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Date:     2023-09-16
Title:    What are some of the qualities of my dream wife?- "What do you mean by" #0028
Speaker:  
Church:   What Do You Mean By
Type:     Church Service
Duration: 1h 14m
Language: English
URL:      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpISDGXTWpY
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number 28 where we talk about what does your dream spouse look like you know looks wise or character wise their likes dislikes habits and hobbies all the different things and try to get some people to join as well it's Wednesday night what's up Bree welcome to live didn't have much other things to do so I figured why not do a live about this Hello everybody welcome welcome hi what's up Anna so anybody can join with me to say what is their dream spouse look like hey guys what's up what'd you guys think of the rules that I came up with for the lives you guys think they're terrible amazing I've heard both at this point actually I thought it was just gonna be positive until recently I got someone saying they're dumb and they suck all the fun out so that's fun but uh what'd you guys think of the rules are they good bad whatever else what's up Zoe Watkins welcome to the live talking about what does your dream's boss look like not just looks like but character and other things like that and it is late but I was bored and I have anything else to do others if I could have done but I'd rather hang out with you guys so what's up Joy hello welcome to the live all right anyone can join let me change that to this anyone can go live and all questions are welcome topic is what does your dream what's up Lily hi William what's up welcome to lives you can join if you'd like we can go through uh what is your dream spouse look like I actually found a list that I had created like two years ago about what my dream care my dream uh wife would look like things about her well it wasn't really what they looked like it was more like on the character side but um well it says that ever what's up Sophie Edwards hello anybody can join us about what is your dream spouse look like um it's really late but I'm just gonna go through it and as soon as I got comments saying people want to join then I will stop going through it I think and then go on to uh whatever they want to say so I'll just go from uh there right after I grab a drink foreign y anybody can join no questions are welcome so have fun I got about an hour and 10 minutes then I'm gonna go to bed so hope everybody has fun I'm gonna text Lily and I'm going to text uh Jeremiah Sheffield to see maybe if they want to join that could be interesting actually what's up Catherine Quinn how's it going you could join too if you want whatever I don't care we just put in the comments there's your dream spouse looks like as far as look I mean I don't mean like uh looks I mean like character traits or even looks sure whatever uh hey how's it going it's going great I got it's Grace shared my beard yesterday so it's the way that it looks now um let's see I'm gonna find Jeremiah Sheffield I'm texting the same thing then I'll pray and get right into my parts what I my with my spouse would look like and then go from there um let me texture my Sheffield he might already be in bed actually all right so what's up guys I'm gonna pray quick then I'll go right into it as I go through migration 7 father thank you for this night thank you for everything Lord help us to be a fun time with message kids hanging out late at night would be a good time for people to want to join maybe and help us to get some cool good stuff out of it Lord let's get on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ amen so everybody's looking for a significant other right you're looking for character or looking for looks or really whatever else it just depends on what you want so I actually wrote this down when I was I think like a year and a half maybe two years ago so I'll go through the selection here or not the selection but just the options I guess one of the some of them are Holy Ghost and filled with character so that's a big one so um of course your wife and I guess any husband too it's got to be filled with character they've gotta love the Lord with all their heart and soul that's just like a given it's a um it's something that matters more than anything else and if you don't have that it is the foundation of everything else to follow if the girl you like doesn't have the Holy Ghost it's going to ruin everything it's just not going to be what's up Mariah how's it going to read the pinned comment going through um different things of what a dream spouse would look like and people can join as they would like to it doesn't bother me I'm going to try to show these as I read them too if I can I got a cool set up here with my computer so let me see if I can do this there we go here we go here we go that do it hold on there we go there you go you guys can see it now okay so let me try that dream girl qualities um so Holy Ghost she has the Holy Ghost filled with character there's another one her parents are filled with the Holy Ghost that that significantly matters of course it's always annoying if they're not it's hard but they've got it before the Holy Ghost someone's the parents feel the Holy Ghost that's a good correct thing um being in love with the message is a big one too like if so did you want you want your significant other or this is about what I want so I'm just going to stop the stock in the third person I like the girl to be in love with the message not just knows the scriptures oh my look f415 Revelation 107. I believe in God sent a prophet all the different things and it just doesn't get anywhere you never actually he never actually that is quite the list my guy so I made it over a year ago that got to be pretty thorough I could do the rest of my life according to what brother Branham said so gotta be careful okay uh in love with the message of course um loves music that's another big one they gotta love music it's uh I love music as well it's one of the key parts of my life and I love playing my ear and singing and everything else another now it does it is a lot some of these aren't they don't matter entirely you know the first three matter Holy Ghost is filled with character parents over the Holy Ghost she's in love with the message loves music um loves music that's she doesn't have to be but it'd be kind of weird if she wasn't in love with music you know it's a bonus it's a plus if she sings or if she plays an instrument and willing to sing specials with me that's my dream is to find a wife that love finds that loves to sing specials and would sing with me I would love that it'd be amazing because I love singing it is the best and I believe that you know I got some really good advice once from Zach Wallace at byc when I saw the thing I was like hey do you have any advice I've never solid these uh 13 and unders and he told me hey all you gotta do is uh is just go up there and he said I wouldn't get all complicated just go up there and sing songs and sing with all you've got sing with all your heart and I love doing that because the world's already out there the words already in front of you you don't have to worry about having the correct things to say or the wrong things to say or whatever else you can just read what's in front of you and sing with all this within you I love it for that reason um next is she's okay with being a preacher's wife because I know that can be pretty stressing for a girl and I'm going to be a preacher for the rest of my life ultimately does matter a whole lot um she's honest that's that's the big one what's up Gracie going we're going through what our Dream spouses would look like it's really inviting for other people to join me whatever people want to do really it just it just depends I just got a funny meme from a friend sorry um what's up Olivia how's it going actually Olivia you could join if you wanted we're talking about what our Dream spouses would look like I made a list like over a year and a half ago and I'm going through it so if you'd like to you can join if not that's totally cool too but so far we're basically at Holy Ghost filled with character parents filled with the Holy Ghost in love with the message she loves music she sings or plays an instrument willing to sing specials with me if she sings this great looking special with me is great place Management's okay cool she's okay with being a preacher's wife because that's a big one if she's not then she can't marry me because I know things really stressing especially if I become a pastor later in life I don't want to because I think I thought maybe the seventh day messenger it is the hardest job there is it's the most stressing job there is um but yeah it's ah really cool I'd love to participate into the live I'm visiting my family in Alabama right now and to plan it to head to bed soon okay that's all good Olivia it's all cool glad you joined us anyway um but okay with being pretty smart because for my mom life can be pretty hard sometimes and when you are a preacher's wife or just preacher in general people look at you a lot differently than they look at others and they tend to be more judgy and put you under a microscope and that makes life harder in some ways um but another big one next on the list is she's honest she's got to be honest uh there's very few things in life that bother me more than when someone isn't honest and straightforward when they be around the bush or when instead of telling you I'm not interested in speaking to you they just ghost you or only respond every 17 days or something like that what's up brother Andrew you could join if you want if you'd like we're talking about what does our Dream spouse look like really just character traits you know um that's what we're going through and you could join if you'd like that could be uh that could be pretty interesting um I literally the one you you joined just in time uh the what the tray I just went through was if I marry someone she's got to be okay with bring a preacher's wife because that's something for the rest of my life I'm not um I countless like Paul said I count myself less than the least of all Brethren but it's gonna be something that you know they're gonna have to be with because it's a harder than it's different than a normal life with someone who doesn't preach I've seen that for my mom as a pastor's wife um so the next one is she's honest she's got to be honest I hate it when people aren't honest and straightforward like someone told me like oh I'm sorry for being blunt and I people get mad for me people are like bro be blunt with everything within you be blunt be strong be uh be direct because it matters it's really annoying when people aren't direct and when they uh just beat around the bush or whatever else like I would rather be told that someone that they I would rather than tell by a girl that weren't interested me didn't like me I'm too there some to that then to never hear from them and just have them basically just it's like a it's like phase it's like a phasing out where they just no longer respond like they'll send you three voice messages you send two voice messages they send one sentence back and just like I asked you six different things in those voice messages and they didn't respond to any of them and it's really annoying so honestly very important and actually people think like oh I don't want to tell someone something that might offend them or uh by the way I have switched to Club Soda instead of diet soda over the past like week or so I feel great by God's aggressive feel awesome club soda and coffee so we'll see what that does for me I guess but honestly it's just it's such a big thing it matters very much to be honest uh next she'll move um to where I live that's a big one um it's not a requirement I'll do whatever godly's gonna do but I don't believe that God would lead me to stop being my pastor's right-hand man and move somewhere else um it's of different feeling for me going to other churches because I'm not used as much there than I am my own church um I feel weird doing not doing anything in the congregation because I'm song Whatever service or I uh preacher like my dad's actually about to visit um Wisconsin for his uh high school high school what's it called reunion and I'll probably be preaching while he's gone that might be four services in a row we might have some probably have some visiting ministers and I might preach two out of the four something like that it's gonna be interesting as far as dream girl should move of course but it honestly it's whatever God wants I just have a high doubt that God would uh that God would lead me to move I just do because I'm very uh God led me to be here God spoke to my dad to move here and preach and be the pastor so we'll do our best all right guys anybody's welcome to join if this is just me a little bit hard but hey I'm glad that people are here watching if you guys like what you're hearing please put some hearts or some 100 or some fire emojis or whatever they are or thumbs up or literally anything to show that you guys like this because that encourages me to keep going and um so on to the next one so she isn't legalistic legalism with all my heart and soul here's the thing there's a thing that I like to talk about called circumstantial righteousness circumstantial righteousness is where someone for instance let's say someone hates hunting and fishing they'd rather go on hikes and go swimming what they do is they say I think anybody that hunts and Fishes is wrong and that's not it's not worthy of my time and I'd rather just uh swim and hike but they have this little you know this self-righteous uh kind of hymn to it because somebody's kind of kind of way of saying it to where they're saying I'm better than you because I like hiking and swimming rather than hunting and fishing you're just like God you say can you say you can use any of those things against you like if someone lived away from everybody else and meet a Doctrine I was just saying you have to stream otherwise you're not spiritual because they live eight hours away from everyone else it's circumstantial righteousness so if someone like for instance doesn't like something that I like and uses it as a doctor and saying oh you shouldn't do that but you shouldn't line your walls with acoustic foam why would why wouldn't you take that money instead and send it to Africa and then you find out what they do and they spend all their money on their cars like oh it's circumstance or righteousness you can't turn your preferences into Holiness there's nothing we can do within ourselves to please God nothing there's nothing but then I said if there's anything that we can do to Merit anything in the presence of God then Christ died so it really bothered me when someone's very legalistic they're holier than thou they're uh I'm better than you ask and because they don't like certain things and you do and has nothing to do with spirituality whatsoever so what's up Lily Burgers welcome to live so is it legalistic that's a big one if a girl's legalistic it's so hard for a guy it's so hard what's up Jesse you can join this is meant to be collab collaborative with everyone joining I had nothing else to do this Wednesday night I go to go to bed in 57 minutes but I figured instead of uh waddling around watching reels or whatever else that I would do I would do this so I'm here I'm still here um and I was looking through my old notes the other night grabbing all of my sermons that I had from my iPhone Notes from my iPad and my iPhone that I had and moving them over to Evernote and I found this this uh wordpad called what does my dream girl look like and uh I actually had a few preferences there I used to have a preference for short girls I used to think like no they have to be short in order to be like no and then like there's a tall one but I don't actually care really the things in our character because attraction's so subjective like I know people that there's some very many people that you can say yeah they're attractive but you're not attracted to them if that makes sense it's an emotional thing you got to get along with them you gotta talk to them and be with them for the rest of your life you know as he's got um hold on one second hold on sorry someone was texting me um so where was I not legalistic that's where I was being legalistic is annoying so I uh I'm fine with someone having preferences but if you turn your preferences into righteousness it doesn't mean it doesn't mean less if you use or it doesn't it isn't more righteous if you use Instagram reels instead of tech talk it is more righteous if you hunt instead of fish any if you white water raft instead of bowling anything can be used by the devil against you so isn't legalistic if a girl is legalistic it's the most annoying thing it's so annoying uh the next thing is she cares about why we do things more than that we do them that we she this year's more what's up man how's it going the girl cares more about why we do things rather than oh we just do or do not do this thing that that's annoying I actually have a video of me uh speaking encouragingly to uh people on my chat on my work chat over two almost two years two years ago the 17th of this month if you guys would like to see that I can show you you guys can see me significantly skinnier talking about uh talking about just being encouraging um they had music in the store that I could not change unfortunately so um but it was it was it was actually pretty cool let's see if I can find that let's see how do you ask a girl you've gone to church with your entire life but never talked to asking for a friend but actually Jesse that's so good um I have to say I've never went through that because I've never had a girl my age go to my church ever so um let's see I have to answer this for my uh a um an approaching standpoint I guess and like a I guess even from sales in a way uh how do you ask right you've gone to church with your entire life but never talked to ask him for a friend but actually a friend okay if you've gone to church with them their entire lives they know who you are and they know you exist um and what I would do is it depends on how old you are and how old she is but I would just be an adult about it just the question is the solution like how do you ask a girl out you're going to church with your entire life but never talk to ask her out I mean I I don't know of the intricacies uh and the specifics of how people that have a lot of people their age uh do things but me I just be like hi I've never I I've seen you at this church for over 17 years that I've gone to it but I've never actually said hi hi I'm John nice to meet you I would love to take you out to get food if you would not like to please let me know so I can move on with my life you can let me know in two weeks God bless you and walk away I know that's very strange and very dumb but an iteration of that the you could like WhatsApp will you could overthink it about a thousand times and do things drastically differently I don't care but um just do just ask because like I in sales like my whole job is just ask the stupid question that's my entire job ask you have not because you ask not if you're not going to announce this because you haven't asked and so the uh the thanks for the hundreds thanks for the hearts guys the uh there's a statistic that the regret you feel or the hurt that you feel from not trying something is worse than the feeling of getting rejected if you do try something so how do you ask a girl out you've gone to church with your entire oh your entire life oh bro near at least what 16 17 18 into 20 years old um ask her out and be an adult about it and go in there being uh emotionally disconnected from the result so whether she says yes or no you don't care that's what you do it's actually a golden question Jesse thank you uh you say hey look I'd love to uh hey hey would you like to go out with me because in the message we really don't do that we have to be friends and then we have to we have to be in the friend group so we have to talk and you know what who also hates that kind of process just as much as guys girls they do they hate it everybody hates it but it's the social Norm we've created so uh uh just ask her out and if she says no awesome move on with your life because if you if you have your life together and someone rejects you it's not always because you weren't good enough because you were the wrong one for them maybe they don't like a weatherman or whoever you whoever the guy is uh Jesse if it's you or someone else um just ask and if they say no awesome be prepared to be happy regardless what to say actually if you're happy after they reject you they'll wonder why was he so happy I'm used to rejecting guys and then they hate me or then they're sad like what was that and they'll wonder about you the other way and this is the devious way I would never do this but this is a way of doing it become best friends with her best friend and uh be near them make sure you're in great shape buy an expensive car and just completely ignore her for like six months and and and and if you and her best friend if she gotta go after her friend that's not as pretty as she is so that she's wondering why you like the Kirk friend instead of hard because she's prettier than her friend but that's not the way to do it just ask her out oh my goodness I know that's a little evil but that is a way I don't know it sounds like a high school movie actually just ask I mean people are like oh well what if you see your ex at a Campland so like yeah it's probably a little awkward but can we be adults you know I mean we're in the message we're not like it's not like we have it's not like you know we make up you know 40 or 50 of the population it's just statistically going to happen how many single message girls are within your age group two thousand five thousand in the message in the United States five thousand ten thousands and then within your own little groups statistically you're gonna be in person with them so be mature be an adult that that's it I mean a lot of these problems come from just like oh what about this no just being run up come on so maybe being stressed out about that proves that uh proves that it's not right I actually had a really fun question actually guys come through the uh NK whatever you guys think about this stuff please if you guys have a different answer with me if you guys disagree with me awesome I want you to disagree with me it was what I'm saying because then we can actually get some you know conversation flowing um so because sometimes they're wrong or a lot of times someone asked have I ever actually been in a serious relationship slash courtship actually I'll show you this I've ever been our serious relationship courtship with someone if not do you still feel you are qualified to speak on relationships these questions are so much fun they're always just like the greatest of all time I'm curious how would you guys handle answering that because I'm not quite sure because there's a reason why people ask stuff like that anonymously have I ever been in a serious relationships like courtship with someone yes if someone's asking also I have seen dozens of relationships and courtships around me try and fail also I've heard some of the greatest preaching ever preached by people my entire life so what's up Lily how's it going someone asked if I've ever actually been in a serious relationship or courtship with someone if I haven't do I still feel I'm qualified to speak in relationships well yes I have been in a serious relationship and what do you mean by qualified someone actually told me this at a camp they're just like oh I heard you're talking about relationships how are you qualified you're not married I said so and so if you quoted Alexander the Great someone about war would it be good advice if you quarter dogs under the grid to somebody about War would it be good advice they didn't answer they went to the next thing so as far as being qualified to speak on relationships honestly like 99 90 of my audience is single so yeah we're all talking about being single and I'm not even talking about my opinion what people should do I was I'm the whole point of this live is talking about what my dream spouse looks like in characters traits laughs a year and a half ago I went through and I brainstormed and I thought what would the dream uh characteristics be you know she's got a really great relationship with her parents she's honest she's straightforward her parents have the Holy Ghost her pastor has the Holy Ghost all of these different things so oh if you're been how do you feel qualified to speak in relationships bro I bet whoever's into the question is real fun at parties and gatherings oh my goodness it's uh it's um always fun when people ask questions like that but I enjoy it in a way like even like there was most of the time I knew I know whenever someone's trying to tie me up what I'm saying and I enjoy navigating through it because in their mind they're thinking oh the story I get them and then I just go around it and it's honestly pretty fun in some ways but it's still good to try better um the next thing and actually I'm gonna change this the next part of the next thing on my list was she's intelligent and honestly a year and a half later I don't care if she's intelligent or not he's got to be humble here's the thing fake and tell uh I'd rather have someone who has humility and not that intelligent than to have someone who's very intelligent and prideful so that was wrong a year and a half ago future if she doesn't have to be intelligent what does even intelligent mean I'm not very intelligent my goodness why am I doing this this podcast at 12 44 in the morning the next one is actually very important um actually let me replace that on this list here she's humble uh the next one is she's highly passionate a girl has to be very passionate if a girl is just like basic message girl raising the message likes horses photography and wants to be a nurse wow so original what other girl would want to do that and those are fine things to like don't get me wrong it's just it's like oh I know what I'm going to get into photography it's like it's like it's the newest most amazing thing like wow that's like guys with cars like really the guy what are you into cars like yeah every guy likes cars all of us like cars and if a guy doesn't like ours he's a girl you know girl that's highly passionate about something no she's probably passionate about you know photography or horses whatever else who cares but I mean seriously just gotta be really passionate but if she has no passion and she's just like a basic person like gets up Scrolls through reels judges people picks on people Cooks food eats it gets mad at other people uh goes to church twice a week repeat and it's just like that's so boring it's so incredibly boring you got to be passionate about something you got to have some life some fire in you you know be passionate highly passionate that matters um the next one matters very much wants to have kids whoever marries me that's good I want to have kids if they don't have kids they can't marry me because I want to have kids now she has some female trouble where she's Baron or something like that I know a God that can heal that so that's a non-issue there um I've been having kids because I want to have sons I want to have four boys and four girls that's my that's what I want but I'm not the one doing the hard part it's really up to my wife but to have four boys and turn them into the greatest of all time turn them into absolute sons of God Sons and Daughters of God to uh go forward in the ammunition Lord that's gonna be awesome I'm really looking forward to that also babies are the best babies are awesome I'm also you know it's gonna be terrible that's great um let's see who else do I have in here with me right now Emma Parker Grace is Lily and Joanna Ash what's up everybody how's it going let's see another one she likes to give and receive words of affirmation one of the things that we go through in the messages guys is we don't get very many compliments on our looks ever we can get compliments on the Cs for the opposite girls will get compliments in their looks but not compliments a whole lot of what they accomplish in themselves guys get compliments on what they accomplish and not their looks if a guy is using Style any kind of style it means it's trying really hard because girls like that so you know someone who likes to give and receive words of information like I love giving words of affirmation if I hear someone being insecure about something or sad or depressed bro I'm gonna sing them a song I'm gonna send them flowers I once had I was once talking to somebody in 2020 actually it was like three and a half years ago and she was really depressed because there's the middle of a of coven so I I literally sent her a a a a a teddy bear made of roses to make her feel better it never worked out but she still has the teddy bear she's actually married now I'd love for you to ship it back to me I can use it beside me you know giving and receiving words of affirmations the best encouraging one another and if a girl doesn't like to hear that hear me tell her she's prettier she's amazing she's not going to be my wife let's give you what I actually did here once someone say that when I told her she's pretty it meant nothing to her that was difficult I've had some of the weirdest luck guys with girls and their parents most of the parents really strange situations that have been kidding just want more specifics just let me know strange things giving and receiving words of affirmation matters significantly um let's see what else what's up Emmanuel welcome to live the I think is the only guy on there that actually has a girlfriend that's great all right um here's another one that would be that's really nice in the wife is she's emotional like me what do you mean by how emotional are you David I can't watch your video of a dad getting home from the war or something like that without balling down I can't watch the trailer to fireproof or a sad movie without crying I probably tear up every day not even kidding very very emotional even though I'm very intellectual and uh to talk like to reason things out logical I'm also very emotional like I score like 99 to 1 on logical versus or feelings versus thinking ratio even though I think a lot and won't overthinker I also cry a lot not because I'm depressed or anything I just for some reason I can feel other people's emotions I guess that's empathy I have a lot of empathy unfortunately which is a good thing it's also really sad because I'll go to I went to a few funerals of my family's people are just fields in general from people that work with people that I knew I don't even know them but I cried because for some reason I feel other people's pain so it's strange but I do um so being emotional like me that'd be great you know some devotional together I don't want my wife making fun of me if I'm crying watching courageous or something like that actually if if she does make fun of me that'd be funny actually because the next one uh goes right into them next one big one is she's willing to tell me when I'm wrong I want a wife that will tell me when she thinks I'm wrong there is nothing more infuriating or there's I don't say no I don't want to say nothing I use exaggerated language too much um there are a few things more infuriating to me than someone that is unable to tell me when they think I'm wrong if they think um bill or you're intimidating or you can't be told you're wrong they don't know me because I like being told I'm wrong so I can improve um so tell me when I'm wrong I enjoy it so I can get better someone that challenges you not necessarily it depends on the context I'll get to your question here in a minute Faith Joy says I want my dream spouse to be of course Christian there was Christ in the center of their life and is one of the love and cherish me and it's also filled with the whole use as well yep those are all great things John those are gold what's up Madison Savannah so Faith someone that challenges you no I mean someone maybe if there's like banter in a playful way that'd be fun but like challenges being that way in a lot of ways no no I don't want that um I mean like if I'm wrong about something she'll come to me privately and say hey you said this and this I don't think it's that she shows me the description of the Bible where she thought it was wrong that'd be great someone is willing to tell me when I'm wrong because I am wrong a lot and it's needful I don't want to just you oh I don't want a yes man for a wife I want someone that's always just going to agree with me all the time no matter what like if someone thinks I'm actually wrong tell me because I need to know because one of the issues that I go through is that I'm perceived in a way that I'm not meaning to be perceived I'll need to come across a certain way and I'm not being received that way yeah like in a good weight loss oh yeah so much yeah sure that'd be fun actually so that challenges me in a fun way in a good way not in a uh you know like I preach something and then she challenges me on it or in public or something like that you know I'm talking about being wise about these things of course a girl that likes to discuss things I like talking about things as you guys can I'm sure you guys can't tell at all that I like talking about things I love talking about things discussing them um because it matters you know different things yeah basically exactly what you said not a yes man yeah not someone's just like oh yeah of course so yeah of course like but my someone asked me you know like people ask me like oh when you get married what you think about the house like bro I'm gonna have a uh of a man kid or a room that I work from and a man cave and the rest I don't care about it may be a place of bad basketball that's it she can make everything else real do you want her to be clingy what does that mean what do you that's that can be interpreted different ways Emmanuel what do you mean by clingy but actually you know let me Google this because I don't know exactly what that means uh clinging what is clinging relationship let me look that up a clinical partner acts needy dependent jealous or obsessive they might need lots of attention and communication physical proximity and constant reassurance that may also rely on you for emotional stability or validation and depend on you for their self-worth interesting that's actually getting pretty deep that's a good question Emmanuel um not exactly no I mean of course you know part of part of feelings for supporting people makes the guy feel supported nothing makes the man feel there are a few things that make a man feel like a man than being able to support and care for a wife like helping her talking her through depression or helping her out of anxiety or or listening to her problems in a way that makes her feel better those are things that are great and those parts of these questions that question is really really good um depending on your promotional stability or validation um I mean not exactly because they should be their own person but at the same time you know I'm a preacher so if there's like there's a difference I think between their natural personality and if they're just uh weak in an area or they're just like acting strange like there's someone another world or if it's actually a demon attacking them innocent in this security that they have and they need someone to encourage them and to uh talk to them in a wise way um constant reassurance not exactly I kind of wanted to be sure of who she is in Jesus Christ of course you know she'll still have uh insecurities but not someone who I have to constantly reassure all the time that it's okay that she exists um it depends I guess it depends on what you mean by that um I want them to be filled the Holy Ghost and led by Above All Else of course I got a couple more questions I'll be right back someone asked how many kids I want to have um I don't care because my wife is the one going to the worst pain there is unless I get set on fire for some strange reason um then she's in an experience more pain than I will ever feel in my entire life going through childbirth so it's up to her if I had my preference I'd want eight kids that's something my parents had um so there you go uh this is clingy it depends like Emmanuel what do you mean when you say clingy like within the context of Your World what does clingy exactly mean um you want them to have their own lives um it depends does she want to travel with you as a pen does she want to travel with you as a pastor's wife does she want to travel with you as a pastor oh would she want to trap Pastor doesn't really travel that would be more evangelist because pastor says his church but eventually goes from church to church preaching usually um I would love for her to want to travel with me yeah because I love traveling and if I ever get to a point where I'm preaching at multiple places all the time then um whatever God wants then I'd love for her to go with me of course love her to sing with me and stuff like that kind of like a brother Joe Adams where he's got his wife singing with him like I'd love to find to have a wife where she can sing far better than I can that'd be pretty cool actually be pretty awesome um so yeah guys keep asking questions is it good if anybody wants to join and go through what their dream person looks like and remember guys I don't want a uh a God card answer what I mean by that is sometimes when you act let's see there's one thing I hate oh yeah let me add this to the list of things uh have I ever told a girl I love them besides tell me yes I have and I was wrong to do so um but uh where was I going I've ever told a girl that besides family yeah I have now there's in the past I shouldn't have done that now as much as I thought I meant it clearly the girls did not mean that to me it depends on what you mean by love of course but I think love means that you want to be with that person and stay with them and being with them is more important than being right when you get to a point where they're trying to prove you wrong about something or say that you're wrong about something unless there's something in the word I if being right is more important than the relationship to them then they're not the right one for you but if you're willing to sacrifice being right to retain the relationship then you can know that it's really a good relationship um what's up Sister Mariah Glover welcome to the life how's it going we're going through what our Dream spouses look like and um stuff like that so I mean I I assure you dream spouse looks tall and his name is Andrew [Laughter] and all the other things so uh yeah if you guys like this but put some hearts in there fire signs whatever else and um questions thoughts concerns any people that want to join please do that could be interesting um another thing that A girl's got to have in life is she likes Dave Ramsey money is the main thing I gotta agree with my weapon it's because like in my home when I grow up or we're gonna kind of I guess when I grew up and have kids I guess I'm almost I'll be 23 in a month and 10 days so fun um she's got like Dave Ramsey she doesn't like to if she doesn't agree with me in the way to handle money there's too many can't get married to them because it matters a lot I will not have debt in my home ever unless unless it's on a house not having debt I'm not going into debt to buy cars I'm not going in I guess the only exception there is the uh buying phones but that's really not debt per se because you can pay it off it'd be if you need to and you'll save more money long term by keeping it on the payment structure but um I'm talking about cars I'm not going thirty thousand dollars in debt to buy a car or even five thousand whatever I'm not going to debt with my wife to buy a car or credit card debt I will never have a credit card in my home period I'd rather die that's a big one no credit cards no car payments ever I won't have it I mean that's what that's David and this isn't this is something we're like oh how do you feel qualified to talk about money I'm just repeating what Dave Ramsey says and he's a multi-multi-millionaire in the hundreds of millions someone said another question I'll be right back biggest someone asked biggest ick about girls let's see I got multiple things so let me write down notes Here let's see do you think that maybe she would love to host Bible studies for other women sure yeah why not maybe she really wants to to live to her for other women yeah go ahead and for the kids sure maybe she will I I have no clue uh so it's his biggest ick about girls what exactly does ick mean is it like I'm sorry uh I I discussed error version to its own what does that mean it means uh you just hate uh mean hold on suddenly flipping from a feeling of love and adoration to a feeling of disgust um when they have an opinion like for instance let's say I'll use Lord of the Rings for instance they say oh I if a girl if a girl tells me oh I hate Lord of the Rings I would never watch it and I'm like have you ever seen them no and if they tell me all about how it's just the worst movies ever and they've never seen them that immediately turns me away from them not even necessarily about the movies they're just movies who cares but hating something and saying no one should ever do it when they have no experience it does your idea what they're talking about that's a big that's a big annoyance that amazingly goes and you're like oh this person's amazing and I'm attracted to them like really are you kidding me and so I was like oh I I know I've never seen this but it's just not worthy of my times it's like what you know it goes similar to the thing I said earlier someone loves uh hiking and fishing but they hate swimming and Hiking they love hiking and fishing but they hate them so uh hunting and fishing they're just preferences guys they're not they're not stamped they're not stamps of righteousness you're not more holy less holy depending on whether or not you do those things so not being open-minded about something right yeah if a girl has her closed now when it comes to the message we believe what we believe of course that's for sure but if someone's not open-minded about somebody that really hurts because I'm just then just like you got to realize other people have different ways of looking at things and they think they're just as right as you do um so yeah like not having an open mind really does bother me um because you never know I mean I I I can say what I mean personally I I've seen one Harry Potter movie in my entire life just to see what it was and I didn't like it because they bore the lines between good and evil now if I said the entire franchise is the most rotten thing to ever exist I've never seen them I can tell you that it's all just magic it's a good storyline it's a it's an entertaining storyline and a good they have a good sound they have a good music on the soundtrack but I've never seen all of them I wouldn't want to because they're very dark and good guys are bad guys bad guys are good guys and the there's literal literally the entire point of it is become the best wizard the Bible talks about being against wizard so you know but not having a good mind what's up Zach black welcome to the live guys Zack's old home phone number they don't have any more so I can say it 770-889-2168 talking about uh what our Dream spouses look like no one actually has actually one person put in a paragraph So a few things Having the Holy Ghost being led of God stuff like that but what does your dream's best look like I'm sure uh to extreme spouse is a girl with a black hair and brown eyes and she's a health nerd [Laughter] oh man let's see X um what's up dude what's up sack I gotta go to bed in 27 minutes and I figure instead of figuring out what to do I would do this all right honor actually I also played some ping pong with my dad um I beat him probably about 12 games and he beat me probably about 12 games or 10 games or so it was it was a lot of fun it was it was super cool we need to figure out the lighting so it's different but it was it was awesome he's he's incredible super fun playing him honestly but icks um if someone says something about something they don't really know about being having an open mind do you think maybe she will always support you and always pray for you sure yeah I think that's nice I mean always support me and pray for me yeah that'd be great also tell me if I'm wrong because I need it I'm fine with it but like liking Dave Ramsey is a big one she's got you agree with me on money I want to have a car payment I don't care I don't care oh you can get a credit card unlimited 1.5 cash back you know how much more money you spend on average with a credit card versus a debit card 12 to 18 percent so you get uh to 1.5 cashback and you spend a 12 to 18 more also how do the credit cards make their money it's not by the cash back it's by putting people into debt and getting them to pay interest payments it is the most marketed scam of all time don't use credit cards the biggest dumb thing you could use they know you can do whatever they want but I'm not going to use it I'd rather die have I ever used one yes and it was the same thing oh I can get 25 off this 800 purchase by getting this PayPal credit card and I thought it'd be fine and then by God's grace the most I've ever got into debt was it the most I ever got into debt with that credit card was about 800 bucks I was able to pay it off I got scraped but I shouldn't have had it in the first place because it slowed down my life let's see here's another big one for me it doesn't ultimately matter of course but it matters to me she likes Lord of the Rings or is at least interested in watching them with me which initially I could think is a better movies it's really not because one of the Lord of the Rings is because it's the ultimate example of good versus evil resisting temptation fighting no matter what and fighting against evil no matter what and it's Heroes versus Villains good versus evil and never giving up light versus Darkness that's what I really like and her being open to watch it even if she doesn't like those kinds of things but she was just watching because I like it that'd be great because they're actually very good unless you're watching the chosen or fireproof or something like that literally any other movie or show other than Lord of the Rings isn't going to be as clean as Lord of the Rings statistically when it comes to successful movies if that's statistically true I know this is a strange way of looking at it but it's just true um so Lord of the Rings it'd be nice here's mother thanks uh she loves to travel I love traveling uh she loves to go outside and loves new experiences and she also loves staying home because I like to stay home and I like to go outside and I love new experiences and I like traveling I like all the different things depending on the day all of them because a lot of people say like oh I could never like someone to be with someone that uh didn't like going outside or even like uh purchase stayed in home all the time I like staying in the house I made my room as awesome as possible so I could and I also like going to the uh the river and I like playing basketball and playing tennis and playing ping pong and the earbuds that I have I have literally you I've spent probably over 10 grand in the past four years on earbuds don't worry I either returned them or traded them I got my a lot of most of my money back don't worry about that but I bought and traded and returned almost every major pair of earbuds there are to learn about them and find out which one's the best and right now the best ones are the senn has momentum trust threes there were 250 to 300 brand new I bought it for 160. and they are the best selling earbuds money buys and I've tried literally every pair in existence almost that are the major pairs there's a very few pairs I have not tried and they're the best I feel like show a surprise you often with movie Nights probably I guess who knows as long as it's a good movie so yeah these earbuds are the best so I mean like and this people like oh well buy experiences instead of a material objects but yeah if you're talking about the Lord of the Rings uh poster or a Magic Johnson rookie card the sign but like this is a material thing but every time I put the zeros in my ear I get to experience the best possible sound quality I can have in my ears with truly wireless earbuds so there's an experience I spent more on my speakers than I spent on the actual monitor itself for the experience of the sound because this is a dark room I don't need a real expensive TV I can just get a real cheap one or just a you know it's a it was like a 500 65 inch Samsung but still works it works great it's been even more on the speakers to make the experience better why do you buy a 100 Mouse no 150 keyboard experience making the experience as great as you possibly can every time you use it experiences so she likes to travel she loves to travel go outside she loves and experiences and she also loves staying home here's a big one she has to like this honestly she's gotta love to laugh if my wife or Africa the wife likes me doesn't like to laugh run do not pursue me do not like me because if she doesn't like laughing she won't like me a girl once told me I don't like making jokes I don't like it when you make jokes like hey I'm gonna be making very many jokes John James David and Thomas and uh they will be my jokes they will be my sons and I'm gonna laugh at them a lot because they're gonna be if they're anything like their father they're gonna be dumb when they're young and I'm going to laugh at them because they did my jokes she didn't get the joke it was basically her religion to uh not like jokes but people do have different preferences she'll find someone that's really serious but you gotta make you gotta like making jokes if you don't like jokes but it wouldn't be a girl that guy would like or that I would like anyway what are you guys preferences do you I think she would love to laugh with you and make your day better probably yeah it'll be fun making fun of each other is the best thing ever if you can't I mean if you can't laugh at yourself laugh at other people I mean like it matters it's laughing is great it's fun it it's it's it's necessary if you can't laugh don't do anything so yeah man what do you guys think we still get a lot of people here hello who are these people okay some of you I know some of you I don't um loves banter here's a big one people have gotten offended of my banter like if someone like loves banter if you don't if you don't know what banter is I can Google it for you banter the playful and friendly exchange of teasing remarks like you're the worst you're the best you must be the ugliest person to ever exist like what did effort when you fell from heaven Satan you know playful funny remarks you know they matter uh Salvage that's a big one she smiles a lot here's the thing I'd rather see let's say a girl is really really attractive and there's the other girl that's not as attractive if this girl never Smiles but this girl does in my mind this girl's way more attractive to me because it's not just looks it is personality and it is how much you smile because if someone does the problem what do they think they're so pretty they never need to smile or have any character uh so they go smile the more you smile the more guy will like you because like Memorial might be prettier than the other but if she smiles more I'm gonna like the one that smiles more so smile well there's moving people don't smile we love laughing at jv on tip 2002 too oh cool it's kind of racist Lily but we'll let it slide [Laughter] oh my goodness that's terrible but that's funny let's see there you go you know you have to love laughing uh she's gotta have a phone and yes I've been in situations with the girls real nice but she doesn't have a phone more than more times than you would think actually uh so good I have a phone that's kind of a requirement if she doesn't have one I know a guy that can help her buy one um let's see here's a big one actually that I would prefer in a girl she's got to be nerdy about something that I don't know that much about like if she says oh I hate Star Wars but I love Star Trek I'm like okay I've never really seen like any of the Star Trek films but I would look into it or she's just obsessed with uh health and food or she's obsessed with I don't know coffee beans uh you just don't know how he is uh she got me nerdy about something I don't know anything about because then like if she's nerdy about uh European cars I know a little bit about them but not a whole lot she's nerdy about horses I don't know a ton about them that'd be cool because then it shows that they have depth and they're not just basic and then the Love Actually loves something you know you know get along with them but the requirement would be nice if she likes Sports I play sports I also like watching some sports so those are important things um doesn't matter it kind of matters because I do love sports it doesn't matter significantly but it doesn't matter so but at least the very least she has their character trait of like yeah David I hate sports but I'm willing to watch you do what's up Lily and hope welcome to the live how was how was your day how was your service how was your life going hello another one this is a big one actually guys this is maybe one of the most important ones she likes randomly going to Taco Bell or driving around at 3am just to listen to music and drive like I don't know why but I love randomly driving around at 3am I do we're just walking around just going to talk about 155 150 at night or 150 and 55 in the morning when it closes in five minutes it's the most beautiful thing we're just or just listen to music and drive I agree she just likes Sports I don't know what that means Jay um maybe shoot a lot of travel if we wanted to Europe oh maybe she'll be from Europe who knows uh she's spontaneous she's got to be spontaneous out of nowhere you know that's fun it's an adobe boring be spontaneous here's another one she must like sports huh okay well that's a must for you Javen it matters to me but it's it's kind of a must that she supports me and watches it anyway like Mom some of them may not like watching sports with Dad but she does because she loves him because he likes it you know or yeah what Special Olympics Special Olympics hahaha yeah jbn's got a uh gotta watch his twin player watch himself play out uh she likes Electronics it's not a big thing but whoever I'm with is gonna have the best electronics there are so that matters because I have a lot of electronics I know the deals on them and they like to give gifts to people a lot so it matters um she likes gifts She's Gotta like gifts receiving gifts and giving them or it's just receiving them because I like giving gifts to people that's one of my love languages one of my main ones giving gifts away to people is fun um someone wants to use the scripture in Exodus to accuse me of bribing them what because I was giving them a gift they said the Bible says the Levites will receive no gift for when you have a gift received then it taints your uh view of them and are you sure David this isn't a bribe but I'm just like what it was a weird situation I said she would love to go on Late Night rides where you had to go out for ice cream probably yeah I mean I can't do it too much or I will get fat you know let's see she likes memes she's gonna like memes like bro memes are life like someone doesn't like memes you need to take a picture to them and turn them into a meme like when someone doesn't like memes you know uh she loves food like I love food with all my heart and soul maybe I think I love food a little too much honestly I should just push the best guys she likes food and that that that's a that's awesome ish if she likes staying up light that's a big plus staying up light is awesome it's the best it's nothing better than staying a plate I don't mean there's nothing better than like standby but it's just an exaggeration staying by the spot I like Sting and play because from the hours of like let's say 12 a.m to 3 A.M I could stare at the wall for three hours straight and no one will bother me and it's beautiful but if I try to make more fun times in the morning when people are up they might ask me to do things when I would rather be sleeping so there you go um she loves caffeine She's Gotta like caffeine like me I love caffeine you know or if she's like a natural hyper person this acts like they're on caffeine because caffeine's caffeine managed guys um even though these things have been ranked kind of in order of importance the last one is also very important and right up there with the rest of them one of the main things for my wife is she's got to be obsessed with something whatever it is like Jamaica what's up man do you want to join the live you can tell us about what your dream girl looks like But A girl's gotta be obsessed with something otherwise they're just boring Jamaica you want to join why are you live it is 1am go to sleep David please I go to bed in 12 minutes so that is why she should be laughing at funny tick tocks I hope she maybe Mario live is 1am go to sleep David please being live is fun because I had nothing else to do so it's a good thing to do those are the things um and of course another thing on there is got to be attracted to them no David I don't it's 1am 1am man those are rookie numbers you got to pump those numbers up 1am is nothing my name is the beginning of the evening for me wait you think my name is Jamaica what should I'm just trying man I don't have no idea like what is your name different than your username like why would you like mine is my actual name David Christine I don't know how you guys have strange usernames oh man yeah but um I'm gonna be attracted to her like girl can be all these different things but if I get in person with her and I'm not attracted to her can't like her and it's not even that she has to be objectively like pretty according to a standard whatever because it's very subjective like people are it's a more of a chemical thing rather than that objective thing that can be put down to a exactness it's just Micah oh can I call you Jamaica Micah Jamaica J stands for my first name I go by my middle name LOL oh okay what about if I just call you Jamaica is that is that okay because that actually sounds cooler than Micah in some ways I knew a guy that was named Micah once he was annoying and he was white but I mean he was very long I've actually never met him in person but he's probably cool dude can I call you Jamaica or does it have to be Micah tell me what you think you can comment Jamaica only David only you David just know you're special oh thank you Jamaica it means a lot to me it kind of sounds like Jamaica no offense law I could just call him Africa and I'm kidding hey you you brought countries into this Joy I thought it was Jamaica this whole time maybe it's just Micah I I have no clue man my brother Joshua was preaching it you guys at the dining Vegas church for the Youth meetings and with Josh is like have you ever interrupted anybody or have you ever been interrupted and Jamaica looks over me and I'll look over him when you're like die laughing at the moment that was that was a bunch of fun honestly that was that was great all right guys those have been the things that what makes a dreams best for me some of them are just things that don't matter some of them significantly matter if I had to go through them and say the things that do of course it's all the god stuff you know apologize for the character parents for the Holy Ghost love the message loves music it's okay with being a preacher's wife she's on Shamu she's in legalistic she's humble she's had a passionate she wants to have kids um she's emotional just want to tell me when I'm wrong she agrees with me on money um she's willing to look into the things that I like to love to travel go outside I guess traveling and going outside doesn't matter as much as the other ones she loves to laugh banter smiles a lot those men are significantly um she's nerdy by something I don't know that much about she's spontaneous she likes driving to Taco Bell 3am because I love doing that I actually meant to do that right after this why not I could ah she likes electronics gifts memes food staying plate caffeine all of them they're all they're all pretty good guys all right that has been alive this is something she loves to pray for you sure yeah I hope everybody likes to pray for me I certainly need the guys I'm not perfect at all even though the speed is looking awesome bye guys Grace I'm not perfect what about you guys in the last eight minutes here what are some things that you as you because the only people on this live like for the most part like the entire time have been girls so um what are you girls as things you guys want in a guy that you absolutely you could you would you couldn't marry him unless he had those things what would those things be tell us what would those things be and please that's what I was going through I think sometimes God takes thoughts out of my mind and then adds them later so they're in better timing what I was going to go through was this please do not give me a God card answer what I mean by that is I ask you what you like oh I just want him to be in love with God and that those things matter but that's the only thing you say it's not unique and it's not true to you whatsoever because you know who wants the Holy Ghost guy as their husband every single Holy Ghost filled girl ever those are good things and they matter but you know maybe a little specifics like the specifics for me stay in a plate caffeine Sports loves to laugh banter she likes Lord of the Rings Dave Ramsey she's emotional wants to have kids she's humble she's not legalistic uh she loves music she's okay with being a preacher's life those are specific to me now if I just want to say oh well she's got to have the Holy Ghost be in love with God yeah that's true for literally every person ever so if anybody wants to answer what's your dream guy would look like yeah give three give the give the answer of course relationship with God but I just put up some specific things for Joy what are some specific things for Gracie Joy Lily for Javion for girl what are those specific things because everybody's got them or maybe you guys don't know I have no idea if you guys would like to we are or Stephanie what Stephanie what are those what are those specific things for you everybody has them that's why I like talking about relationship on the channels because it's because people love talking about themselves and relationships relationships uh refer and they're related to everybody everybody wants is interested in relationships and it's really just single people talking about them let's see well I wanted to go on ice cream dates sometimes surprises me with gifts and is always praying for me that's specific that's good joint that those are good stuff surprises you with gifts what kind of gifts because guys don't always know a girl's like what kind of gifts Joy were tight what about you Gracie what about you Lily let's see the Lily's got Lily has the Lily Pop shop that she does so I'm assuming she's got a let me see what is even on there tomorrow uh the day after tomorrow night we've got um brother Trevor eamond on which I'm very excited for it'll be great Lord willing you make suck you make lollipops in candy hard candy and Cherry grape candies man that is awesome preview Mary it's gonna love you very much as you can be the sweetest wife ever this is super cool a gummy bear strawberry peach gummy bears that's really cool peppermint squirrel lollies that is awesome that's unique it's Unique that's good I have a lot of bad stuff and candles and new purses the only thing we can get realistically we have no idea what girls like for bath stuff we're gonna get the girl what she doesn't like because we have no idea we get the Ten Thousand and One guys come on as far as new purses I guarantee you we have made an art out of picking the ugliest purses because we're not thinking how good does this person look we're thinking how functional is it you know uh now we can pick out candles for you girls because they're candles I guess that's the only thing that guy can actually pick without asking a girl what to what to pick hmm let's see what is what is specific to Grace to all these people what's up Stephen how's it going overall I really will be happy with anything interesting okay very cool very awesome all right guys what did you guys think of this live by the way this is more about you know just spending my Wednesday night on something positive rather than negative or not knowing what to do and it's something that's good um and it is late but honestly it gives it takes some time away from what they say what's the spinner time on and it is positive it's something that's good for our time this has been going for an hour and nine minutes boy all right foreign I really liked this amazing job well thank you I appreciate it I'm glad you liked it all right let me show this before I pray and end this you guys will see for anybody wants to know David's dream girl look like gotta be attracted to her of course that's hard to fat that's hard to put into words um but it's it's I'll tell you what it's not it's not the normal actual uh beauty standards because like you know Sandra Bullock she's very attractive I'm not attracted to her I don't know why it's just my brain I'm not so there you go it depends but driven qualities Holy Ghost public character of the Holy Ghost in love with a message loves music sing slash person instruments with me is okay with his wife she's honest she'll move she's legalistic she cares about why we do things more than more than about why that we do or we don't do them she stumbles she's how the passionate wants to have kids she likes to give and receive words of affirmation whatever language is this physical touch as for when you're married uh she's emotional like me she's willing to tell me when I'm wrong she likes to discuss things she likes Dave Ramsey she likes Lord of the Rings at least interested in watching them with me loves to travel go outside and loves new experiences while she does loves staying home loves to laugh loves to Banter smiles a lot she has a phone yeah I've actually tried to talk to people who don't have phones and they're like 20 years old it makes zero sense oh she's nerdy about something I don't know that much about she likes Sports she likes randomly going to talk about driving around a 3M just listen to music and drive she's spontaneous she likes Electronics so this gives like she's like she likes meme she likes food she loves staying up late loves caffeine even those things have been infronted in order of importance this last one is also very important she's obsessed with something even if it's ice cream sandwiches I don't really care as long as she's not basic you know it's just preferences honestly I want whatever God wants above all else this is meant to be collaborative and it was a little collaborative you know it's also pretty late for everybody which is fine and I also know that by posting the rules that I did it deterred some people from joining which is good I don't want people joining that would just try to uh do things that Jesus wouldn't do because if someone doesn't like the rules or the main theme of the rules is what would Jesus do then they really shouldn't be in the lives but hope you guys enjoyed this it's been certainly fun for me who do I still have here with me Gracie joy and Lily very cool hope you guys enjoyed all of this doing it again God bless you all right I'll break we're gonna land god Lord Jesus Christ thank you for this night thank you for a cool live and a fun time to hang out with people help us to uh do exactly what you want to do Lord lead us the way he wants to go we ask all these things and then with the Lord Jesus Christ amen oh I was going to show you guys actually a really good quote that I I was I'm listening to brother Barry coffey's a five hour series on um um the second most important decision in your life it's like almost five hours long you need a really good quote now and I've been listening to it over the past few days last couple days um and it's on Facebook I sent it to my dad last night I sent to someone else actually we find it here brother random said and make the value fall of ditches now the king of Israel was aab's son who had succeeded his father which was had married out of the Jewish people married just like today when a Christian boy marries a sinner girl or a center girl a Christian boy that let's start something right then see don't get married unless you're equally yoked together with Believers you know to keep trouble down see now when God made men and women in the beginning he made their their Spirits then there's someone for you just wait see all right now he says in the end there's someone for you just wait there's another spot I actually have to find for the Barry said where he says don't worry about how to how to meet them or how to pursue them God will God will set things up so there you go hope you guys enjoyed it it's been an honor and a privilege with people and the goal of these is to spend my time on something good and to and to spend people's time on something good and people that were here what would you guys have been doing if you weren't here for the past uh hour and 13 minutes would you rather be watching reels would you be watching Netflix instead would really be writing reading a Bible instead we probably wouldn't we usually don't so and are you saying you're something good David by the bear brother bam said worst Christian can give out ways the best the world can give I can't but like people says I count myself less than the least of all Brethren so good night guys it's been fun