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Date:     2023-10-12
Title:    "What do you mean by" #0040
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Church:   What Do You Mean By
Type:     Church Service
Duration: 1h 14m
Language: English
URL:      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=366EPUk5KTw
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what do you mean by number 39 where I go through questions like isn't it true that Shon shouldn't watch television how to start a blog how to protect the Amazon rainforest how to Ace interviews how to become a professional writer and other such things is that that's what we're going through ask hello everybody ask any questions hello welcome to live what's up Addison how's it going we got some cool questions today um people can still submit questions they not going to lie I can look at them as well so that's pretty cool hey everybody what's up hey David hey Caleb what's up welcome everybody to the live it's a very cool day I'm going to be in uh next Sunday I am going to Raleigh North Carolina working so that should be cool Lord willing should be pretty fun today is the questions that I'm going to ask answer and I love love to have the people join that like is like uh should children watch television um how to start a blog how to protect the Amazon rainforce and how to Ace interviews which I like that question how to how to become a professional writer how to learn new skills how to differentiate between colors and all the other [ __ ] questions so yeah should be great Lord willing which should be awesome anybody would I'd love for anybody to join with me just let me know we'll do it I'll pray and then we'll go through it we'll just right uh you SCP right to it all right gra father thank you for the stay and all the giv us please be with us as we uh do this live hope it to be a fun time for everybody and just call Lord Jesus Christ again all right what's up guys opinion on courtship don't just just like you know just stay single your whole life a lot less problems we'll spend less money definitely so yeah don't Court anybody just stay single and you'll spend less money and your life will have less stress so actually I argue that more just depending so like courtship uh opinion on it is be prayerful I mean like the overarching theme of everything is if you have your life dedicated to God and you truly want to do as God is leading you you're probably going to get it right and I disagree with the people that say oh I'd rather be way too strict than way too lenient like no you wouldn't you rather be I'd rather be balanced I I always hate that uh stupid argument people make like oh I'd rather be way too strict than way too L like no you wouldn't they're both wrong they're both equally wrong uh let's see what's your opinion on pastors traveling to different churches a lot different traveling to different churches a lot I don't have an opinion on it depends on the pastor depends on the church CU like for instance I know brother uh brother Nathan Bryant he has 13 different preachers in his church 13 and when you're a pastor and you got bunch of different preachers in your church you're going to you know you want to help that uh like I started my preaching in my church and dad wants to help me grow that preaching and to mature and things like that so he's going to have me uh preach so my point is leading up to that you could say oh they're leaving their post on Sundays no they're not they are brother B said ordained of God to lead you on so if they are going to preach somewhere it as two things one it's going to help the people that they go and preach to because whatever pastor called them felt led to call them and two that Pastor can now ask one of the men in his church to preach so like at brother uh we have Bo Mor on here if brother Barry coffee gets asked to preach to somewhere and brother Boaz has something on his heart that he's wanting to give to the people there at Hickory Tabernacle or hickory Bible Tabernacle so then brother bar say hey I'm going to be preaching at brother Paul off on T next week uh brother Boaz would you please bring the word for us so no pastors aren't leaving their post when they are uh going to preach of the churches they're going as they feel led of course you know there are is so much that pastors do behind the scenes that people just don't know about and so much the pastors are thinking as well so like brother Nathan Bryant he's got a balance you know 13 different preachers along with all the other guest ministers in his church and one way of doing that is to is to preach the word of God of course and to also other preachers to come and preach as well and go in their own churches too so you know like I know where the Wayne Lawson preaches a lot of places there they've also got I'm guessing like 20 different preachers in their Church a lot you know they got brother Ronnie long uh Brother Ray Ericson brother Nathan Ericson they got a bunch of guys and a lot of these preachers like for instance you know brother Jonathan Jones at brother uh Joseph homets brother Jonathan Jones is basically you know a uh let's say mo but technically is now taking from the evangelist respectfully Daniel that's a very carnal thought cuz that just isn't true whatsoever because if you were to say that then you would be saying that brother brandham was taken from evangelists when he preached all over the world not taking from anybody these men do as they feel led you have no idea like we got Paul awood here you have no idea probably the stress brother Donny Reagan goes through so when he goes and preaches somewhere else he feels LED also he's got a ton of preachers in his church that are you know here's here's what I think about preaching in a way like me personally I'm not one of the guys that ran from it I'm just dying to get out there and preach now it's really hard on me and it's difficult I got to preach this Wednesday but I'm a horse behind the sto just waiting to get out there so I get I bet I bet Brother D brother Donnie has guys like that so it's not taking from anybody it's going as you feel L of almighty God so yeah yes there are men that like brother Andrew Glover that go around preaching all the time and other guys like that and they make their living from that and there's also pastors that preach at other churches but they go as they feel led but on Spencer preaches other churches but would someone say oh well they they're leaving the post of Judy like would you have them not help like brother Ron Spencer brother Andrew Spencer they've helped tens of I I've even said they probably helped over 100,000 people with the reach of their sermons being recorded and the services in person so there is so much that these preachers go through that they have no idea like for instance Zoe black just joined her her pastor's brother Wade or brother Dale and uh and let's say brother Dale needs to go preach somewhere or or he gets asked to brother Dale that I know of he's got brother uh Luis Oro brother Bob black and other preachers and these guys are just dying to get up there and preach so let's see Caleb B what's up Han Kinser what's up Isaiah price welcome to the live let's see but wait laughing crying face remember guys when I'm answering these questions these aren't these aren't my opinions like seriously this is one of the topics where I'd say no this is the facts like 100% there are people that do things wrong of course but my father's a pastor I'm the only preacher in the church besides my dad so uh but wait pastors are Shepherds Shepherds don't leave their sheep to go watch other sheep just a thought I see where you're coming from okay well would you tell then brother Donnie Reagan or brother Andrew Spencer brother Ron Spencer or brother brandom they were wrong would you because yeah there's Shepherds you know who technically the real Shepherd of uh the flock was in in uh the book of 1 Samuel Jesse but he had his son do it instead of him because it was a responsibility inside of a church inside of a local church let's say um let's say when uh for instance when I first started the uh let's no but you see you don't go by other men's lives you go as God leads you I'm not sure what you mean by that Caleb I'm going to need you to uh tell me what you mean by that no but see you don't go by other men's lives you go as God leads you you're going to have to tell me what you mean by that um let's see wait past are Shepherds Shepherds don't leave their sheep to go watch other sheep just a thought it's a thought but it's not a true thought like usually I'll I'll you know give a bit of discussion but this is the word of God and I can pretty much no I can say that's wrong you have no idea what's going through these guys' heads and what they actually go through on a uh a nightly basis like when I say ask your pastor to some peoples in their churches that's hard for them because they don't get to talk they don't live in the same building as their Pastor you know they uh their dad's not their Pastor they can't always just talk to him so it's different so it's a wrong thought to say oh well they're abandon their post no they're not they're going as they feel L these are some of the most let's see Caleb uh but if God called you to certain group shouldn't you stay at your post for the most part well they do for one but they go as they feel L what's up brother ban Ericson or sister Al is it Sister Elma it's hard for me to convey a thought in this chat you can join the live if you'd like man I'll let you on so yeah it's uh like respectfully it just seems like you're just lining out all of these pastures I got to say it I mean you know they're helping thousands of people and uh like every time brother uh Wendell Martin goes and preaches somewhere bro he's probably got 10 preachers that are just dying to get out there in the field or just to get out there and preach or maybe God led him to have them preach because my dad for instance he's not one of those guys that leaves he doesn't like leaving ever he's been gone for the last couple weeks and uh he had brother Brian Crow brother Jonathan Jones and uh P let's see Daniel Moore personally I think that's not right will Daniel moer I got to tell you you're wrong like usually I don't say something like that but you're you're just wrong like unequivocally now if these if a pastor is going to preach somewhere else and he isn't light of God and God is leading him to stay at his church and preach more services at his own church he's he's wrong how do I know because in order for you to be right then every single pastor we look up to in the message would be wrong and Daniel MO is right so it'd be wrong if they're not going according to the leading of the Lord Jesus Christ but they are of course going according to the leading of God so cuz that's not what brother brandom say well tell me Daniel show me what brother brand say about it like actually you know what Daniel I'd be really careful I was ping it with a bit of a smile I'm going to be pretty serious now you need to be careful speaking against men of God like big time like you got to be balanced because let's see Caleb another Caleb uh yes but you say about leading thousands of C brother Braham also said that women shouldn't preach no matter how many Souls she's winning not verba and I know this a different topic um but the vandom also said that also talked about the women preaches that he liked so um I was being nice before but he said for the pastors do not leave his post of Duty well brother here's the thing would you T are you in order for you to be right you would have to be telling me that every single pastor preaching other churches in this message isn't BL of God let's see so wait now women should preach I'm not following you brother brandham in the sermon looking at the Unseen there's lady that uh was preaching that had preached there and he said it was real neat to go there to uh to be in the study where she usually studed before she went out and preached excuse me so like sure Bible teaches against it but that doesn't mean God God doesn't use woman woman preachers no in the denominations of course we're not going to have them in the message but there are places where there's Baptist Churches or a Pentecostal church or they've got a woman preacher it's not according to the Bible but it's and it's not the perfect will of God but God will use it to help people so it's a hard thing you know these people go as they feel led now there are if there is a pastor that's not going the way of the Lord Jesus Christ and he's not LED of God and he's going in preaching every else but not his own church I wouldn't even say that I think he's wrong I'd say that that's between him and God because it's not our business to line out every single Pastor in the message like maybe I'm just miss interpreting you Caleb and Daniel uh let's see right what Paul said a woman should keep quiet the church every angel from heaven tells you do not disagreeing with brandom call him brother brandom I don't like being him being called brandom like that that's what believe the sign people do I know you you didn't mean that but you got to call him brother Brown um I'm just saying you need to do a lot more research before you speak all right Daniel you're gone I'm not going to have it period I need maturity on the lives and the thought that I'm going to say brother Ron Spencer brother Donnie Reagan brother Wendell Martin uh brother Wayne Lawson and all these people are wrong and I'm right it's arrogant and I'm not going to have it period from anyone because I've been to places where I've had brother Ron Spencer a pastor preach and it changed my life I've been to uh places where brother Donnie Reagan was preaching and it changed my life the service where I got the Holy Ghost was where brother Craig Boer who was a pastor at the time was preaching like a thousand miles away from his regular church I agree to call by the B well you're fine I'm guessing you didn't I'm assuming you didn't mean to say you meant to to say brother when you said brand it's all fine I'm I'm assume you didn't mean it but it's a uh you know it's it's a perfect will thing like was you know like uh what's his name Oral Roberts and Billy Graham they're light of God of course and uh they're the two angels with the Bram said or something like that and uh I say I'm not saying they shouldn't I'm saying moderation I'm living all the time but not constantly gone well I would understand I guess if the people miss their paast or whatever else but you got to understand something these brothers are LED of God they are and you got to be careful speaking against it you have to be you know I'd literally rather die than speak a word against Brother David mors really outside of my father the man I respect the most on this Earth is David moris Brother David mors I've only had a couple of interactions with with him I'm the he's the I'm he is the reason why I exist in some ways because he told my parents I wouldn't be so sure that you done have any kids after they had Sarah so then I you know I saw him and talked to him right being careful and trying to be respectful you're fine Caleb don't worry about it I'm just telling you that instead of worrying about U oh well this person that just focuses on you because you know these men they're helping thousands and thousands of people and you have no idea the stress that goes into meetings brother Ron Spencer the gift of discernment spoke to brother I believe it was brother uh brother brother Daniel I think it was brother Shawn Martin the pastor he said Satan's been telling you that you're worthless and that you have accomplish nothing I'm here to tell you that that's a lie God L him so yeah need to get all but I would actually say that I have a valid uh a valid uh I wouldn't even say opinion but a fact of a point of view say David want to buy a truck no they're too big they're cool I mean when I I worked at the Ford dealership my favorite car one of my favorites was the F-150 it was super cool um but I I like uh I'm going to get I think I'm going get a cheaper car when I when I buy one and uh spend a couple thousand dollars putting a super expensive sound system in it take my pills I'll give you a heck of a deal need it gone well what do you got Caleb what year how many miles how much let's see need a gun I got to sound syst and they're ready for you really okay okay you had my uh you had my interest but now you have my [Laughter] attention you got to tell me more about this truck Caleb come on tell me about it oh man yeah yeah tell me about the truck man while you're telling me about that I let's see well I didn't mean to say anything I certain just asking questions you're fine Caleb it's all good in these things that I'm telling you my dad's been a pastor my entire life so uh so I mean I I believe me these guys are they're they going according to the leading of God so wouldn't worry too much about it what's up Josh welcome to the live Josh you could come on if you wanted so Caleb 2010 I'm sorry no no no I I can't look GMC Sierra bro I worked at a Ford dealership I'm not buying no garbage GMC I'm sure it's nice but it's no Ford sorry I can't do it Caleb I can't it's got to be Ford they're the best or a cyber truck but you don't have that so Ford is the best I'm sorry I I can't look I'm sure it's cool but Ford built Ford tough bestselling truck in America 46 years years Neal for a reason I'm sorry I can't I can't do it but I tell your for out the ditch any given day with the Cyber truck tow us both out yeah I guess uh Ford stands for fix or repair daily or uh fix or uh found on the road dead it's here just calling your name d David then why are you selling it there you go why are you selling it it's such beautiful things he's selling it cuz he wants to buy a Ford how much are you selling a for Caleb let's see so let me let me give you let me guess here 20110 gmcf 150,000 Mi so 4x4 3in lifts 35 and semma really good sound system I'm guessing it's going to be what 18 18,000 what's up guys so we got Caleb brany Caleb Smith zo black Emily or I'm a Sanger Jody Newman and Ranna weeks very cool I'm asking 15 I was pretty close actually 185 okay that's a lot of money very cool I don't know to be interesting what's up Miss film bias welcome to the live de Lia how's it going so this has been fun pretty interesting super fun live right out of the gate pastor that's hilarious sorry questions guys comments comments concerns all right what do you guys think one of these statements is children should not watch television do you guys think that's accurate do you think children shouldn't be watching television excuse me uh let's see do you think children should watch television guys do you guys think they shouldn't watch television that's certainly an interesting thought I mean I think children shouldn't be losers I think that's the more important thing what's up Emma cockman welcome to live so children should not watch television well I think it's more to do with everything surrounding it than the actual uh watching of it see limited screen time but not no screen time interesting well what would your system be Caleb like what's your structure of how you do it would you like say you know do your chores to your school then you get an hour watching TV which I'm not going to have a TV server I think you can get Netflix or something like that but um or what it just depends what uh what would your system be whe Cuts hello welcome to life what would your what what would your system be because you know you want your kids to be cool and amazing workers like what I was raised I don't know what the exact term of it is but I was raised when they like I've I've watched I've used things everywhere from VCRs to DVDs to streaming services so I went through the whole boom of the everything when shorts you know Instagram wheels and all that got super popular and Trump became president all these different things so it's certainly uh interesting right personally I wouldn't have a TV but yes responsibilities first but right well yeah it depends like I mean I know several movies where I I think I want my kids to watch it but I'll probably download them and then uh edit them edit out certain parts or use vid angel or something like that and then watch them because there's certain things that are just awesome that I think you know it's it's important for a kid to see important for a kid having his life um it depends on the kid though and it depends on the parents it really really does I mean I don't think it's right you say oh children shouldn't watch television I think children shouldn't be losers that's what I think I think you should you're trying to build your children into men and women and you want them to be successful see brother brandham spoke highly of certain movies correct like the Ten Commandments yeah he did he did spoke highly of the Ten Commandments it's a great movie he actually preached a sermon called uh teaching on Moses and he uh he brought he had all the kids sit in the front to uh listen to him so it was was pretty cool pretty pretty cool so I mean it's a children shouldn't become losers where they have no personality because they watch watch uh because I'm watching TV all the time of course but you you should teach them uh responsibility and earning what they want or what they don't want that's more important than legalist idea of no TV or extra whatever just don't be a loser it sounds strange but I believe it don't don't don't be a loser that's my main point with all this stuff be awesome my parents may be awesome by God's grace so it's uh it depends it depends you guys have any more thoughts on children should not watch television or do you want me to go to the next question let me know just in case somebody else had a thought on it I need another [Music] drink all right I'm going assume it's a no I can wa always go back and do it someone put thing on there let's see next question how to start a blog so what is exactly is a Blog I know what it is I'm looking up the definition for Simplicity sake so blog is a regular visited website or updated website or web page typically run by one individual or small group that is written informal or conversational style so it's like talking about your life um just press record all right this these whole lives is just me starting live and talking like literally the entire thing is just me pressing record and talking that's that's all that it is I I'll plan things ahead I'll guess on and stuff like that which I've got it from there but when I initially started what's up Cale B what's up Annie Thompson when I initially started all I did was press record and talk and you know it was on the story line and people enjoyed it and then we went from there so really it's just press record you got to just press record and not worry so much about the quality it's going to come with time but you need to First just post stuff and then you can worry about the quality later so authenticity is more important than fitting in I don't care about fitting in to things that aren't according to the word of God like yes you can uh you can fit in but also be yourself so be authentic authent authenticity is a magnet either it magnetizes people towards me or away from me because it's funny because people with these lives it's there no medium button with people either they love me or they hate me it's hilarious so if they love me it's great if they hate me it's great you know it's uh just press record have fun that's how you start a blog and don't worry about the content the content doesn't need to be perfect that's something we get wrong all the time is we think oh well it has to be perfect before I post anything like no it has to be you before you post it stop worrying about saying everything perfectly just worry about don't worry about anything just just talk and people are some some people are going to like your content some people are going to hate it some people are going to make fun of you for it like statistically there's going to be all sorts of different people and you are never going to make content that everyone loves so when you start a blog you start anything to do with communication or like Social Media stuff just post stuff and just talk and be honest I would say be authentic that's a lot better like people someone said like either you uh or authentic or you just try to fit in with everyone all the time and you don't take a stand on anything someone want said if you if you uh don't stand for something you'll fault for anything you stand on something you know so people you know like me as much or join as much because I'll take pretty firm stands but but you know if I wanted more views or whatever I'd go all Jo to on people and it get a bunch of views you make every what you do is you uh people assume oh well you don't like RIS because you've got no game or you don't like uh you don't listen to people about views because you don't know how to do it like I do that's not why I'm doing this stuff if Sarah hross want to do a live video like yeah just in a minute sir um so like uh if one more viewers here's what I would do every single episode would be drama about someone behind the scenes every one of them every episode would be about uh my previous love life and details it would also be about drama in the message and I would not have any respect for anybody if I wanted that's not what I want them you also don't bring up anything controversial be super super lenient yeah Lauren Davis she's def Lord Lauren deagel she's definitely just the same as like uh you know Michael coms or whatever literally no difference so but that's not me so Han who are these people I would join once this works Lord willing so Hannah Grace I don't know who you are but sure you can whoa okay I'll leave I'll leave all right take me out okay where do you want to go what said me out so I mean where are we going you prefer like uh ice cream or pizza or what okay sorry um hello hi how's it going hi we were just in um we were just at church we're at church and then we went to Jason's Deli and we were like um we saw your live thing we were like we should get on the live and say hi and now we're here hey hi how's it going pretty good good how was service it was amazing it was really good per usual where you preach on huh what did he preach on what he preach on Hann it was amazing you said so what you preach now you asked me and now I don't remember yeah it's okay hang on hang he's gaslighting your memory give me a second give me a second just gas sliding our memory nice it up Thomas oh they're talking about um marriage and divorce right now Thomas likes to talk about very I need to bring him on that'd be great Jason actually is very mid we need set the phone up we're moving again let's go back there where nobody's at sorry what was church about you know what I think said it was amazing so I'm assuming you actually remember like literally anything that he said okay well the thing is brother Josh vinnett doesn't usually have like he doesn't usually title it he just kind of like I need Hannah she just kind of like uh just talks about stuff I it up unle bread that was it it was about unle bread I it was about bre so um the first service here come here Hannah you want to say hi to how many people a lot what's up man since I came the live went up like actually it's because I got on there but I had to leave oh just put it like right here hold up the chaos is kind of chaos Sarah I didn't do that you did it no I did not Hannah did that I did not she's lying that's beautiful but don't move the table Yeah un bread unle bread okay I could probably think of some spiritual significance of that but you're GNA have to do better like really unleavened bread that's it like stop it basically some of his points were like don't turn church into a tradition or just something that you do like you got to know the meaning of it and why you're doing it and the sincerity behind it so like don't just come to church because that's just what you do every Sunday or that's just what your parents or your uncle or your pastor whatever you to have your own experience your own experience your own sincerity and a reason behind why you're do pretty much okay interesting you say your own experience so how is it impactful for you guys you guys said it was amazing so how is it amazing for you specifically put the meaning behind it makes you really think about why you're going to church and why you're like he saying that you had to like keep it fresh like you can't you can't have like the same preachers preach all the time because at some point it's just going to get into a routine of like you know what I'm saying like same Min wow same like subject same everything it's going to become just like a routine of going to church you want to say hey to David Kain she said the ice cream she said another time she's gonna she said another time who that she that's my sister she's you said you said she's czo she definitely crazy then what you say I hope so good shers yeah I was live online do you guys have Sunday morning services and Sunday night services wait what do you have Sunday morning and night no just Sunday morning and Wednesday night what your uh what your password or who that was good yeah it was really good uh brother Brian Crow preached on uh on the light he's preached on light of Rights so it was the time of Rights and like how the world rising up against us perversions and everything else and what sight to have he said humility is serving others not beating yourself down pry good what do you think about uh 12y old girls doing Tik Tok outside how do you feel about Tik Tok I don't use it I think I think it's maybe the dumbest waste of time that there is like because if you watch it for like 20 minutes at the end of you were thinking wow I've really accomplished something in life by watching these videos it is an Avenue it like in all serious just an Avenue for you know 12-year-olds to do terrible provocative dances when they should not be doing anything like that at all pretty much those are my thoughts oh you guys want to see baby bunnies what you guys want to see a baby bunny yeah that's F the rabbit name for baby is uh put hold on there we go what's up boys okay I have a question now okay okay so Thomas and then we're talking about it over there and I was I was wondering what your ideas were what what no I'm coming hang on I'm coming wait okay pause I'm gonna actually join this whenever I get in the car with my sister because I have leave I have to leave but you can stay on here because you have to stay on here because I'm gonna get on I okay I'm gonna request to join in a second can you like do it like while you're walking out so I don't have to like yeah I will right now okay I'm gonna request to join right now hold on um in the comments who all is going to South Carolina Camp is anyone going to uh South Carolina Camp okay okay I requested I Have To Go's um I'm here sorry I'm just G Stu in my room it's just me till I ordered a uh a uh pepperoni crazy bread thing from Domino's and they just delivered it so beautiful yes are you going to South Carolina Camp uh if they take me up the weight list yes huh you have to take me off the weight list yes well see I'm on the wait list so we shall see nice all I think this baby bunny or this bunny just fell asleep in my hand so that's beautiful so what do you think of um of the live okay Hannah wants you to add her like she's gonna what do you think about the little mermaid live version like live action oh my gosh okay hang on I just had a little question Hannah do you see that bunny oh it's a bunny that's so cute hang on I have't Little Mermaid Sarah but I didn't I mean I think it stumb that they replaced the actor with a black actor because it was uh because it was just not uh it was not oral like I mean like they had a period piece like it's fine because it's fiction but I will say about the uh thing that they do is uh they made a period piece about Queen Elizabeth and made Queen Elizabeth black which is really dumb they'd be like making a movie about Obama and making him White [Music] you like that budny I do what's up buddy so what are some of your like what are some of your hobbies like what do you like to do when you're like bored we go you think that was your bunny yes but body of my hand just let it sit there okay I'm back I finally got fix okay these lives definitely these lives I uh my brother-in-law is uh he's doing a travel job so he left me as PS5 so that's fun uh I also like improving my electronical setup I'm always improving that um it's also fun to uh preach I guess sing play the guitar and uh reprove from SS so yeah those are are some of the things that's yeah what about you guys um no I do a lot of school like I'm doing school a lot so I'm usually doing school and then if I'm not doing school I'm watching Instagram reals you don't read your Bible occasionally when I think about it I probably should read my Bible a lot more though yes that's okay nobody's perfect yes it's okay what I was I was in school and Instagram reals okay how about this guys how would you personally if you could if you could if you could be a child prodigy what would you be a child prodigy in oh I already am what sucky oh okay so I was thinking about this David earlier do you like the black Spider-Man or the white Spider-man better I know M do they have MTO Spider-Man you know I got to be racially uh neutral here so definitely the MTO if they have one Morales go ahead you can turn on your music uh actually if I choose one of them I'd say the uh Maguire is the best definitely you found it oh you did we're about to play the Tennessee choir because Tennessee choir is top tier oh yeah ask who my best friend is is this Bud right here whatever his name is do you have any oh my go I just now they all are just now loading who's your like human best friend like who do you who do you hang out with other than your bunny uh my dad he's my best friend nice yeah he's awesome is really cool miss him so much I've been slepping in Mom and Dad too you do we have any more questions yeah sure uh what's the first thing you'd do if you were in zero gravity Flo great wow that's [Laughter] [Music] incredible so good hello floats literally floats Who you calling oh it's my sister what's buddy what's up my Nigerian Nigerian um he doesn't have a filter that's just don't come here did he just says was slipping his mom dad's room yes because they're gone to Wisconsin and I miss them so yeah is really comtable so Hey Brother David what's up Boaz what's up father Boaz we got David so what he said you're read your Bible what he say know what he's talking yes you be boys be got oh B Obed be got Jesse and Jessie be got David I can't St my okay let me see I'm lost too Micah I don't really know what's happening oh you guys are all good okay so you guys ask me a question and I'll try um okay I'm sorry I didn't hear you what' you say you have a question any questions for me I think something you guys um I'm gonna have to get off of here in a second I gotta help my sister okay would you rather have a time machine or a teleporter what what was that rather of a time machine or a teleporter so you can go back in time or you can teleport from one place to the other teleport okay does does the time machine go to the Future too no or yeah it can go to Future can go to the Past okay then time machine I could redo a lot of mistakes redo a lot of mistakes you want to do them again no like I could like David don't call me out I I meant I want to reapo the mistake here's do it differently I think I think you wouldn't want to because your mistakes made you who you are I do build character actually that's why yeah mean would you still want to go back and change them if they wouldn't build your character that's why I said teleport instead of Brother David oh my goel you like my suit don't call me Thomas you like my suit I'm sorry Nathaniel yeah I do what's is that gray yeah it's gray and bir burgundy and I'm looking clean tonight son you look great you just got out of the shower it's amazing you should have seen me in Hannah's glasses earlier I look like an absolute stud muffin I can only imagine the bunny the bunny whoa I love the bunny the bunny I don't love my mom or my dad bunny the bunny the bunny yeah I love the bunny I everything that I had bun bunny the bunny pies just love the bunny the bunny yeah I love the bunny gave everything I had for the bunny that's so sweet I wish someone would write a poem like that for me yeah I was crazy once they locked me in a room a rubber room a rubber room rat be crazy I was crazy once me in a room a rubber room a rubber room with B that's crazy yes so yeah set it up okay one last question then I gotta go okay leing how should guys approach girls what's up Thomas I accident called Thomas there go guys girls shotgun this time well girls shouldn't approach guys can I go shotgun some do happy go day to David that the best way to approach a girl is not immediately thinking oh let's date started out as let's just be friends know each other because we don't know each other David asked how should guys approach girls I'm helping them out good St who do you want to approach that's a really good question what do you have in mind David I forgot your mom's name I'm sorry you want me to tell you the best way to approach a girl sure approach her and say I'm the skibby toilet rizzler can I have your number and she'll give it to you of course yes that's definitely right if you ever do that make sure you get it on video what's up Thomas cross welcome to live again I guess okay interesting what about when girls are in their pods like that's almost impossible for guys to go through we supposed to just like approach the whole pod or what huh if girl girls are in a group of three or more girls how should guys approach them that way there some girls by themselves wait what uh you should probably approach them when they're by themselves because they'll probably be a little bit more rude if they're with their friends trying to show off they never alone and they're always with their friends um I don't know I'm like 12 can I turn the light on no okay from behind with chloroform my the right now that's hilarious from behind be smooth with that's what I'm saying like no yeah if you're not smooth with it then I think you should just like wear like a dinosaur costume that's the most effective way just like run I agree yes I agree maybe what never mind go ahead no it's [Music] f um just um don't do like what about if you start talking to them and you have AB to speak in your hand and like if they as soon as they start talking and tell you their name just rickoll them maybe I don't think that one's gonna work either what one what say that again he said he said something about going up to them and then have like a start a conversation and just like cut it off oh so like uh what was you guys' name again what's guys middle names by the way po that's what I was saying sah my middle name isce wonderful mine is Josiah what do you guys think about girls making the first move no I think um I think that [Music] the she's gone I actually have to go because the music just turned on Thomas kind of L all right later okay interet cut [Music] off your last question was what I think about girls asking I mean approaching the guys first sure yeah okay I mean I don't know I have to Mi some motions about it it's okay it's all right I guess it's kind of up to the girl guy too some guys are very uh there some guys are very timid and the girls are very PL BL don't like a girl enough to the point where you can't like man up and talk then you shouldn't talk I'm G have to go see you bye but yeah that's my that's my view on that your audio is only working I don't even see your video at all you're still on though that's hilarious am I better did it work uh we can just see all I can see is uh me and here are you too as well oh that's fine um Here's my thought on I think I think it's fine if a girl makes the initial move to say hello but the guy should control the interaction from there agreed like for instance for instance like God sent Abigail to meet King David and then King David controlled the uh the interactions from there most of the time it's going to be man making the first move but sometimes a girl make the first move um but I'd say a guy shouldn't depend on that he should uh make the first move of course yeah it's hard girls are on their pods guys don't know how they're supposed to approach you how they're not if they go up there and just say hi they they say they're desperate if they say nothing they say just go up there and say hi so it's it can be prettyy difficult for a guy not knowing how he's supposed to do it honestly think that you you don't need all these fancy pickup lines just go up there and say hi I'm David or whatever and see if there's any chemistry there or you can say something funny whatever you want to do in all honesty you're not looking to try to make it make it fit with any person you ever talked to you're looking for chemistry whoever you're talking to I have to go all right later what's up guys more questions guys send them in so yeah I mean you're looking for a chemistry whoever you speak to so what you can use pickup l or whatever else but in all H you're looking for someone that you get along with someone that you're going to want to be with for the rest of your life bro if Ching a group do single out yeah that is true you know that's why I was asking because like guys are like you know how are we supposed to do like for instance like there's Church camps and there's guys don't have any youth in their churches and they're wondering how are we supposed to approach this girl that they like when they're in their group and they just stay in their group and they're always in their group and you can never not approach them and people think that when I talk about this I'm talking about my personal situation not I mean this situation it's not me it's every single God you know unless the guys go to church with them or a part go to Big Church a big youth group they're going to be struggling with that wondering how are we supposed to approach this subject they're not knowing and they don't know if they'll come desperate or whatever else if she's in a group don't single around there's that you can also whatever I mean people make time for what they want to make time for so if guy approach I think if a guy approaches a girl and the girl likes him enough then she will talk to him with the group um yeah yeah you could then make a move it depends I mean you can do that it just it just depends on the group I guess and sometimes the group is weird with the girl is nice you never know um but you're obviously looking for someone like here's the thing the book can talk all about how you have to use this technique or that technique or whatever else with girls if you talk to a girl she looks at you and she likes you then she's going to help contribute to the conversation so you and it's going to continue if I have a customer and they come in and we have we start talking to each other then if we have I've had come I've had customers where we just have great chemistry you know it's it's awesome and uh you know you never you never know what it'll Doone someone asked a question did you Minister tonight no I didn't I ministered Wednesday night and I and I actually song LD this morning and then I uh after the song leading there's the preaching of course then after preaching I go up there and I say some stuff to I wrote down some notes and actually got the thought for this Wednesday so I preached last Wednesday song today and then we'll be preaching this Wednesday night as well so pray for me we shall see how it goes Lord willing see yeah one of the things also is uh figuring out what they like talking about for instance my mind always is figuring out what people like to talk about so and one of the way I like to do this is authenticity and being transparent and honest with hand of Grace and Sarah hope cross on the live little awkward for a little bit we didn't know what to talk about and then I was thinking okay cool would they like to be asked a would you rather question would they like to be asked a dumb funny question and then I thought you know what wait I know what I know what will uh make them want to talk ask them how guys should approach them so you tailor what you ask and what you say depending on who you're talking to so when you're talking to a girl I would say that uh they are going to like talking about something they like talking about so if you can identify that and you can ask them more about it but if you know if they're just a uh a player kind of girl then they're just going to talk all about themselves and if they actually like you they'll ask you about yourself because they want to know view ship said it's okay yesterday I had like you know the the the view the uh video with me cleaning my room had like an average of you know two to five people on it get something of these it do now almost 700 so I don't worried I'm not caring a lot of the views come after the lives um I see I I'll get to see Ruth a few weeks also to her right me said hi oh I will cool very nice but you got to figure out what people want to talk about Hanah Grace and sah cross you will notice their entire uh structure changed their entire Ora soon as I mention how should guys approach you then like immediately and one way you can do it is you can say something so dumb that they want to correct you so like I said for instance uh oh just walk up to him recr them they like no no don't do that and that's on purpose podcast host I Googled how to be a good podcast podcast host one one of the ways of doing that is to uh say outrageous things to get people to correct you ask stupid questions ask controversial questions everyone has something they enjoy talking about I say maybe if they ask you questions they're just being a a normal human yeah there's also that and that's a difficult thing for a guy to show but I would say for a girl if she's showing interest then she's going to want to continue the conversation after the conversation if that makes sense like you'll see her at the camp you know have a conversation in the in the line but she's but you go and sit down here's a test for a guy which you here's what you do you meet a girl in the line of byc and you uh talk to her strike conversation or whatever and it's going well you get your food don't say anything to her just walk to a table doesn't have people on it sit down and see what she does now if she goes and talks to her friends she's not interested if she sits with you then maybe she is or at least to continue the conversation and it's not that you're wanting to date them because that's like a younger person maybe in a teenage years is just like oh who's dating Co really no you know I'm an older person I'm 20 almost 20 I'll be 23 in 16 days and I have to be careful with whatever I do you know I I whoever whoever I married I have to stay with for the rest of my life I could like brother B said I could ruin my entire life by marrying the wrong one I'm not getting married twice I'm a minister so you know you got to be careful with it she's not interested we go jym exactly she picks your heart we go JY someone like there was post that said what was the things that she said that uh broke that hurt you more than anything else I only ever liked you as just a friend heard that before when it's just not true at all you know it's fun but it's uh if someone likes you they want to talk to you if someone likes so life is value and if I like something enough I'm going to make it happen that's just my personality I I think I make things happen more than other people is birthday October 24th yes it is I'll be 23 so super cool I wanted to line my entire room with acoustic foam so I did I wanted to grab my bread sticks and grab the bunny while I'm alive and I did so I didn't care about what the uh video quality was I just went outside and did it you know so everything in your life you is uh see everything in life is a result of what you want or do not want so if a girl talks to you within about I'd say two minutes she's going to gauge a few things is this an intelligent guy does he have his life together does he uh have good body language does he have good tonality um does he talk about God at all uh she's going to say does he smell good does he he have good fashion all these different things does they love his family all those things matter and there is a way of doing things where you play the uh social game to date someone or whatever else but that's not something that uh results in all time just more of a that's more of just a what would actually be just a social game which is a game it's not a all life is a game but that's more of less serious game I say I guess see set look at here I put the bunny back with the other bunnies liking someone being interested in someone are two different two entirely different things most people that aren't critical narcissists are going to be nice regardless of or if they're interested or not yeah you're right that's exactly right people or people that are attention uh attention seeking Rockets like they are just attention seeking Rockets like a girl that just wants attention or a guy that just wants attention and doesn't want anything else but if you're talking to a girl and you talk to her at the table I think you should ask her hey I'm coming here at breakfast tomorrow at 8:30 you can me if you'd like and then walk away don't ask your yes or no just go and do it say hey I'm coming here at breakfast day 30 you can meet me if you'd like good night and then go so you know she knows and it's up to herl people make time for what they want to make time for if you had a solid first impression she will want to spend more time with you so yeah let's see uh Thomas cross what is something God has done for you lately he gave me sermon thought for Wednesday's service which is super cool while brother the Branco is preaching so I'm really happy about that so um that's creepy not going to lie uh no it's not creepy it's uh it's here's the thing women are intelligent creatures and they are social creatures but at the same time asking someone the yes or no question puts pressure on them right then there and if if you really care about girl you're speaking to you want her to have you want to have less pressure on her so you want to ask things in the nicest way possible to almost show indifference like you don't care whether or not she says yes of course you you care but if you say hey be breakfast tomorrow 8:30 you can meet me if you want and then leave it's up to her but if you say hey want to meet with tomorrow at 30 you can also do that approach but the other way it's less pressure it's easier for her to say yes because she doesn't have to say anything she has to just go there and meet you Seth King says don't uh just hang out with the Bros that's all you need exactly that's all you need just hang out with the Bros so there's the game part of it and there's like the you meet someone and there's actual chemistry so I think think that you know I don't like the idea of Riz being something that's super duper important because like it's something funny of course but as a serious thing it's uh you're looking like for person that fits you you know like a soulmate almost and uh people make time for what they want to make time for people don't realize that like I for a living I speak to people my job is to call people that don't know me and gauge whether or not they're interested in speaking to me based on how they speak and to get them to talk to me so if someone doesn't want to do something that I ask them I'll know if they don't want to immediately people make time for what they want to make time for for instance if you text someone something and they don't respond for months or weeks that's not because they're busy it's because you're not a high enough do in their life oh what if they were busy they probably were but people make time for what they want to make time for people make happen what they want to I wanted to line my room with $1,200 worth of acoustic phone so it did I wanted to uh get a 6 in TV on Mile so it did I wanted to get close to the best sound system possible for my room so I found an $1,800 sound system that cost $1,800 two years ago and I bought it for $625 actually spent more on the sound system than the actual screen itself people do what they want to do people make time for what they want to make time for so it's a uh it's up to people so that's why I say like oh you have to have the right pickup line you have to have the right no just be just be you spend your life spend your conscience spend your uh your being on being the best version of yourself rather than worrying about uh should I do this if a girl like me should I not should I say this should I not say that just be you be the best version of you don't be stupid of course but be wise ask them about themselves see if the conversation flows because there's several parts of conversation there's emotional attachment there's physical attraction there's whether or not you smuggle this style everything you do is giving off social proofs of who you are and what you stand for if someone joins this live for a half second and they' never met me what are they going to see David is a be David has a hair you know he has blue eyes there a shirt with three Buck on it and he has this setup in the back that the person has never seen before everything thing you do people see and they will gauge certainty whether or not they want to speak to you based on what they perceive you as one of the hardest things in my life is I want to be perceived in certain ways and I'm not and that's a hard thing for me to hurdle like when I was speaking about the Lauren digle thing for instance I wasn't saying it's wrong to listen to I was saying that I don't want I'm not going to listen to it because I don't because for me personally I can't stand her because I doctrinally disagree with she lives a life so people can take and say oh you're saying we should never listen to anybody if we disagree with them no or David you're saying that Lauren's wrong listen to wasn't saying that you're saying that Lauren deel wasn't as anointed as brother l Johnson I'm not saying that it's uh I was perceived that way so I needed to work on how it was being perceived what's up Chrissy good night sleep good what's up leam Mar Marie Garvin welcome to the L talking about things so there is a game of dating that you can do but ultimately like when leam and her husband yeah there were some parts of it there's a game and a dance and Pull and push But ultimately there was a tension and there was uh chemistry that she had with her husband before she married him and that built up into a relationship so when you're meeting people you're not looking to rise up every girl every attractive objectively attractive girl you see you're looking to uh connect with people right someone asked me once what's my favorite part of sales and I said when you connect with someone and they realize you're not trying to sell them on something you're just trying to help when they realize oh he's not trying to scam me he's actually trying to help me so with someone you're talking to be yourself be honest don't lie and they'll see that they'll they'll see the authenticity and then they'll either love you or hate you for it because people do one of two things they either do things the way they want to do them within their own societal Norms based on their Foundation of how they live or they live in a way to try to please everyone else is one of the two usually and people that live according to the way everyone else wants them to a way that they'll be pleased do not like the people that live authent authentically but be your yourself and be the best Christian you can be and then from there go as you feel led my mom and my dad and I said Mom did you like dad because he tried to use his game with girls more than anything else she like no she said oh my God no she said men men were have been would were trying to do that to me my entire life and your dad was different he was nice he was straight forward he was honest so nothing happens unless you like as for the Greg CER he goes for the dress of H church and he said David it's not some big complicated thing he said' David I met my wife we've been married for over 20 years but you know how it all started hi I'm Greg and people don't like that because they want to make it into a an industry almost and something really complicated but it's not so hi I'm David and immediately in that second within the next first two minutes of conversation they're going to say how tall David what is his grooming like uh how does he smell what is his style how put together is he how many times did he mention God how many times did he mention his family what questions does he ask what is his body language what is his tonality uh what is his eye contact uh what is his physical fitness I don't think a guy needs to have a sixpack but you shouldn't have a keg you know you should have you should be focus more on being uh focus more on not being ineffective than trying to be you know like Chris Emsworth just be just be healthy you know and they're going to gauge all all things and decide whether or not they want to speak to you because a girl unfortunately girls do something that guys don't and I have a I hold women in the message that are doing well at such a high regard because girls the message from when they were 12 years old have been hit on by all the terrible kinds of guys and they've they've uh developed a kind of way of saying Go away to guys so you have to present yourself in a way that would be attractive to them and there is a way sure of doing it in the world where you do you play the game and you can convince any girl to want to be with you but that is not the way that God ordained trust the Lord with all that lean not under that understanding and all thy ways acknowledge Him and He Shall direct their paths everything in the Bible and the message doesn't talk you know it won't talk about how to talk to a girl but it will talk about get your life in order choose the right mate if you choose the wrong one you could do them your entire life hey true to well thank you Le I appreciate it because I mean people like to mock me for stuff like that but is true and they say well how are you qualified to talk about that I have siblings with great marriages my my parents has been married for almost 34 years 34 years this uh this December and we had a guy in our church brother Ed Proctor he passed away but he'd been married to his wife for over 60 years so everything that I'm telling you guys most of it it's advice from them so it's uh you're looking for someone you have chemistry with and that God D for you like uh Leah you're uh you're Pastor for the d v he said when a man loves woman just because she's pretty there be an end to that like by the B but he read it and the tonality was way different he said when a man I can't quite do with the joh voice say voice is so anointed it's unbelievable like when I want to get anointed or like uh get in the right head space to preach I will listen to brother the Dy Reagan sometimes just the way that he organizes at all um but he said uh he said When a Man Loves a Woman and marries her When a Man Loves a Woman he don't know why but he loves her so he said I would even say that if you would tell me all these reasons why you love your husband and you love your wife you don't love him don't marry him you don't know why but you do and you fit and there is the initial game part of it where you're like hey want to want to go out with me or like hey I'm David or whatever oh you're from johnon City interesting so what do you like to do for fun and honestly the questions don't matter they don't people like people want to say that they do they don't you could ask a girl as little as uh where are you from as little as that any question at all then pick up up conversational cues or conversational threads if she men she's from Johnson City Tennessee or passes but the Donny Reagan she loves going to the In-N-Out burger place in town and her she loves her mom to death you got with Donnie Reagan Johnson City in and out and her mom those are four different things she can go off of so I think every gu should yeah you know practice conversations with your mom or with your sisters or with a girl that you know is just a friend like an older girl young girl whatever you know just practice these conversations have some conversational skills just as a Norman common sense but it isn't about oh I can game up any girlfri that's just so arrogant and that's not the way that God ordained it God ordained you to be with a certain someone and when you meet them he like but by the great CER told me DAV when you meet a girl and it doesn't work you get this and you're clashing what you want is this to fit with them that's what you want Above All Else and so and that's why I don't agree with the objective oh well this person you have to be this person's super attractive more attractive no you who would you rather have a person you're not attracted to that has the soul of a saint or a person you're super attracted to that's a devil you'd rather have the first one because you got to live with them for the rest of your life those looks will fade these things matter very very very much um which you want you know someone your atted to of course and someone that you get along with because if you and someone you can have fun with you can do banter with you can call them a loser and they'll call you a [ __ ] you can actually have fun with it you know um so yeah those are super fun things if you guys have any more questions please let me know CU these things these things matter people want to make it into a social hierarchy which I think the reason why a lot of times among the ranks of the message it's become a thing where no dating is not just say hi there is a you have to have Riz or you have to have technique really what that is it is the world creeping into the message ranks that's what it is oh that's just your opinion David those are the words of my pastor it is the world creeping in to the message ranks and attraction is not an objective thing I know Attractive people I'm not attracted to if that makes sense it's an emotional thing it's like a I don't know chemical thing whatever you either are you aren't so most important thing though is dedicate your life to God give God everything you've got because he created himself as a human being so that he could give everything he was to you that's all I've got guys thanks for joining it was super fun I enjoyed it it has been shorter because it's not as much engagement which is that's all good I mean short and sweet and fun and good and amazing oh you're not getting as many views as did before I don't care if I wanted to views I go all Joel but I'm not going to do that I'm going to pray and so Lord thank you for this day and everything thank you for the fun live please be with us always as we go back to work tomorrow be with everybody traveling home for the meetings in Louisiana have be perfect the Lord and what goes on if all this thanks to you father name of the Lord Jesus Christ amen all right