could be a light to the people that don't know God because we're supposed to be Jesus to people who don't know him because sometimes the only God that they will ever see is the god that's in you yeah I see what you're saying there but when it comes to but I'd say yes when you have the Holy Ghost and all that and when you're you know like but when you're seven different um but but that's that was my question and those are really good points honestly um my question was which environment is better for your child to grow spiritually being educated by your parents through home school or at public school which one helps you grow so you really think that your child will grow more closer to God and Public School than by your uh parents okay all right cool I'll be right back I'll be right back he's getting his dad or something start I don't know the way I had that thing ready I was like is miss public school don't if you do then do like it's lit fine if you want to be publico be public schooled if you don't want to be public schooled literally go to like I'm just saying me personally I prefer public school because it actually challenges you to continue your faith and also you something unlike all these online school I've been homeschooled I know what it's like me personally I can't I can't focus uh I think school school but that's because Middle School scares me first of all if you don't have any childrens you don't have no opinions that's kind of true though exactly that's true I'm just saying based off of my own experience that's how I was send your kids to school send them if you're a parent and you want to keep them at home keep them at home it's literally up to the exactly it's 100% up to the parent I'm just saying me personally that's what I'm shoting Mom hey I was public schooled and I never had a school shooter I did have bomb threats and I did have shooting threats multiple times but we did I'm still here so it's fine up isah what where did you go David up yonder okay Mom I have a question which which environment do you think which one do you think is more uh morally better for your child public school or home school I think that it depends on your kid it depends on the way that you raised your kid it depends on the way that your child reacts to different situations and it also you just have to listen to your kids so which one's morally better okay but we don't we don't you don't have kids none of us have kids none of us know my parents know I'm just saying based off of my own experience I preferred public school I'd ra rather die than to go to public school personally that's cool in my opinion okay it's just my opinion I'd rather die that's that's crazy that is crazy that's I'd rather die I I'd rather die I'm sorry plus I want to educate my kids because I love public home school and I I I can't wait to help uh educate my kids I think I I think it'd be awesome I can't wait I I was with homeschooling you do it at your own pace rather than um rather than their pace which is why I was able to do 10th 11th and 12th grade in six months by God's grace because I planed it out and I did it so um what I ask what high school like you did like what program you did School uh it was uh always believe Christ for like School of Tomorrow we did uh Paces oh okay yeah we did those so like you know 12 tests each subject 60 tests a year 180 tests for three grades um how many tests 180 tests for three grades you got 20 days a week to do school 6 * 2 is 120 so you got 180 tests to do in 120 days do about one or two a day and you'll finish in about six months if you just test out of all the books and I didn't and I was homeschooled but I also went to every Camp there was and got a ton of social interaction and then I do and now I do sales and I call hundreds and I called 641 people last week for my work I think you also though you learn how to like control your emotions better because you don't get to have emotional breakdowns and it be okay in public school I think you have to have some form of I know sounds I was gonna say mitochondria is the PowerHouse of the cell yeah you definitely get humbled you get bullied and character building honestly sometimes like you just people need to be bullied out of like certain things yeah definitely most definitely everyone needs to experience that at least once to experience the public school experience of being bullied being uh like peer pressured because you need to know if you are going to end up being a leader or a follower who are you and what are you going to do are you gonna give in to The Temptations interesting um so like when I asked you the uh which was morally better for kids uh public school home school you think it just depends really yeah yeah it depends but we're not P so interesting it's your personal conviction if you want to kids to public school 100% sure and if you want to keep them 100% sure it's up to the parent it's also not like a like a spiritual thing it's just like your own personal preference yeah and it might be different we have kids yeah I think it's completely a spiritual thing whether you go to home school or public school and my me personally I think I think it's a I don't want to have my kids away from the home that much I think I don't think it's wrong for someone to do that but I I wouldn't do it let's see someone in the comments said uh do you like dude I got bullied so bad in middle school but I tell you what it helps me not be a bum that's awesome L lilyon says my mom taught me how not to do that' be me as a mom if I homeschooled my kids y funny cut says everything is a spiritual thing Hannah only two spirits in the world well yes but yeah um what's the next um not gonna lie question I'll be right back I agree with that this controversy Honestly [Music] though if it's the right person no teaching you think you have to talk with your significant other though about it if she doesn't want to do it then you can't really force her yeah because to do it whether you say You're Gonna teach your kids or not your wife's going to be the one that's teaching them most of the time yeah I think it's really something you ask about before you get married yeah and if you don't agree on that that's a big thing so yeah Breer let's see uh okay someone says not everyone is in the position um where they can be homeschooled Sometimes the best a parent can do is send them send their kid to school and pray for them yeah yeah sometimes you are in that position definitely that's all you can do I know my dad uh was a substitute teacher for a school in for a public school and in high school public high school I was ask the same thing Stephanie Steph price and he was very he said that he was very thankful that he public homeschooled his kids after he went through that let's see David what about so David what about sending your kids to school until they're a certain age that they can actually be taught at home um I was taught from kindergarten until graduating high school by my mom she's a great teacher I know great I also didn't go to college and you know I think it depends you know if your kid wants to be a engineer or a doctor a lawyer a nurse or something you have to go to college for send to college but if they want to run their own business or something like that or do sales you don't need college it'd be a waste of time for those things did you go to college no graduated when I was 16 what do you think about college how do you feel about girls going to college how do you because I'm going to college right now like how do you feel about that uh um let's see as far as girls that's up to them I mean I uh here's what I feel like college whether it's a guy or a girl just going just to go I think is wrong because you can get into a bunch of debt and mess up your life but I think if you're doing it for the purpose of uh of being a doctor or a nurse or a lawyer or an engineer or an architect or something you're required to uh to um to go to college for you should go but if you want to be a plumber or a uh a an electrician or a wer or a like a a Salesman or run your own business you don't need to go to college we have 95 people on the live by the way what's the next question yeah what's the next question let's see Li Champion says as someone who is both homeschooled who is both homeschool was lonely and gave me more complexes that the Lord saved me from than public school ever did interesting okay let's see more questions I'll see if one came in I'll be right back uh no no more came in uh let's see what I got here let's see um okay here's an interesting question actually um are we allowed to be friends with gays lesbians Etc her say said my parents don't allow it and I'm 18 um so so what do you guys think of being friends with those people I think that it depends on how they if they're respectful to you then obvious they're still human being so you can't be rude to them yeah but not respectful to you and your religion then obviously don't be because I've been friends with gays and lesbians yeah and mo it's just like having any friend that doesn't go to church if they're not respectful to you then you obviously get rid of them but if they're respectful to you you be respectful to them and that could lead to something yeah exactly right I wor guy like be polite just like I don't know don't become don't try to be like best friends with them like don't become one of question I think based off of okay okay so I've had a lot of like not like close friends but I've had some like friends that were like gay or whatever and honestly they can be really good friends because they'll be like they'll be real with you and they're like real friends so they'll like be there for you or whatever but also you can't like only judge them just because they're gay or whatever because it's not them it's the spirit that they have yeah so me personally I'm they respect you by all means have about it um someone in the chat asked what if your wife changes her mind after you're married about sending your kids to public school what would you do then would you put her away or a Christian school or like or a Christian School like I would just do the extra work and and uh and educate my own kids at night you think at night supposed to be asleep uh I get off at 5 so from 5 to 9: whatever or whatever the whatever the shift would be I would have him I would if she doesn't want to then I'll to it what if she wants to work instead of educate and now you have to get and stuff what a what if what if she what wants to like work instead of educate the kids so now they have to either go to school or get babysitter then I would educate them I would have them do the same school program that I did you don't need to be like with the paces that we did you don't need to be present with them at all the time you say hey look you've got uh these five different subjects 12 books in each subject for each year you do this many pages per day to finish by the end of the year when you're done with your work just bring it to me and I could probably grade their work depending on how many get if I had three kids I could probably grade their work at the end of the day in a couple hours you are you like qualified to teach though because most teachers at Public Schools like have to have a minimum of a bachelor's degree yeah um as far as educa am I qualified to educate my own kids yeah of course I am I did the same work they're done I did the same Pace as where like really am I are you really I don't I me someone really asking am I Ed am I qualified to teach my own kids of course I am they're my own kids and uh you know I want to teach them the best and I graduated on 16 by God's grace with a 4.0 GPA so uh yeah of course I can now I'd rather have my wife to it because my wife is whoever I marry she's going to be awesome and probably a lot lot better at teaching kids than I would be but um definitely uh I would do it if she didn't want to do so what's the next question think interracial marriage yeah there was a question in the chat what are your opinions on interracial marriage is it right or is it wrong I think you should go according as God leads you that's not the right question the right question is am I wanting to marry the person God wants me to marry was brother was uh Moses wrong to marry the Ethiopian woman was the one guy wrong to marry a harlot no because God told them to so the real question is are you doing what God wants you to do and if you are great what would yout a black girlt I would have to ask my pastor about that one because brother brandham was pretty firm with this he brother brandham said what white girl and a right man would want to date a black guy and what black girl in a right mind would want to marry a white man that's literally word for word what our Prophet said so that's really something you should ask your pastor about but I thought you just said that it was okay yeah um like I said you know uh what's his name brother the said that uh Moses is married in Ethiopian so really you'd have to you'd really have to ask your pastor on it I'm asking you though David like would you Court a black girl like kind of dodg that question like if God to date a black girl would you of course I would if God tells me to do anything I'll do anything okay whatever God tells me to do that's what I'm gonna do period um so whatever God tells me to do that's what I'm going to do it is so it is okay I don't know what you mean by okay I don't think it's I don't think it's a a Salvation question I don't or salvation issue I think that you should go as you feel led go as God leads you and if you're not going as God leads you that's wrong and if you're going as God leads you that's great and if I'm going to dig a hole for myself by saying I want to do God's Will and quoting the prophet of God then dear God I hope I am so I just got uh asked a question um so if a white girl is attracted to a black guy does that mean that she doesn't have the Holy Ghost ask her pastor that's a really dumb question um I'm gonna go to the next not like question I'll be right back can y'all see the comments because I can't see them yeah I can I can't see them um I'm not getting any new questions um let's see here I got another one I think um let's see someone say say shouldn't you take these questions to God and your pastor instead of a random Instagram Live Well I think I agree with it yeah I said if someone is seriously thinking about these things just ask your pastor really that's the main I know not everyone has their Pastor in in the other room like I Do by God's grace but it's um it's gonna have to be you know something you really ask your pastor did you you go ask your dad about public school um I asked him for wisdom yeah I went over to him and I and I I asked him what I should what I should do because I want to be as wise as I can and I wanted to uh make that I was handling things the way that uh he thought he was pleased and uh I asked him if he wanted to come and chime in and he says not tonight he said he'd be happy to maybe some other time but not tonight cool yeah might have to like get off and come back on because I can't see the comments okay we have 93 people all right I can uh just kick you off and then you can rejoin actually that might make you way you can't come back yeah go ahead and leave and we'll have you join back and by the way Joy if you ever start talking and I cut you off it's because I can't see you on my screen I just see uh Hanah and Laura I don't see you at all so I'm sorry if you ever stopped talking and I'm and I'm uh and I'm uh respond not listening to you whatever it's because I can't see you I can only hear you okay okay I appreciate it all right what by now trying to make work here hold on oh man 88 people that's a lot of people that's very cool thank you guys for spending your Saturday nights here I'm it's an honor and privilege that people would want to I'm trying to add you hold on trying to make it work jacked up in front no he drives a red Mustang now I got rid of the truck he drives another thing that's a little broken he drives another broken car I got an add to broken things cars that wouldn't be yall need to [Laughter] chill I would never m m are for lesbians oh my God okay gay people so Isaiah and I are in the same wavelength there that's funny M said that [Music] Tanner says is it bad to listen to Drake ahly probably I think it's your own personal conviction yeah depends on what you mean by that I would say well why aren't you listening to Christian music instead but so like if you're listening to both Christian music and Drake you should probably stay honestly I don't think you can be I can definiely say I don't think you can be led of the Holy Ghost and listen to Drake I agree you just can't like that's really dirty that's just not good at all like why because the music we listen to feeds a spirit either feeds God's spirit or feeds the devil you know which one wins is the one you feed the most um Micah said that he has Drake lyrics on his bisco is that bad probably lyrics a good message if they're a good message great if they're bad then don't do it so if he has a song that is that has a good message then it's okay I mean Elva is sang amazing gra God's plan God's plan now to be clear he was using that to try to make a bunch of money off of God's name but uh let's see let's see here hold on I got another question I'll be right back not okay question what was the question sorry every time I try to swipe down I accidentally clear up my ey or up my camera Isaiah what did you think of our dorm at Beth youth camp at Beth Camp yeah well I wasn't supposed to be in at dorm but I really just went there and slept so anything yeah it was cool like as an adult it was neat to just go somewhere and sleep but at the same time I missed the immature kids making jokes you know I wanted more action but at the same also I appreciate just being able to go to sleep well I can sleep anything I can't hear you what were you [Music] say you guys were talking one night the lights on there well the first night I slept right through like them making sure you were there so they had no idea who yeah no C Camp dorms can be a little crazy sometimes yeah yeah yeah they definitely can I think our Jo our dorm was the best Joy it really was why I've ever had why was it the best one because me and Joy were in it we were together we were together and when we're together it's like Unstoppable it's it's the best okay for all people wanting to talk about byc I will never say anything negative about byc on a public platform I've been going to the camp for 15 years straight I've gotten I probably had a great uh experience with God more times than I can count there are negative things you can complain about with any Camp you ever go to but I've went there for 15 years and it is my favorite time of year is to go to byc it's an honor and privilege because last year I got to song L for the older people in the mornings Monday Tuesday Wednesday to Thursday and I got Sun L for the little kids on Monday Monday through Thursday at night as well so for all the people want us to talk to byc so we can say negative things I'm not going to do that can I ask what it's a great camp like you're what camps you're planning on going to next um winter you the trat is the next one that I know of that I'm going to for sure by God's grace I'm going to uh I don't know if I'll have enough PTO for that camp um because I asked for PTO I guess I didn't have it so uh so I'm going to um probably be working a couple of the days for the from like 9 to 5 or something like that I may have some people if they want to hang out and watch me work or I can tell them about my work while I work I don't know um but uh probably I'll be working while I'm there we'll just see what's your F that you've ever been to what's my what favorite Camp you ever been to favorite Camp I have um I have uh hold on different opinions on hold on um hold on let's see here um my favorite camp that I've ever been to as far as just a singular camp meeting I'd probably say Louisiana camp 2014 because that's the year I got the Holy Ghost what's your faite Camp as like a whole just like the whole experience and like that you've ever like like now be see I like different ones for different reasons so I love byc because I don't feel like I'm someone they don't know and I can't help out with preacher stuff so like I'm not looked at someone they don't know so like I'm not looked at weird if I go and help people pray or if I want to help on uh you know on the prayer line and um I byc they let me song which is Awesome by God's grace it was such a blessing to be able to help out because I song Le full-time at my church and uh I feel like I'm on the sidelines not doing anything if I go to a camp I'm not doing anything to help because I just do it a lot so BC for that that I also like Louisiana Camp because I have the Holy Ghost there and it's um they don't have activities there I like when you to trck is just relaxed I like twt because the coffee is amazing and the the atmosphere is different because it's made by campers for campers um I like bethl Youth Camp uh because each they have their own unique things that they do um I like all of them of course with the services um Beth Youth Camp has go-karts which is really really cool um is wi treat worth the price a genuine question yeah worth every single penny happening yeah let's yeah see and uh Li Champion says some ministers who aren't seasoned in the cast out of spirits don't need to be in the prayer line I'd love to see a quote for that um let's see see I think I had another question be right back all my comments stopped for some reason yeah mine have been like on and off mine have just stopped all right I don't have any other questions that came in there's 82 of y'all like think of something yeah guys whatever question guys have send them in how about because we all do have church tomorrow so I'm probably only going to stay on for like another 10 minutes and then I'm probably going to go so like if anyone has any other questions they want to ask then serious questions any serious questions but after that I'm gonna go get ready for bed and yeah sorry sounds good guys we're going to end the live at uh 11:40 so that everybody can get ready for bed and go to church Tom I have church 11: which is why I'm I'm okay with going later but 11:40 I think is a good time uh let's see says David do you like the nickname Dave um sure I don't care I like it when people are nice to [Laughter] me that's really what I like how long have we been on we have been live for two hours and 18 minutes it doesn't even feel that long Michael wants to know if he can call you babe no why not that's so upsetting for him that's my wife you have a wife that's interesting I will one day maybe unless people unless uh yeah I anymore I trust when do you think you're gonna get married David yeah what age what age do you think to get married okay I'll this way when I was 16 I wanted to when I was 15 I wanted to get married when I was 16 oh oh um but I soon learned that I need toop stop trying to figure out when I want to do things in my own wisdom so really whatever God wants I trust God brother I listened to brother uh brother uh Barry coffey's five hour sermon series where three different sermons about uh the second most important decision in life and um he said uh he quoted brother bam quot brother bam said there's someone for you just wait so there's someone for me just wait and I'll keep I'll keep preaching song reading doing everything I can for God uh whatever it needs to be and when people say oh David's desperate I hate that because the word desperate one of the meanings of it is that you have no hope and I believe that if God gives you it there's a deep call to the deep and if God gives you a desire to be married he will provide a wife or he'll provide a husband all you need to do is to serve God the best that you can and God will work things out so I hope that answers it for you think you're ready husband I don't think anyone's everever ready I have a lot to work on I don't know what you what someone means by by ready I'd say financially yeah but um emotionally I don't know I don't know what that means so really whatever God wants I don't know let's see another question that came I'll be right back I think we should go ahead and break out the ice breakers I can grab some ice breakers if you guys need oh she was kidding she was kidding David I was kidding okay let's see Olivia says are you prepared Olivia CLE says are you prepared to take on all the responsibilities that marriage requires of a man if that's what God wants of course whatever God wants my real thing is what does God want and if he wants something I'll do it with everything I've got if a girl says she doesn't want to have kids is that like the biggest no for you it depends at which point of the um or actually when my mom and dad first met their first conversation was about how many kids they want to have and what they want to name them now I don't my parents aren't watching this that I know of so and I want to be a secret until I have my first first kid I want my first kid to be a boy or my whatever I have my first boy I'm going I want to have kids and if a girl doesn't want to have kids it's a dealbreaker but I want to name my first son Timothy James because my mom's first son first kid was a stillborn and they called him Timothy James and so I want to have a son and call him Timothy James I think it'd be such a blessing for my parents I think they would love that and uh it is a very big deal for me to have kids of course now outside of that what ever my wife wants because uh I I know having kids is the hardest thing on a girl and it's really up to her so having a girl first oh would you not love it oh what would you not love it if it was a girl oh of course I would love it if it was a girl Hannah don't you know um well if the person's a girl it's whatever she wants my idea for a girl name is uh Sharon Rose because that was brother bram's little baby's name that had passed away when she was a baby too I think Sharon Rose is really pretty gotcha sorry I was reading comments whatever God wants yes and in all in all respect guys people making jokes about that and in with all due respect that's me wanting to name my kid the same one as my mom when she when she had a stillborn kid so I'd really people that are saying those things I would really consider the uh spirit behind that um so but um the you know I had a guy tell me you know he's rocking his baby to sleep and I asked him if he wanted to come on live on a phone and he said he's rocking my baby to sleep at the moment I said okay cool that's awesome and he said best part of life I'm telling you I think that's just amazing kids are the best do you think it's fun for a woman to not what you think it's unnatural for a girl to not want kids at all I would wouldn't say in absolutely that um well hold on David will you keep doing his lives when you're married yeah um I'm bring my kids in life it's going to be awesome um but uh do I think that a girl can not want to have kids um that's a really tough question I mean brother B said the highest calling for a girl is to be a mother but I definitely do understand a girl that doesn't want to because it's just so painful and so hard for her to go through and it's traumat it may be traumatic for them so that's really a case by case basis and they really should uh pray about it so so you're saying you'd bring um your kids on the live oh yeah my kids bro my kids after they get past you know being stupid like their dad was when he was young he's going to be amazing my kids are going to be awesome and they're going to be awesome that'd be something uh something special yes it'd be beautiful they're gonna be the stars of the show man it's going to be really good um I bit my uh who whoever my wife ends up being she's probably going to be awesome and if they're anything like their mom they'll be awesome anything like their dad they'll be pretty annoying when they're young but we'll do our best par I guess how many kids I want to have eight kids oh my geez my parents had eight kids four kids four boys four girls that's how many I want but uh it's up to my wife because her part is the part that you know is really Harden her very painful so really ultimately it's up to her I'm not going to say I want a I want at least one kid who really is ultimately you know up to her um Olivia says I'm just going to interject here that if a girl doesn't have the desire it might be that the person she ends up marrying isn't able to have kids God knows all the things and perhap it's it's easier then yeah easier on the woman that she never had the desire than to have it not have children yeah that makes complete sense yeah complete sense um interesting so five what other uh what more questions do you guys have would you be okay with the girl shooting her shot at you or do you want to be the first shot uh honestly of course it'll be okay with it probably because um and people I think it's wrong if someone says a girl should never make the first move because in the Bible God sent Abigail to meet David King David and then David of course Adam later Point uh some had someone go say hey Abigail I want to spend some time with you and David King David uh you know controlled the tempo of the relationship from there but God had Abigail initiate them meeting so for a girl to reach out and say Hi how are you I think that's completely fine interesting um let's see Stephanie Price says what if your wife doesn't like the name you have for your boy um that would be really hard on me I'd really have to have a i' have to talk to her um I would ask if we can you know maybe do it make at least the the uh the initials TJ or um something with James or Timothy or something to honor my uh my brother like a little story before we end here my uh dad a few a few weeks after um they buried Timothy James um they uh my dad was dreaming and he dreamed that uh that he saw the hills of green and uper hill was a tree and he saw Young man like this leaning on a tree and uh he went up to the young man the young man stood up and my dad said you're far to H to be my sng and the kid said hello Dad walked up to my dad give him a big hug my dad said he can still hear feel Timothy doing this to his uh his back so it's really um really neat God's grace so there you go any uh final thoughts guys any final thoughts I think I ran what were your thoughts of the live how did you guys how do you guys feel after doing what do you mean by live tired late very tired it's only 8:30 my time I'm not that tired oh joy well not all us cool yeah Isaiah one of these times I have to bring you on ask you about hunting and stuff like that that'd be awesome be really good it's an honor and a privilege to have you all on and honestly Hannah even though we disagree with the public school home school thing I'm very thankful for it because the um the when something brings out there's there levels of conversation and when there's passion in it and people really disagree but they full-heartedly really believe it that makes good conversation and it makes good entertaining content as well so thank you for disagreeing with me on that it was amazing any sound very good Joy what did you think I mean it it was good um I feel like my Wi-Fi was so bad so it's kind of hard to like yeah next some I hope I have a better wi-fi yeah definitely um yeah thank you for being on Stephanie Isaiah Laura Hannah Joy uh Isaiah would you please pray for us to dismiss this live all right Lord I Thank you for everything that was said Lord I hope that we don't disagree and then hate on each other after this Lord Lord and I pray that you would guide everybody help with the services tomorrow thank you Lord in Jesus name amen amen very good guys thank you very much for being on was an honor and privilege with all of you see you guys bye